@Emerald97

Unexpected end of Betrayals. *knock knock* There comes a boy waking up from the sound of knocks on the door, he stood on his feet to open the door, his sister entered with a frowning face. It's a new morning her brother said, his elder sister of course. It has happened again she exclaimed. What happened, as questioned by the brother, She replied I just lost it again, what I couldn't manage, I lost it again, I don't think I'll be able to handle it, with expression of sadness. Her brother stood, facing the wall, looking steadily at his feet, What are we to do, since you've lost it again? The response was slow, with aggressive tone, I don't know, as the voice started raising higher than before. She continued with the same intonation, voice started trembling, was it not my father's fault?, and I don't know what to do. Her brother sighed, yeah I know it's my father's fault, we might not be from the same father, but we share same mother. Brother continues, based on assumption, your dad might have wronged you for what he did against you as you do claim, but my dad having triggered the memory of yours is what I can't comply with. It's definitely wrong, the brother said. But I think I'm lost on what you claimed your dad did to you, can you shed more light on this?, you've been keeping that from me for long, and it's eating you up, it's written all over you. Of course, I've got no option, I don't really have, this time around, the sister said. When my dad and mom were together, he was once a very lovely and gentle man towards my mum, but I don't know, and I can't really tell what caused a change, to the extent that, hatred on both my mom and I started raging up in him, based on how little I seemed to perceive the kind of person he was. The brother interrupted, And hope our mum didn't trigger something bad in your dad? But I got to know thereafter what really happened. Life have been messed up with for both of us, that we know, unless we strike our minds with positive impacts, to imagine sharing same mother but different father sound strange to me, but sorry for this, even though I can't blame your dad, it could be love, but he has really shattered my heart with wound of the past, by bringing it to my remembrance she said. But our mum have her own take in the blame, how could she be having external affair with another man which is your dad back then? Brother was stunned with the rhetorical question. Brother interrupted again, well, that have resulted to me standing that you're confiding with right now, should we just skip that part and go straight to the point. Sister continued, of course, I wouldn't want to blame you, because you, me are absolutely innocent of what transpired among them, and the we results it resulted to. But every words revolving around this are vital points. She continues, I think that was part of the discovery that triggered my dad,... She paused, then continued,... and brother, I'll love you to conceal this that I'm about to reveal to you, The brother sat at the edge of the bed, looking serious, claiming he will seal the secret up. The sister claimed both His dad and her own dad were intimate friends right from the High school. I was fortunate enough as my mum illustrated her stories to be of guide for my own path of life. Of course being a lovely and caring husband can't stop wayward acts, it's a struggle of the flesh, one can possibly be a mixture of evil and good, evi-good, it can be done in a way that the part of being good won't mix with the evil part. Advantage of Gun, shoot to murder won't interrupt shoot out of defense! As narrated by mum, she claimed my dad was having affair with another man, which she discovered couple of years after my birth. The brother was shocked, what?!, Gay?? he exclaimed. My mum who couldn't sit down to think about it, responded to her emotions on what to do next went to narrate to your dad whom was my father's friend. She paused again, in expectation of what is to come, on what she's to say next, from her brother. Your dad took advantage of her and confused her on how to handle the situation. Our mum had to accept the apology of your dad and his proposal of love he expressed, out of no choice and the kind of person my own dad was. Brother interrupted again, that will means my mother never loved my dad, yet hated your dad for what he was caught for? Absolutely right, but what it resulted to haven't been favoring me from the onset of my life. Mom loves you and me, but my dad hated your dad while your dad is passing the hatred that belongs to my dad on me, because my mom is giving him attention out of no options and choices! But I'm still in confusion on how your dad started acting strange against you and mum, brother interrupted again. Of course, my dad got to know about the affair of your dad and my mum, unknown to him that he's the source of everything, as my mum found out! Mum had to pack out due to frustration he was giving my mom and I. While your dad gladly accepted her in, with me alongside. Now your dad have started reminding me of my dad, striking me emotionally! Out of the abusive words railed on me, now I've lost..... The name of the sister outburst beyond the door, their mum arrived. The sister went out, while the brother was looking in awe about what he's got to know about the family. Emerald.

Everybody loves money. Everybody loves money! Many around do make a random talks on how ladies love money as if they are the only human that do so. Guys too loves money! The system of the world has activated money as a medium of physical satisfaction towards the needs of humanity, reason why the law of no work, no food surfaced. When you work, money is expected in return, to get what, needs! Rather than claiming Ladies love money, why not question those that are hyper materialists, and separate them as hyper extreme lover of money, because they believed money is what everything is all about, with no effort of getting it, rather than to sit idly by expecting someone from somewhere to gift them all. Guys are not lovers of lack too! Some guys are hyper materialists! Money may be important, however the economic flow of a nation has a very big impact on how money flows for everybody, thereby resulting to low level of income for some or many. Still, everything is not about money! Money is needed for speeding up of plans! For self sustenance! To get physical comfort of life! Reason why "working" is required from all. Money matters.

Affectism Affectism Lady of virtue that her hands was asked for in marriage, that has a lovely parents that took charge of her well-being from her very little age doesn't know what to do. Her parents endowed her with enough cashes to increase her value in the worth of market, so as for financially buoyant man would come her way for the asking. Her parents were expecting a return or refunds of all the assets spent on her, in disguise as Tax, sorry Bride price, because it's a business world. An eloquent young man doesn't know what to do, despite his intelligence in the world of economical transactions, but isn't yielding as planned in the nation that doesn't recognize his intellect. The price asked was too much and couldn't end up with the love of his life due to high ransom requested over his fiance. The young man tried all his best but things are yet to work out as planned, now he's in deepest confusion. Our young lady that was cared for from the onset of her life, that doesn't want to disobey her parents ended up moving on with her life. Now a very rich man has finally come as expected to ask for the hands. Price paid, all things are set. Our lady of virtue with a strike of wound on her heart against her choice have no option than to be carrying the mark around. Years later, both the then young man and the lady of virtue bumped on each other in a famous restaurant, Now the feelings of the then with the expressions of sadness started surfacing. Contacts exchanged, Days counted, weeks counted, naive lady of virtue was ignorance of how assumed dead feelings can revive itself. Lady of virtue's husband is a very classy business man that travels all around, Conversations of the virtuous lady with the young man started becoming deepened, now feelings are on ablaze. Young man that loves his wife doesn't know he's on the verge of trap both of them are ignorant of. Secret calls started sipping in, hidden message of early morning wishes, after all the virtue lady is all alone, because she's gotten a very busy husband. Mr Young man has gotten a new old time Joy of his life, and he's gotten someone enlightening his mood more than his wife, not because it's so, but he's shifted his attention to the lady in question. Conversation led to when to meet again, but it seemed to get deeper than imagined by both, A day of meeting fixed, as agreement finally reached. Finally, they've come together after long days of conversations apart from their first meeting. They talked, sympathized, felt remorse over what journey of life played out for them. Feelings on rage, staring began to come in place, Old emotional transactions began, holding of hands started. Oh no, they are both at the public center, it can't be, now they are back to their senses. After some hours of Gists, to return to their various destinations is what's next. They bid goodbye, expecting when to meet again. Lady of virtue got home meeting his husband at home, Young man returned to meet bunches of files to execute submitted by his secretary. Night falls, the lady of virtue was expecting a message, but suddenly she realized her phone is nowhere to be found. Husband came with good news on how he's planned for both of them to travel out of the country to spend some months oversea. Two passports and visas. Travel happened three days after. The young man and lady of virtue bid themselves goodbye of the last, Till when again, thought of silence flowed in her thought. Mr Young man have sent several messages, but unaware the phone has lost, and could not get feedback. The flying out of the then love of his life is unknown to him due to lost of her contact. What a pity on how lovers were separated again.

Marriage, the lifetime project. The subject "marriage" for those who are yet to understand how vast it is in handling, is really indeed vast to exhaust its dealing. It's a long-term and a lifetime project, From being a loving/lovely and caring partner, to being a loving /lovely and caring parents, it's really a good hard work that requires good and great sense of reasoning in handling any situations that may arise in it. The caring part, before going too far, by considering the first stage before marriage, which I'll term courting or dating, depending on individual aspect of its view, goes beyond money aspect alone, yet the caring must vent towards it too, because it's part of what makes life, in every ramifications. Dating or Courting is not for pleasure exploration alone, it's not a "let's enjoy ourselves and part ways" matter, which is why any dating relationship that doesn't have marriage in view, is nothing but a waste of time. Knowing who one will share his or her life with matters, and that's the exploration that really matters! It's actually not possible to know fully what one's partner is full of, but the traces of it can't be hidden. Those traces must be studied! Don't fall into the trap of being with stingy, self centered and nonchalant partner, don't think it twice if the partner is not ready to change! You must know how responsible the partner is, before venturing into considering the hands of the partner for marriage! To man side, No matter how richly your partner is more than you, don't ever try to jealously kill her vision, and that shouldn't stop you from being responsible towards the care of her, on both vision and responsibilities, in every facets, as a manly duty, even over the children to come. If it's stipends you are getting, try to stay responsive to the responsibilities, it's a well come of man towards His partner, and she'll, and must only continue to play her part as an help meet. However, that mustn't lead to pride from her against you, never allow that by calling her attention to it, because that may stir up negative emotional response towards her, such can trigger war. The traces can be known during the journey of courtship or dating. Don't be a lazy man that'll squander every assets she's getting! Don't be a liability! Don't marry whom won't be able to trust you with her asset! If you notice a hidden secret from her concerning any matters, ask her why, but if she remain adamant towards denying, let her be! If you are stingy, self centered, be yourself and live your life alone! Don't marry vision killer! To woman side, Irrespective of how richly you're, above or below your partner, don't ever act what will stir up negative actions towards you from Him, don't hide if you trust Him. Don't be with whom you won't be able to trust, if it'll lead to you hiding how richly you are! Get the understanding of this! Play your part by showing interest in whatever he do, even if it's stipends he's getting from it! Don't let ego ruin the relationship for you by you! I repeat, if experiences you've witnessed, be it from anyone is giving you unnecessary caution towards your partner, better stay single and live your life single. Don't marry whom you will be hiding your assets from. Don't marry a liability! Don't marry someone that seeks pleasure over responsibility! A choice made will affect your life in every aspect forever! Get the understanding of this!

Conforming Ignorance. Moving around the cycle of conforming ignorance by this generation, threaded by past generations, which couldn't result to anything worthy enough, should be altered by sensitization, through the learning from the ordeals experienced by the past generations. -------- Why repeating the cycles of what didn't work for them? --------- Keep a check on your lineage, whatever they did, that couldn't help them reach the peak of freedom in every ramifications of their lives, must never be pampered by you, face it and overcome. --------- They've for once kept quiet about a certain matter that required them voicing out, thinking it's a wisdom to do so, but unknown to them that it's a step towards stagnation and backwardness, to mental torturing and suffering infliction. --------- They've for once voiced out over a matter where they ought to be silen, thinking it'll help them out for that moment, but they fall trapped. --------- Of course, they might not be notified of the consequences of the actions and choices they made back then, or probably they might have decided to chose that path, claiming it's their lives, their ways of doing things, thereby not paying attention to clue of warnings against those choices, but now, they could see the end of their actions, which they couldn't see from the onset of their choices, now regrets has set in. -------- You'll observe majority of their instructions is always based on what they've experienced. -------- Take heed to their tunes of wisdom birthed by the experiences they couldn't help, and couldn't pay attention to. -------- They wished to know what you knew, to wave off their errors and mistakes, but time has gone, it's you now on the track that must avoid such errors and mistakes. -------- They might have been zealous about what they thought it's the best way of deliverance from adversaries to adversities of life, which couldn't help, but they wished to have known what you knew, or what you are to know through them, during their time. -------- Why shouldn't you wake up to reality of the world, then put a check on yourself where needed, before you start wishing to learn from what the next generations might learn from the ignorance of the present one in times to come, thereby repeating the same cycle of conforming ignorance threaded by the past generations. -------- It should be best avoided now, or better more tackled by heeding to the word of guides, warnings and instructions!