I Am My Own Best Friend

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Ohoooo, 12.12, so you already know what that means yes? How many items did you check out today? Awiehhh, hope all. The red market right now is not enough to stop you from checking out no? Ehe. Well as for me, I still have 260+ pesos on my GCash so that's what I used to buy the lipstick that I ordered for Mommy D. I am not even sure if she will like it, but if not then don't, lol.

And because I still have some cash in my wallet, which is the last in my pocket, I decided to check out the Converse High Cut shoes that I add to cart before. I am not sure yet if the shop to where I order this is good but base on the reviews, it is good naman. But let see. Aigoo, I really hope di ako mag regret here, huehue. I just bet the last money I have on my pocket on that shoes huehue.

Anyhow, I want to talk about Friend chenes today. Actually, i planned to write about this even before but because I feel like I am not sure yet on what to say about it, I just set aside the thought. And now I finally have the guts to answer it. Yes, it is a set of question creat by none other than the @Coolmidwestguy . I have read a lot of article regarding this so now, it is finally my turn. LINK HERE!

What is a friend to you?

A friend is "Someone" that I don't have. Kidding, lol. A Friend can be a human or animals that you can talk always, I mean depends on their availability, ehermmm. But seriously speaking, a Friend could be someone or a thing. I'm a friend with my earphones by the way, the number one companion I have who listen to my rant tru singing. It could be anyone, it is much closer to you and who's always there to be with you, physically to support you or even if apart, there still time to listen to you. Someone who's not busy when it comes to you. Something like that.

Do you have a best friend?

Friend or Best Friend, I only have my earphones. In my point of view, they are my friends. But a human best friend? What's that? Hahaha, I mean I don't have that. But I have a friend in virtual world. Lot's of them. I talk to them but I mostly keep all of my thoughts in my head and just rely to myself. I feel like i don't need a best friend in real world. Although I want to have one. But I am not making any effort to look for one. I mean, it is not something I should look right?

Do you think having many similarities is necessary to become friends?

Nope, although having a similarity with them is also cool but even though there's none, that's just show how you accept the person, to what they are, the real them. Imagine getting closer to the total opposite of you but you can still vibe or something. Isn't that awesome. Though you may quarrel sometimes over petty things, but that is like you own way of bonding. I find it beautiful, for me.

Have you ended a friendship with someone?

Not really ended it, it just happened. No talking or what, it just happened that we both found different set of friends and our closeness was gone. No time to communicate anymore. Or even if there is, no one really take an effort to do it. It is like, our choice in the end. But we still talk, it is just that, the friendship and the closeness that we have before is now gone, zero, nil, nada.

Have you lost a best friend?

Lost as in they die? Nope, she is doing good right now with her baby.

Do women or men make better friends?

That is just really depends on the kind of friendship that they have. Gender doesnt matter I think. Well that is just base on my experience, I good with both. But in the end, the closeness is still gone. Haha, I am really not a good friend to be honest. The problem is with me.

Do you believe in soulmate friends?

I am really not sure. But they exist that's what I'm sure. Just base on what I see on my surroundings. They are like sister from different mother. It is just unfortunate of me that I haven't found mine. Or maybe I already find him or her but I let go? Not really sure.

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Seriously, I am not sure anymore. I feel like a cold woman just base on my answer. Gone the jolly teens who has lot of friends before. What happened to me? I am not sure too ΰ²₯β€Ώΰ²₯. I think, I just age and I am contented now with myself? I mean, I am my own best friend, I comfort myself, I talk to myself, I fight with myself and I love myself more than anything else. I guess that's just it.


December 12, 2022

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Parang maganda ngang wala sis ruffa kasi mostly di na din mapagkatiwalaan. Minsan gagamitin ka lang. Sa huli ikaw pa masasaktan.

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11 months ago

See there are times na nangyayari tu ee.

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11 months ago

Totoo sis ruffa. Ako biktima din ako kaya ingat na ingat na ako sino pagkakatiwalaan ko.

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11 months ago

Wesh... Relate sa "ended a prenshep"πŸ˜‚. Ganun aq nung hiskul e, basta n lng d nag-uusap... Well prang wala din aqng fren pero no man is an island daw ngunit bagamat tao lng tau kya go w/ d flow minsan at against d current din minsan jaja

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11 months ago

Hahaha basta kapag meron thrn meron haha kapag wala ee di wow ahahaha

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11 months ago

Since you said a friend can be a thing , maybe I should call my phone my best friend,😁😁

With my phone, I am good to go, locked indoors and doing what I am doing.

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11 months ago

Hahaha same here, same here. We all have that thinhsg that is attach in our body always.

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11 months ago

A friend means a lot of things. A friend is someone that would rather be with us than be somewhere else. A friend would bail you out of jail and a true friend would not only bail you, but sit with you and honestly say, "we messed up". True friendship has no class barrier. A friend is someone who's got your back when the odds are stacked against you.

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11 months ago

Alright, you just said it all. Friend is a cool "thing."

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11 months ago

Absolutely is...πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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11 months ago

I have a very good friend from my college life. I like that friend a lot. My friend is a very nice person.

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11 months ago

That's nice, you found a very good friend.

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11 months ago

Natawa ako dun dae sa "a frie d is someone that I don't have"πŸ˜‚Relate ako eh haha ,ganun ako dati nung hindi ko pa nakilala ang read ,wala aking true friend but nahanap ko lang mga totoo kong friend dito kay virtually ko lang sila nakilala.

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11 months ago

Hahahaha, mas maraming good friend din talaga virtually no uwu

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11 months ago

Hehe funny answers. On the serious side I like your take, " But I am not making any effort to look for one. I mean, it is not something I should look right?"

Yes true friendship usually happen when we least expect it doesn't happen by looking/forcing ourselves onto others.

Thanks for doing this, it reminded me that I was suppose to do a part II to it :)

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11 months ago

Hehehe, yes. Let's just leave it like that haha.

Ikr, even the one you just met someone, if you are in a vibe with her or him, something beautiful will be formed. And that's the friendship.

Waiting for the second part 🀜

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11 months ago

I thought I am the only weird person on earth. I mean inside the whole universe but I suddenly found you. Lol. But anyway I have one best friend naman, but she's million miles away from me, so usually I talked to myself. I care for myself and I love myself as a friend πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.. Anyways loving our self and being best friend to ourselves is not weird, you know? It only means you don't need anybody. You can be happy alone, love alone and care alone. I think it is more healthier than having a lot of friends but they are fake and only brings negativity in your life. So I would rather be alone than to be surrounded by fakes.

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11 months ago

Ahhahahaha you are not alone on this. Parang it's kinda weird nga no pero ahahahs, who care's we just live ourselves more, more than anybody else, lol. And true talaga na mas better pang e friend si self kesa naman makahanap ka ng friend na japeyk, dinaig pa mga items na made in china, huehue. Basta we are happy in our own world β€οΈπŸ€©πŸ˜‚

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11 months ago

Uwu sana oll sa new shoes madam Ruffa, friends with benifits wala? haha real friends was rare nowadays mahirap na talaga makahanap ng totoo, uwuu... Frens naman tayu eh kahit walang benifits.

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11 months ago

Buy kana yoning. Reward mo si self mo wag ka puro plants ang ibili abah. Hahahaha. Friends with benefits iwas ako jan. Baka manakaw puso ko ng walang kalaban laban ee HAHAHAHA

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11 months ago

Lahat n gamit na nacheck out ko puro gamit ni baby haha.

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11 months ago

Hahaha mas priority na si baby no

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11 months ago

Kaya nga haha

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11 months ago

I had one best friend but she is just mine now! Well, I have lost one bestfriend in my school life but I don't want to remember those memories with that friend, because of self respect!

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11 months ago

Mine? She's yours now? You two a couple now?

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11 months ago

Yes! Just mine, hehe!

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11 months ago

That's the best thing we can do. I too sometimes give myself expensive gifts. :) I believe anyone can be a friend. Sometimes similar character works better sometimes the opposite.

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11 months ago

Parrot, like you I also happy to be friend of myself. I love to your question and answers πŸ˜‚. Might be, my next article will contain these questions also.

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11 months ago

Hehehw you can answer that too so go. Make sure to tag thr one who create that question.

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11 months ago

A friend is someone na "wla ako"natawa ako dun madam, alam ko madami ka dyan alagad kya ndi marami kang kaibiganπŸ˜€

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11 months ago

Hahahaha, in real life wala talaga. Ako ang lumalayo ee haha. Sa virtual, yan super dami ko nyan

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11 months ago

Haha, sabagay taong bahay ka lng din naman

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11 months ago

ako okay ako sa mga tao na may same interest pero depends sa ugali may mga tao na nakaclose ko kahit total opposite kami ako wala na check out haha pero sabi ko kay ate icheck out nya gift nya saakin buti nalambing lambing ko naman HAHAH

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11 months ago

Kahit ano pa sta basta naka vibe mo no, same with me UwU. Awiehhhh so may parating ka ng gift ehe ehe

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11 months ago

Mas magaan din ako sa mga tao na we share the same interest.. Tas comfortable kasam..yun usually nagiging friends ko ,😊

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11 months ago

Oo nga tas minsan kahit walang usap usap pero bigla nalang naging friend. May ganito ako before College Days. First day of school nakapalagayan ko agad ng loob tas na invite ako agad sa boarding house haha.

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11 months ago

Alam mo sis? While I read your article and how you deliver your answers natatawa talaga akoπŸ˜… you acted like a comedian on tv.

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11 months ago

HAHAHAHAH thats a compliment oi, salamat HAHAHA

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