The Best Woman in The World
Date: May 10,2022 ::Tuesday
Article#29
Hi! How are you? I hope you will totally be fine and enjoying your life. I was quite busy today, and yesterday. Yesterday was a day when i couldn't post an article on Mothers Day. Yes i know, yesterday was a big day, the day of mothers. What i did? I only read your articles, the articles of my beloved readcash friends. I really wanted to write, but nothing comes in my mind when i am upset. Actually i was little bit upset yesterday, that's why my mood never allowed me to write anything here on readcash. So i decided to write something good in respect of our mother's and for those who are running a family and serving as a mother in their house. I hope I'm not late in writing about mothers, i believe we don't need a single day to write about this kind character of our families.
WHEN WE HATE MOTHERS?
I know it looks odd when we link the word 'hate' with the word 'mother'. I am sure you will understand that what i want to say, after reading this paragraph completely. Actually no one can hate his/her mother but when we are children ourselves. Yes! we hate our mother for sure, in our childhood when it is too cold and when they wash our head in winter in a very cold weather. We, when was children never see the soaps like Capry, Lux, rexona etc. Our mothers used to wash our head with the same soap that is used to wash the clothes. Our eyes get red because of that soap when it goes to eyes it aches like a thorn in eye, and our ear get red because of slaps on them by our mothers Lol. Our every little unwanted acts makes the mother angry and she try to beat us with a strong stick, that is used to wash clothes in asia. But she never beaten us with that stick, sometimes father, sometimes our granny saved us from mother, and sometimes we ourselves ran away from mother to save us from being beaten. But that time hating our mother was very temporary.
OUR HOUSE WAS AWAY FROM VILLAGE
Our house in the past was away from the village, in a less hustle bustle place, a very silent place. It would have been our greatest and full of entertainment tour whenever Mother visited the village from our house, and wherever we missed this chance of visiting the village with Mother, she went their without us, it was a big loss for us. Sometimes when she get back to home from that village, she try to assist us with local jaggery made candies, first we snach our mother shirt with our little tiny hand, beat her with our litte hands and she smile, then we cry by putting our head into her lap and crying with opening a large mouth. ❤️ And whenever we asked to our mother that, when will will go to village and live there permanently. She always said that, we will live there when you will get old till 18th year or later, when i will get a job, and when there will be a lot of money, we will live there.
I remember that scene when there was a marriage celebration in village in our uncle's house. The little lights of different colors were used to decorate the house of marriage. And the firecrackers were being used that night. I want to see the celebration whole of the night. I said to mother that please let me live here in the village for one night. She denied with a harsh mood. Ask me to get back to home with her, as we were getting back at the time of i think 8PM in summer. I founded a chance to go to village again without telling the mother, and i did so. Mother found me absent behind her after a few minutes, she tried to find me in every field of the crops, she was calling my name louder. She was so much worried about me that where i gone, she looked every Well of the village either I'm inside in case of any accident?. She was so much worried, and she finally founded me in marriage house where i was wanting to be at first. She beaten me hard that time and i she may be killed me if the women of village didn't save me from her.
Once when my father went to his friend in another city, he took me with him, when we get back to home i had an intense fever. My mother folded me in a blanket and traveled more than 3 miles to bring me to the doctor. When we were getting back to home mother was crossing a hurdle while lifting me, she fell down there. And her mouth said HASBIAllah. And some bad words for the in laws family of my mother, she fell down but she saved me from harm. This was a very old incident of my life.
She was really q woman of grace and greatness. She worked hard in whole of her life. I don't know, when i get older and stayed away from the home, and meet my mother after one year later, she cry in front of everyone and hug me anf keep crying. I kept on smiling in front of everyone and when it was a night, i go to my mother and kept crying in my mother's lap. She was really kind.
She worked hard in the fields, she cut the grass, she she lifted that bundle of grass on her head, and she put that grass in front of Toka Machine, and keep Rolling the machine to cut the grass, whenever i get tired, she asked my by whispering silently, "should i talk to that home owners for your marriage".
Then we made our house in the village where i wanted to to build it, we builded our house, the monther arranged my marriage with a person of her own liked. Then i shifted to in laws family, and mother make her own world in the village.
Then after 5 years, monther get sick, she had a pain in her tummy, i thought it is a normal pain and may be a normal stomach problem, but when the pain doesn't get right and she was in pain continuously for few days, i took her to the hospital and checked her up from a specialist doctor, after few test he told me that, she has a cancer at the highest stage now. 💔
Urgent blood was needed, i went to hospital and i lay down on the bed, and i gave the blood, after coming in the intellect, she looked at me, and said, why did you have blood? You fool, you would have to buy the blood for me. I said, dear mother, it is not enough to compare the good deeds of you, you performed for me. Her eyes got wet, she was crying. She laughed out loud, i said " please forgive me my mother, i couldn't serve you as much i should do for you, please forgive me."
I hardly, served her, i couldn't do anything for her 💔. She had a big heart, she loved me so much. At the death bed, when she was feeling helpless, when i was requesting her to forgive me, again and again i said forgive me. She smiled and said i forgave you, don't worry, i am agree on every deed of you. Why are you asking to forgive you again and again.
Then next day, mother left this world and me forever, but i never cried that time, and when i felt my head getting heavy, i went to graveyard and cried louder on her grave, and said to whom should i share the grief of my heart i am feeling now.
Now after a long time, mother is not with us, now it looks like mother was never lived with us, and i have a heavy heart now.
You are lucky if your mother is alive, serve her as much as you can, respect her, never heart her, love her at every instant of time, condolences to those whose mothers are not alive on this Earth. Prayers for their success of the other world,
Why only a Single Day: Every Day Should Be Mothers Day:
I thing there shouldn't be a single day to be celebrated for mothers. Everyday should be a day for mothers, everyday should be a day to respect the mothers. There love for us is endless, and our love and respect should be like their love.. From the we are in their womb, the started taking care of us, then the pain of birth of a baby, then takin care after birth, they sleep on wet bed and provide is with dry place. They feed us, they provide us with clean clothes, then build our personality to face the society, make our home by arranging our marriages.
Every day is a love day, everyday should be mothers day.
Thanks for reading ❤️.
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