Do you ever sit and ask why we all summed up in this Scum identity. If you check well in one way or the other, we’ve all contributed to it. It may seem right to us Buh to the opposite gender it’s not, you may have not done anything in your own defense and I understand that well. Buh as one-sided you may find this to be, it’s actually a general thing. We all whether skirt or trouser are in this, no one is exempted, just that for one side it has been well exalted and termed a characteristic of describing them. Majority of us have done something to be tagged as ‘Scum’ no doubt. Might seem like I’m writing nonsense Buh if you check your self you’ll know that I’m making perfect sense. I mean it’s no lie that the gender in trousers tend to make theirs very obvious and it’s a very bad thing. Buh you don’t get to point fingers when you know you ain’t perfect yourself, you too know what it is you do behind those keypads, the lies you tell, the truths you expose, no doubts we do most of this vice and deserve to be called ‘scum’ Buh before you justify someone as one, are you free yourself. Yeah he has fucked up and now y’all want your pound of flesh, you start throwing shades to the general masculinity whereas you might have done worse, let’s not be biased here, be thoughtful.
So standing on the fence and not choosing sides, I want to admonish us, this ‘Scum’ thing has no gender, you become one when you’ve done something erroneously wrong and tagging the whole offending gender is one wrong move, you know who did you wrong, call out him or her and stop the whole ‘Men will shame you’ ‘ Women will shame you’ talk. Some of you even go down the accusations lane without even getting to know what happened or why he/she behaved that way, I guess it’s easy to throw shades.
Let us be cautious about this though.
Do have a blessed and fruitful week y’all.
Nice one