Go! find your happiness

Happiness never comes to us instead we have to go insearch of it. When you do something you love there you find happiness. We need a break from our regular routine to make ourself happy.

The joy of being happy is one's freedom and can never be declined by anything or anyone else. Happiness is such that once you step out you have to grab it, no matter what pain you are to undergo.

Many desires go unfulfilled, many dreams get shattered, some achievements though near remain afar, some of us fail miserably, aome opportunities are at your door steps but not in a position to grab.....for all these above matters to lose , their might be a reason. All these are being restrained due to someone's selfishness. Then how can one be happy.

When you are happy the people surrounding you are happy from your viewpoint. Even if they are not positive you find yourself energized. Happiness makes us do things better, by giving the best output.

Recently, my niece with her friends studying in another state visited a tourist destination in the north part, without the knowledge of her parents. But all her other cousins were aware if it. On her return she was questioned about her preplanned secret trip, she said they need a break from their hectic schedule so they decided to give a try. Infact, they refreshed, energized and most importantly learned so many new things in their journey. She had a n adventurous story to tell.

Happiness is an inbound feeling when some of them express by celebrating some of them suppress for undue reasons. Because they know there happiness is not going to make much difference in the family. So they stay silent. But such peoples are rather strong. This usually happens to the women members in the family.

Let me tell you a short story. It is about two female friends who share everything among eachother. In an unfortunate incident one of the friend dies. But this friend used always say my children, my husband and my in laws depend on me and cannot manage without her.

A month passed the other friend felt she has to call the family as the mourning period was over. She was thinking the family routine should totally be disturbed as the friend is no more. So she called her friend's husband to find out how things were moving.

The reply was everything was getting back to normal. As a full time maid was available for the kitchen and another maid to take care of his parents. This shocked her. Because the friend who died worked throughout day and night for the happiness of her family and forgot to live her life happily. But things are back to normal and.much better than before. So that's life friends.

We are valued when we are alive. If grief strikes, a moaning ceremony is conducted may be for a day or for a week and things are back to normal.

Your happiness is complete when you share it with your dear ones. Some peoples suppreas their happiness while finding joy in others happiness. It is like they are living for the sake of others. This is a wrong conception and should never be appreciated.

Most often we find people who doesn't like the very fact of others being happy, especially when they are not. A matter of jealousiness. But here they are not to be blamed. Because happiness is one's freedom.

For others happiness never suppress your happiness as you have only one life. So live your life to the fullest. And go find your happiness.