Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract
serious men who are fully ready to marry
them, but at this age most of our girls/
sisters never wish to hear anything about
marriage.
1. I'm too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I'm focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.
These are some of few statements ladies
talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious &
series of sex relationship with small boys of
their age, because at that age, they always
have high rate of boys, guys and men
coming for them, but they will prefer to
choose those boys rather than the real men
who want to marry them. They are still
young to marry right, but they are not
young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.
At age of 25-27, parents will start asking
them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are
getting married ?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside
of their daughters, not knowing there is
nothing left inside.
With all these questions by her own parents,
she will now be thinking and asking herself
things like: My mates are marrying,
1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about
asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, Allāh knows the best. I believe in
Allāh.
See oooh...!, she has started putting her
blame on God. "Allāh's time is the best" OK, I
agree for argument sake.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men
to marry not boys to have sex and play with
again.
They will start looking for serious
relationship that will lead to marriage, but
unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all
men will be asking their hand in marriage.
You will see them forcing themselves to
marry a man who don't want to marry them.
Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry
a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters
say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.
Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and
your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes,
that's how it feels like in marriage too.
Remember you rejected men because you
think you were too young. What makes you
think your old age does not matter to us?
That's why some men go back to their
villages to find young girl to marry when the
city ones are not serious about marriage
and those that are serious happen to be old
for them.
At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1. Why are you not married yet by this age
of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?
You will hear her asking you some silly
questions like...
1. Are you Allāh?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I
refused?
5. Allāh knows the best for everyone please.
At age 30-35 they will start praying like
never before, moving from one church to
another. If she's a Muslim, she will start
praying night prayers, fasting and dressing
modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst
out to say:
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband
not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents
for marriage.
4. I can't do anything with you without my
parents concern.
Dear parents, they have started knowing
your worth. When she was 18-24, she was
doing everything without considering you
as parents.
You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to
marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when
there are younger pretty girls out there.
Even if he chooses to ignore your age and
marry you, his family and friends will
discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will
be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those
men are married with kids except you
wanna be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and
time.
There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for
marriage who haven't been approached
during 18-24. But by then, they were busily
jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms
looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.
Not everything is about prayer. Allāh who
created you has made a plan for you. But
when you change the plan or miss the road,
please don't disturb the peace of Allāh.
Because, He will be busy planning for your
younger sister.
Why do we have high rate of single mothers
and single ladies? Does it mean there no
men but only boys?
Thousands of working class ladies are out
there confirmed single. Your Master's of PhD
is ZERO without a husband.
Yes, Education is key but don't neglect a
marriage proposal all in the name of your
studies. Both of you are matured enough to
wait if you're serious of getting married.
.. No time.
So realistic... As if I'm the character of the story and really suffering... girl should not neglect marriage proposal due to study.