If suicide was something easy to attempt many people on this planet earth would have taken their life due to grief.
A home consists of a father, mother, and the children before the extended family now in a functioning home a man is made to carter for the physical needs of the children with help coming from the wife as well as help out in the emotional needs of the children
I feel hurt each time am passing through a street and see some children up to 4-6 years old hawking in the road under the sun it breaks my heart
So many children are socially handicapped today due to the family they came from which made most of them to indulge in smoking, drinking as well as taking hard drugs to be able to communicate socially and taking such hard drugs equally leads them to crime because of the kind of people they associate with through such act
So many children are being abuse to an extent beyond one's imagination, most time it's not good to marry more than one wife not only because of both wife's trouble but because of your children, you need to maintain their sanity
Ever went to bed as a kid crying because of a particular situation in life or maybe going to bed without eating because of your stepmother, or flogged mercilessly by your stepmother all because of a meaningless thing,this are what most children go through at such age where they are supposed to be loved and cared for, now when they grow up they grow up with a seed of inferiority complex planted in them by the people they call family
Most men when their wife dies leaving her young children to the care of her husbands would go and remarry which is not bad but would get their eyes and ear blindfolded to the tears and cries of their late wife children who are equally his blood but would even kill them if the new woman of the house say any word or command him against his late wife children thereby leaving them at the mercy of their stepmother who will turn them to slave and make them feel worthless and hate the fact that they exist
Some kids start taking the role of a parents as early as 8-12 years by taking care of their siblings because they where abandoned and pushed to the street
As a man please before putting ring on the finger of that girl hope and make sure she is of good character, someone who has the fear of God and have the heart of a human being and not that of a beast
Also Nothing breaks a home more than marring the wrong wife or husband which in turn leads to divorce, Lucky dube once wrote a song "ooh my son am sorry"the song talks about how sorry he felt toward his son and the pain and hurt his son must have felt because of the divorce between him and his wife
Please show love to most of this children you see on the road hawking because you do not know what they are passing through at such a tender age.
Suicide does not end all worries