Marriage crash often, why?

Today I am going to be talking on other reasons why marriages often crash even though the couple promised each other Heaven and Earth on the start of their marital journey. But it's often saddening and disheartening to know that many marriages of beautiful start crumbles along the way. If you are looking for the first part of this article, click on https://read.cash/@Seersam/why-marriages-crash-today-bc517150

Other reasons include the following;

1. Deviation from expected roles in the family.

Many marriages collapse today because the husband or the wife is not living up to his or her responsibility in the house. You see, marriage only works through cooperation and empathy between husband and wife. There will always be a problem if one of the two is deviating from his or her role. Take for instance, the husband is expected to take care of the family and the kids if there are in terms of financial provision, at least to a satisfying level. Now in a situation whereby the husband doesn't provide for his family, he doesn't provide food to the table, is divorce not looming? The wife will one day think of him as a liability and sue him for divorce since he's not useful or doing what is expected of him. Same for the wife also, a wife would is not performing her expected roles in the marriage will see her marriage crumble right before her eyes. Some women will still deny their husband sex even if that's all what she is offering in the marriage. Wouldn't such men be provoked to end the marriage, is that too much to ask for?

Once two people come together for a union, they have to know that to make it work, they all have individual roles to play.

2. Pride

This mostly happens among women. Once they earned equally or more than their husbands pay, they become arrogant and proud to their men. In such instance, marriage can only work if the man is matured and very patient. But can all men allow this?

Men hold respect a high esteem and they can do anything to maintain their respect. A woman who is always proud and disrespect her husband won't last long in the marriage, that's why men these days for women of lower class for marriage because they know they won't disrespect or cause them problems in the nearest future. Ever wondered why rich women find it difficult to see husband for themselves easily?

3. When partners are not sexually compatible.

Many have divorced owning to this factor. Some entered into marriage to find out that their partners cannot give birth, some discovered that their husband cannot get them pregnant for one reason or the other. If all these reasons were not taken care of either medically or through other means, they can simply walk away and divorce themselves. That's why it's always important for potential couples to go for medical tests and check their compatibility before embarking on a lifetime course.

4. Immaturity of one or both of the partners.

Sometimes age doesn't come with maturity. A person who has not encountered any life challenges cannot keep and sustains a marriage. That's why it is always important to be matured enough before marrying. Gather experiences and knowledge before you venture into marriage.

Some people who have not been challenged with some crude realities of life will envision marriage as something that guarantee everlasting happiness or that they cannot never be sad once they marry or marital life is always blooming like the bed of roses.

Make sure you and your partner are matured psychologically, physically, mentally and all other wise. Marriage sometimes challenge couples that all they need is maturity and diplomacy to scale through.

Marriage is a union which one must be well prepared for before embarking, trust me the road is not always smooth. Thanks for reading, you can also share your thoughts below.