Why is the church like this

There is nothing i like more than the songs of praise and worship been played during church Sunday service in my church it always uplift my spirit and help me connect with my inner peace even when I'm troubled I know that once the songs start going on I would fell a weight lift off my shoulders,could remember the first day i cried during one of the praise and worship service due to how touching the song was,I could literally feel the impact of the music and a feeling like it's speaking to me,that moment when you happen to connect your soul to the music and you see yourself flying round the universe.

But the church now seems like a no go area to some people and made them prefer to stay at home rather than go to church this days,you ask why well here are some of the reasons

1)if you do not belong to a department in the church well you are not know

Some church have this attitude that you must belong somewhere,to a department before the church can intercede on your behalf in times of needs,some church when you have a spiritual problem and need the audience of the man of God your department determines how fast the MAN OF GOD will take up your case

2)the level of times you come out to the front when the pastor does an alter call for money

If you are not the type that do come out during alter call or maybe due to finance or your spirit not willing to would determine how the church will interact with your family or should I say the pastor getting close to your family,some members of the church keep account of how many times a person contribute to the church which might be normal but some pastors use such list to pick who they would pray for and who not to

3)some pastors are found of praying for those who give to him while castigating those who do not bring anything

Could remember a pastor said that any body who does not give him anything should not expect any prayer from him and even if he should pray for such person the prayers would not be from his heart,now imagine going to your pastor for urgent prayer because of a sudden issue and you pastor now use the fact that you do give him things and not at his peck and calling to would likely undermine the prayers points you are asking for from him,you will see some pastor and members praising and glorying that person who is always giving to them and see any person who does not do like that as a devil without asking if that person has eating

4)in some church member who do not have are being looked down at

Some people come to church not to praise and worship GOD but to look for new people to intimidate and talked down at because they felt with the little riches GOD have to them is enough to stomp and vocally manhandled others with insults and trash talks,some even go as far as mocking a preson straight to there faces in public at the church

5)some pastors prefer to ordained new members who always give them money the title of Deacon and deaconess while leaving out the right people made for such title

In some churches once you are bringing to the pastor just expect a title coming your way,which most pastor uses as a way to cage such person who gives to them to keep giving,and once the person luck runs out of cash such person should get ready to be furstrated to a point that you will use your legs to run away from the church

Truly when GOD said that on the judgment day he would start from the church is because lots have deviated from his purpose,plan,and what the church stands for.