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we are living in a country whereby all our orientation as an individual is to take advantage of someone that is desperate to have something especially when we see dey are in need of it so urgent.There are some period we must see seat back and provide a plan B for something if you want something so desperate it makes you loose your worth and reputation.

Five majority contributions of parents to sexual immorality . Gone are those days that being a virgin is not just a pride to you but to your parents. But as civilization crept into our societies today, it took away our virgin lands, virgin culture and virgin ladies. Who should we blame? Well everyone is to be blamed. But today let me talk about the contributions of parents to this sexual immorality. *1 Sex Education; Majority of our parents nowadays does not give their children sex education right from their young age. All they are after is western education. Read your book is all they always chant. Thinking that he or she will learn about sexuality through the books that she reads. Now in most schools, this is not thought so the child resolves into learning from social media and the porous society. *2. Negligence of duty(I don't care attitude): Being a care giver is not just about providing food, shelter nor clothing. It requires you to monitor, educate and guide your wards. Most of our parents nowadays does not care if their children have started engaging into premarital sex. They could even notice a change of behaviour, change of dressing mode and even a change in physical appearance. In as much as their daughter is not impregnated, they are cool. To them, the ones that get impregnated is the wayward child but the ones that knows how to prevent pregnancy is the good child. *3. Delay of marriage: If you ask some good percentage of guys and ladies why the ain't married, their response will be my parents won't allow me. Yes its true. Some parents will even tell you "how old are you that you are thinking of marriage" but if she got impregnated out of wedlock, you force the guy involved to marry her without wasting time. *4. Transfer of responsibility: There is a say that "To marry is not a problem, to provide for the family is the issue" yes it is true. That is why as a parent your first duty is for you to show your children the way of God and the second one is to help them stand on their feet. If a guy could feed himself, trust me he is good enough to feed his wife. Parents should not just abandon their children be it male or female once they are married. The responsibility should continue till you are certain that they can stand on their own. Let me buttress this point. Go to our universities today, you see guys and ladies living together (cohabitation). The question is how do they survive to stay together? It is a simple analysis. Its either both parents are sending them money, or one of the parent is taking care of the needs, or one of the students is working, or both of them are working. Now, if we encourage them to marry under this same condition, have we done anything wrong? After all being single is not a requirement to get admitted into any higher institution. *5. Parents and bride price: Go to some family that you want to marry and let them show you the list of things you are to bring. You will wish to remain a bachelor till the rest of your life. Marriage is not poverty elevation programs. So, parents should be considerate. For instance, go to the east, you will see a lot of people into relationships and both parents are aware but because the man is not buoyant enough to pay the exorbitant amount requested, they don't mind if they spend donkey years before finally blessing the Union. In lieu of this, I think parents should take caution and help the society build a better atmosphere where normalcy is restored and sanity is maintained.

Help each other Grow. A poor man always think d reach man make his wealth out of luck. And the rich man believes the poor is poor because he is lazy. A young lady who got married early thinks ladies who are finding it hard to get married have bad character. A guy who just get graduated and get a job immediately think he is smart than others. while a woman who got marry and start giving birth sees "Barren" woman as people who live wayward life and probably have "occultic "husband who sacrifice their babies. If only the poor knw the sacrifice the rich paid to get to d top and if the only the rich knw the challenge that the poor are going through.none will neva form a theory about each other. if the poor can't appreciate the rich man success let him mind his business,if it is easy to be rich he wouldn't have been poor. And if the rich won't help the poor growat least he should not kill the spirit of a struggling man. if only you knw what people endure or fight behind the scene you will always Thank God for your life,untill you walk in people shoes you will never,you will never knw how hard is the journey.

Advantage of private school over public school. Most parents have been trying to find a better school for their children and find it hard to determine whether or not they should put them into a private or public university. Well, there are advantages to any of the two but the main reasons the private university should be considered are: 1. Availability of study materials; We all know that most private institutions receive exorbitant school fees, and with these fees, they try to put in place all necessary materials needed for suitable learning and magnificent result. This is contrary to the case of the public university where the school needs to wait for the federal or state government before they could run the school properly. Also if the budget to the education sector is relatively low, it will definitely affect the amount of fund being received by each public institutions. 2. Building political and social stability; it is of no doubt that most rich men and women in Nigeria enrol their children to schools like this due to the fact that they believe it is only the private university that could give their children the kind of education they envisioned. Being a student in such university gives you a chance to meet children from the high social class, build your social connection and maintain political and social stability. 3. Increased chances to get employed: The common problem faced by Nigerian students is in the ability to secure a job after school. The most public institution is there to see you through school but after school, you are on your own they say. This is different in a private institution. They find a better attachment for you right before you are out of the school. During your industrial training, they look for a place to acquire the appropriate training needed for your skill acquisition and once you are out of school, they find you a job in places where these skills can be unleashed. They even send most of their excellent students abroad to further their education. The reverse is the case in public institutions, you find yourself placement for almost everything. 4. Quality of certificate: In the public university, a student will strive hard to study for exams but the end result is mostly bad. Most lecturers have some extent of autonomy to determine how a student should perform. Some public institutions don't even allow for verification of the result. So the student is enforced to accept any result being handed over to him. Students from the private institution, with minimum effort, will end up with a first-class honour but those in the public one's work tirelessly but at the end, they got what a lecturer think they should have. 5. Graduation at the stipulated time: We all know that most public institution is known for going on strike just like the nations and world cup tournaments which comes up every two and four years respectively. A student in private institutions doesn't have to go through this time-wasting process. Their lecturers are being paid by the school authority and they receive incentives which make them always want to work. Well, the private institutions have some disadvantages ranging from exorbitant school fees to lack of recognition by the Nigerian university commission (NUC). Some private institutions run courses that aren't accredited by this body and students out of ignorance apply for such courses. They graduate with unrecognized certificates and they have to start all over again. Thanks for reading.

Introducing myself. Hi am Duchess a newbie in read.cash,am happy to be among you guys it a great pleasure to me and honour. I love reading likewise loves playing games, am not that good at writing but with readcash am ready to try my best. Quantity Surveying is my major but am also into small scale business. I sell clothes( Ankara,Plain&pattern etc)and bags. My real pupose here is how am going introduce BCH into my business. Am willing to learn if I can have someone who will put me through. Once again it nice to be here and I want you all to welcome me into this great platform. Thank you.