She Regrets Now(The Story of a Divorced woman)

Article #20 May 3, 2022

Hi, my dear readers, have a very good morning , hope you will be fine, the day is beautiful, the morning is like trees are cherishing each other, flowers are blooming. I just woke up, but last night i had a dream, in which i saw a girl crying, actually she is my neighbor and a friend of my mother. We is having a hard time in her life these days, i was thinking about her yesterday, may be because of that the concept my mind was thinking about even if i were sleeping. We all are very pity on her, a day before yesterday she was telling us a true story of her life, i asked her to write her story ony profile on readcash, she allowed me. Then now i decided to share her story to you all.

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I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws. The story is about a woman who is divorced now and she is now 32 years of age. And she is a single mother now.

Her ex husband and she dated for almost 6 years. They were best friends.She waited until he completed his university education and started work. Her family and the family of her ex husband met then.They got married and had a son. Who is seven years old now.Her husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when she wanted to make him feel he couldn't control her.Every time they argued, she often pack her bags and go to her family and explain what is happening inside their home. Her sisters would have a phone call to her husband and shout at him make him listen harsh words from her parents family everyday whenever she went to her maikay(parents home) .

If he was try to control her, she would always dare him that if he wished, he could give her a divorce and could free himself from her. She actually never wanted divorce from her husband. It was just a kind of pride from her side and she never wanted to look like a looser woman in the eyes of her husband .

One day she pushed him so hard that for the first time, then he beat her and locked hee outside the house and said it is enough. She went to then her family's home, her family took her husband to the police. Every time she looked like she was being abused by him. But to be honest(she said) " I used to abuse my husband emotionally". He was arrested and then detained. She was asked by her husband's family to withdraw the case against him.

At time she felt that what she was doing was wrong with him. Her husband was never a violent man at all , he did what he did because his wife pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized. She then withdrew the charge, and tthey reconciled. After three months, she packed her bags after a small issue and he remained alone after .

After two days, she received a call that her husband was in the hospital. Her family told her that she shouldn't go there because it would look like she was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness. She told that "all this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused." Her husband spent a week there in the hospital, after he came out, she just received a divorce summon. She wanted to say no to divorce, but because she felt this pride, she wanted him to change his mind and beg her. She called him and said, he would get the divorce because she lived like she was in hell.

When they both went to court, she wanted to make her husband pay, so she told the court that she needed his properties to be shared in both of the partners . To surprise her, he openly told the court that whatever he and she acquired together should be given to the wife , all he(her husband) wanted was divorce.

They were divorced in 2009 July. Now, her husband is married, whilst she is here wasted! Her family members are gossiping about her. She depend on what her ex husband gave to her son for survival. She said "I know I wasted my marriage."

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise. Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.Even her young sisters are much more respected than her. Those who encouraged her to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing her. Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

I thought it is wise to share her story to save your marriage. There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR Marriage.

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