Can humans avoid being in love?
3 more days to go and it's gonna be the most awaited journey for all the candidates as well as the voters. I hope it will be peaceful where there's no bias. This happens once in 3 years so I guess everyone is prepared, especially the one that is responsible to do the job well. Nevertheless, I saw a random question from the "hugot queen" no other than @Ruffa . Let's get ahead and start. **When you’re alone, what do you usually think of?** When I'm alone that's the only time I can think straight about random things. Planning my future of how it will possibly go. My mistakes which hurt someone and most especially the plan for my upcoming wedding. The savings that my partner's need, the design and even the preparation of the venue, food to be prepared including the souvenirs and dresses. C'mon this gonna be exciting yet exhausted. By just thinking about, it stresses the h*ll out of me. This is once in a blue moon I wanted to be perfect, I'm okay for the simple yet memorable than the fancy one. As I have to give consideration to the huge expenses. **Which one wins: reality or imagination?** I do imagine things but I know that reality always wins. No matter how hard and tried I imagine when it's just one snap everything will pop and that's when reality slaps me. In life imagination matters but reality matters the most. We can't get away from it even if we wanted to. This is life, this is real and we haven't lived in Wattpad life so it's whether we embrace it or act like it didn't happen. **Is your life going in the direction you want?** If it's about the life I wanted last year, then I would say it's not the direction I ever wanted. Unexpected things happen that I don't know what to do. No matter how I tried to deny it, it's still happening, so maybe all I have to do right now is accept and plan for it. **Can humans avoid being in love?** Nope, definitely not. We humans are born to love and to be loved. We first love the person who was there when we were born, the one who took good care of us and the person who understands and loves us. Trust me, being in love is the most precious thing I ever experienced, especially when the person loves us back. We can't deny the fact that we are born to love and it's inevitable. Some may tend to stop their heart beat for someone but when the right time comes, it will flutter to the right person. By answering this now, the only person that was in my mind is my partner hehehehe (kilig yarn?). **Am I a servant of money, or does money serve me?** We all did the job to earn money, to buy all our wants and needs no matter how difficult or risky it may be. I can't say I am a servant co'z I won't serve money and it's like telling I'm serving the demon. C'mon I can do all things for the sake of money but as long as it's not immoral nor illegal. With this, money serves me. Yes, I may be neither professional nor wealthy but I know that money is the one who serves me, not the other way around. `By answering all these questions, assess my personality that might be about love, life or even financial plans. Believe me, life is like this, reality always slaps us and that we have to embrace it co'z no matter how we tend to deny, we can't.` Lead image is taken from bscholar.com Check out their article too it's worth to read ❤️
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It's being 3years I last fell in love. I dunnot believe in it again, because of people's lives, and deceit.
Love it's natural process and human can't avoid having love with someone or be loved
When i'm alone one thing that I usually do is cleaning. I do love cleaning while i'm alone at home.
I'm always alone sis. There are a lot of things I did everytime I was alone. Chores, planning and setting goals. Sometimes I have a lot of thoughts. Sometimes going to the supermarket. Sometimes preparing a report but there were times I felt demotivated too sis.
Negative thoughts will always consume me when I'm alone
Yes sis that's one also. Negative thoughts lingering in our minds especially if we are alone.
I can't help falling in love. That's a song I used to sing before when I am in love. I don't think someone can avoid being in love. But they can hide it.
They can hide but not for long😊
When I'm alone, my mind can't resist not to think about my future as well, on the other hand my imagination sometimes scares me ahahha
Love your choices dear... like your answer about imagination vs reality.. dreaming is nice, sliding into a make believe world does make us happy, but at the end of the day, we live in reality.. how sad that is
True sis
when I'm alone I usually think about all of my debts haha..
Its okay to fall in love, but have seen people who vowed never to fall in love because of a bad experience they had in their previous relationship
You have answered well sis.
Ok raman ma inlove kaso andam-andam lang jud kay dili lalim ahahah
Relate ko ahahahahah
My life currently is not what I wanted it to be, but still I'm thankful. I'll offee my life to Him because I know He has a better plan for me.
He always have the better plan sis
He always have the better plan sis
When I am also alone, I think about a lot of things. My future and how to be the best in life. You are getting married soon? I wish you the best with your partner and may you have more finances to help you out.
Thank you sis
Reality is always in sharp contrast with the imagination. With our imaginations, we can build a world but if we allow ourselves to think it, we can birth it. I prefer the reality because I won't have to deceive myself and can work towards the things I needed to do. We can't avoid love and it doesn't have to be love between lovers alone. There are different kinds of love...