There are many stories of broken Marriages in the Tabloids these days than never before. In fact , so many stories about in-fighting in marriages in many National Dailies today. Why are these types of stories today ? Some used to give funny stories like "marry in the morning , fight in the evening " , "I don't want him again Na crook I marry for husband " , "Yee what have I done , My wife is a slut " . I cannot exhaust the headlines , they are always on the News everyday.

I sat down to ruminate over this on and on everyday , I now come out to write on "What I Thought "could be the solution to "Battle To Finish " attitude of some couples today. To put it differently , solution to incessant fight to finish and broken Marriages in our midst today.

Mind you. Am not claiming to be a saint that doesn't fight , but fight now and settle it in the next few minutes. It is not possible not to fight with your husband or wife. Perhaps , you can't lay claim to the fact that you cannot pick up a cruel with your wife as a man or pick up a cruel with your husband as a woman. You cannot rule it out that you won't have a cruel with your wife. It is not possible. For one reason or the other disagreement would come , if your wife happens to be a self+-opinionated person , my opinion is always right type , then cruel would surface unless the husband is a cool type that doesn't bother on whose opinion is right.

Now when you are still young as boys and girls , it is pertinent to get mixed-up with other sexes so that you would know how to behave in the midst of other people. "Improper Mixing" is a causer factor responsible for incessant fight between partners and couples nowadays. That brings us to my topic for today. "As a boy : Why Is It Important To have a girlfriend.

Why Is It Important To Have A Girlfriend.

• It is quite important to have a girlfriend whom you think is compatible to you and can understand you. Possibly you attend the same educational institution and share ideas and exchange visit. The issue is we don't teach our children and put them through on the issue of relationship. We regard talking about it as a Taboo and pure wasting of time. Therefore , when there's problems in their relationship , we then start running Helter skelter to amend it for them. They should learn to be together without engaging in bad behaviour. It is the duty of the parents to oversee their wards in this aspect too. Boys should learn how to live peacefully with Girls without amorous dealings so that when they get married eventually , they will know how to live together without hassles.

• When they are still young they should learn and engage themselves in platonic relationship.which is quite expected of them. They learn and know some other things and they know it well. Why can't they know things about relationship. It is just unfortunate that society shy away from their responsibility of giving the right direction to our boys and girls right from the time they reach puberty stage. The school curriculum should be upgraded to accommodate issue of relationship to our boys and girls. Parents find it absolutely difficult to engage our girls for instance , on the issue of monthly Period , why they should be calculating it and avoid teenage pregnancy. Some Parents can't find time to teach their Children Abc of relationship. Whether we like it or not it is what they should know clean clear.

• Some Girls run away when they cite boys. They cannot talk to Boys on one on one. This is not a propwr behaviour expected of a good girl. Some Boys find it extremely difficult to express their minds to their female counterpart except when they want to fight and beat themselves. Is this a standard behaviour ? Definitely the answer is No. They are equal in stature and Physique. We should instill boldness in them and interact with one another in camaraderie.form and allow this to take form early in their lives.

• Having Girl friends should not be seen as synonymous to Amorous dealings. We should teach our children that having boy as your friend is not a license for amorous dealings. But to know each other as friends and partners in progress. It is not a crime to grow together and know one another in the same community.

• To have a girl as your friend will boost your thinking capacity and see issues from different perspectives. One is exposed to wisdom. Girls too are knowledgeable , therefore give boys avenue to see things from feminine angles.

• Boys and Girls should see themselves as future wives and future husbands and live in an harmonious way. They should see themselves as one. It is good to learn this very early in life. At least , they should not see themselves as evil competitors and killer rivals. If this should sink in Their early in life. Issues of broken Marriages would be reduced to barest minimum. Thanks for Reading.

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