Yesternight, I read a post in one of the Facebook Community Post about having a Child. I am shocks at first because this is the first time that I read post about having a Child at that age.
According to the Person who post that,
If you are going to married at the age of 30 years old and you will giving birth to your first child at the age of 31, then if you are in your 42 years old and your child is 10 years old and fourth grade in primary and If you are already 50 years old and your child is 18 years old at that time and your child just graduated Senior High School, and there are still 4 years to college. Try to think at that age of 50 are you sure that you can still able to finish your child's study at that age? What if you have a 3 child and it is sure that at the age 50, that your other child is still studying in Elementary and at the age of 60 your penssion will be just go to your child's study because your second and third child is still Elementary or High School at that time.
Enjoy now or suffer later? Or suffer now or enjoy later? This is all I can say, you should get married at the age of 20's, because if you reach 40 years old your child is already college student at that time and If you are already 50 years old, your childrens already graduated in College and after that you will just going to Travel because your child is already a professional at that time and at the age of 60 years old you are already a pensioner and at that time you will just recieving an allowance from your childrens because you just staying at home and Guarding and take caring your Grand childrens.
As a 'Kabataan' . I am not agree to this kind of Mindset. I choose to live and enjoying my moment as a youth. Marriage can wait, if you are already ready to take a responsibility. We all know that our parents always teach us to work hard so that we will be successful someday. So, while we are still young, we should find a work and earn money. Marrying and Giving birth at the early age is not the answer. If you will find a work at your age now that you are still young you can earn money for the future. You will have a Money for your child's Study and for their Future so that If you will marry at the age of 27-30's and If you are already 50's when your child will be college student at that time, you will still have a Money to spend for the College tuition of your child even if you don't have a work.
That is the cause if you will Study Hard and make your Dream come true. Think about your future and Think about the future of your children when you will be a parent.
Even if you will marry at the young age, what if your child will not be a successful someday? Then you will just stay as being poor and you don't also have a Future. It is useless. You will just regret that kind of Plan.
Always remember that, age is just a number. Marriage can wait. Thinking about future is more important. So work Hard and think wisely before Planning.
Thank you for Reading my Article! I hope that this will help you in the future. 💖 What do you think Guys? Having a Family at the early age even if you don't have savings or Having a family at the age you want not until you become successful?
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