Top 3 Behaviors that usually My Close Friends hate it to Me

Yesterday, I ask my Friends and people that know me personally if what is the behaviors or habit that they hate to me. Because I want to know if what they hate or dislike to my personality. I also remind them that it will not be the reason or I will get mad or I will be hurt if I will know it because I want to know the truth and honesty.

You know when I asking them and i am waiting for their replies it makes me nervous but I know that nobody is perfect, I am not perfect and we can all have flaws, we can be commit sins and mistakes in our life and usually, we don’t change because we are staying who we are. You know i don’t change myself. If who I am then this is who I am. I don’t need every peoples opinions about me.

So The majority of what their answers about my Behaviors or habits that they hate me is here! I will not count 1-10 or more because they are all the same. They explain it differently but they convey it in just the same reasons and same outcome.

Top 3: I Speak Frankly

“...Alam mo kasi ang ayaw namin sayo is direct ka magsalita. Dimo alam na makakasakit ka or nakakasakit kana.”

You know when I am Speaking to the people around me, I always spill the truth and I am direct to my words. I am not the type of person that magpapaka ‘sipsip’ sa iba so that they can be nice to me. I don’t mind if they will hate me if i will say those words at least I am stating the fact.

Being like that is for good. At least if I will tell it in that kind of way I don’t hurt their feelings with lies and people around me should learn to accept what is the Fact.

Top 2: Being Stubborn

“Nakakainis yung ugali mong napakatigas ng ulo mo. Kahit sa Ate at Mama mo di ka nakikinig Yung dimo kami pinapakinggan kapag pinagsasabihan ka nila.”

This words from my one of friends is hurt me so bad. I am really listening to them you know, I accept their advice and i also obey them however, I want to learn or I want to decide on my own so that if The choice that I choose is not right I will blame my own and not to the other people who I listened. Because sometimes, other peoples decisions are not right. Maybe the outcome will be turn Good but sometimes it will be bad.

I listened to my Family esp. to my sister and my Mom however, if i always obey them I Will be look like a bird that chained and i will not live free and I don’t like to be like that. And being like this can make me learn and live independently.

Top 1: Being Quiet and Afar

“You are my Friend and classmate for almost 13 years and I know you already. Ayoko sayo yung lagi kang tahimik.. Hindi ka nagsasabi sa nararamdaman mo at pinipili mong sarilihin yung lahat ng problema mo. Yung andito naman ako at nandyan ka pero feeling ko ang layo layo mo sakin. Yung andito naman kami pero bakit kailangan mong unahin yung iba, kami? Nakakalungkot lang isipin na kami na kaibigan mo walang magawa...”

I cried while reading this words from my Friend. I did not know that there is still someone who noticed me. Who have a care to me, i thought that there is no someone who can ask me if I am fine? If I am okay? If Kamusta naba ako?

But...I learned to distance myself because I know that they have their own problems too and I don’t like to be a burden to them you know? It’s okay that I will just the only one who will hurt as long as wala akong nadadamay sa nararamdaman ko.

Kasi ang hirap lang isipin na may mga problema din sila gaya ko tapos dadagdagan ko paba? And I don’t like that. I can’t forgive myself if they will get hurt more because of me. Even if i am like this-a frank Friend, I still have a care to the people around me. Because they are important to me even if the others did hate me or they did not care about me and that is it’s okay.

I am surprised after knowing these 3 things that they hate to me. I am surprised too that they know me so well and I did really know if who is being there for me and not. Who have care to me and who don’t because of this survey.

I also hated myself for creating a distance to the people around me. I also build a big walls and I close my heart for them because I don’t like anyone to get hurt and madamay sa magulong buhay ko. So it is also become a reason why I don’t accept suitors because I want to love myself more because think i am lack of love to myself already.

By the Way, I am thankul that everyone knows me well and they know about me. I thought that they did not pay attention to what or who i am and There is still some people who is giving care.

so that is The top 3 that they hated to me most! I already did know what are those and I think i need to pay attention to that so that i will have a better interact with people around me. How about you? Did everyone confess about what they hated to you too?

Thank you for reading And to those people who support me, I would like to thank you all! Because of you, I did not achieve this blessings

I will write more and work hard. I’m not bragging this okay? I’m just happy because I achieve this kind of reward for mu hard work writing here. 😭 God bless! Spread love, don’t hate ❤️

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