In A Girl Life: Is Marriage The End Of Her Every Dream
April 09, 2022
Recently my two friends was getting married, one in the end of February and second in the end of March. Due to assignment and quiz week I didn't attend my second friend wedding ceremony but I attended my first friend wedding very excitedly because after the duration of almost 4 years we friends were getting together so enjoyed a lot.
As we all friends are in the study line and while gossiping with her Mom. She said that now matter how much the girl well educated, the end of every girl education is marriage and also she was saying that the daughter marriage is the biggest responsibility on parents. We friends listening their talk and smiling.
But from that day mostly this sentence rotating in my mind. But I neglected it because my thinking are getting similar with this quote.
"Dear Girls: Marriage is not your ultimate goal,build your career first make your own identity. Be you."
I know mostly people don't like my thinking, there are lots of new students in our Mphil class. And one of the girl who's single daughter of her parents too much crazy about marriage.
Luckily after two or three weeks of taking admission in Mphil, she was getting engaged and then getting married. She said that if I know that my marriage held in such a short period I will never take an admission in Mphil.
In start we are not getting close with our new fellows too much, but as the our friendship status getting stronger I come to know that most of our class was already getting married and engaged. One of my fellow said plz yar pray for me my marriage will held soon so that I will make the good good streaks after becoming the bride lol😂.
Mostly these students are from different cities, they are not the citizens of Mirpur. May be early marriages is their culture.
All of the fellows of my city are still single mingle and the reason behind this in our area parents mostly concentrate on the education of their children instead of their marriages.
I remembered when in the mid of November when I totally say Goodbye to university and in full mood of leaving the study at least for one year. Am really enjoying my this free life woking up late enjoying sunshine on the terrace without any burden.
But my Mom all time saying that what now you will do by sitting all time in the home and my father say it's your age of study but am still not in mood of admission then he gave me the lecture from afternoon time to evening in other words insulted me a lot then next day I take admission in Mphil.
Some people made the too much horrible sketch about the marriage. But I know the marriage is the most beautiful relationship. My fellows who's married telling us that their husband are too much caring about them.
Means Marriage is not the ending of dream of the girl. If your partner is good it will make your life more beautiful.
But still am not in mood of early marriage. I think 27 to 30 is the best age of marriage because I think at that age everyone is mature and handled the relationship easily. What's your thinking about the early and late marriages..?
Thanks For Reading...!
Girls who are married can still pursue their dreams,but it's a bit challenging since she will have a responsibility with the family,as well as pursuing a career.There are a lot of successful girls who still became successful even when they are married.