A Not So Perfect Us

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2 years ago

Happy Wednesday my lovelies, I guess it's not a holiday anymore, which means back to work again. Does the weather make you productive or the opposite way around? In my place, just the usual thingy, cold yet heavy wind and not so hot. Gez! I'm not really in the mood right now though the weather is quite perfect as I don't really feel well. Sleeping and waking up late changes my mood. Got a headache and a runny nose. I just hope things will be okay. Nevertheless, I saw this question and answer portion from our dear @Lhes, which of course I'll grab the chance as I can relate to it lol.

Why do you lie?

Lying has both advantages and disadvantages especially when we hide something from the person we love. Sometimes I do lie when I need to protect something and someone. I can lie if needed as long as it won't hurt him. I mean maybe he will get angry if he knows what I did but at least I already did my part. It's not really my thing to lie, especially when our relationship gets even more serious.

Did you cheat?

Not my thing again, I never cheat and never will. I admit I had a lot of ex's back then but I don't do the cheating co'z I know how painful it is to be cheated on by the person I trusted the most. I was there not just once, twice or thrice. I don't do revenge too co'z I don't need it, at the end of the day it's not my loss it's them. Besides, I don't need to beg for love and attention. If they leave, then go. I learn that a person who truly loves me will stay and the others who don't will leave. As of now, I am happy and content so I won't ever cheat.

To whom did you cry?

To myself, when I feel exhausted from everything. When I see no results and don't know what to do next. I cry when I feel that I am trapped in the dark again. I cry co'z that's the only way to release all the pain and disappointment I feel inside.

To him, when he gets angry or when he raises his voice at me. I mean I don't really like the feeling of that. I don't want him to get mad at me even though I'm the reason why he did so hehehe.

Love life?

Challenges are there, we fight but still choose to fix them. I may not have the perfect relationship nor the perfect partner but I am happy and grateful to have him.

So when was the last time I cried?

I can't tell the exact day since it's been awhile since I haven't cried. We haven't fought in the last couple of days so I don't have a reason to cry. Besides, if I feel exhausted what I do is eat and eat hehehe. I miss him and wanted to cry but I just don't want to co'z I don't want my family to see me crying.

Are you in a good relationship?

Yes, I am. Again I am happy in my relationship right now. We are in a long distance relationship but I know someday somehow I can now see him. I'll surely hug him tight as I badly miss the person who is always there for me. The person who always spoils me, especially with the food I want to eat. I am in A NOT SO PERFECT US yet I'm happy.

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I love this...a lot of people complain about long distance relationship not working out but I think it's about the person. I love how you insinuated that it doesn't have to perfect as long as it's basic understanding and love between you two.

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2 years ago

This is the second time around that I've read about this set of questions . I guess, this is the sign for me to write about this as well hahha. I am happy that you are happy with your current relationship. Nothing beats a nontoxic relationship.

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2 years ago

happy to know that there is one more happy lady in a relationship.

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2 years ago

Naol swerte mo sa isa't isa, all relationships are not perfect ug expected na natu na. Hehe kakilig ui try ko ni bi. ❣️

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2 years ago

Never in cheating you're right sis. Hindi talaga maganda ang cheating. Kailangan maging loyal sa mga partner. Yan ang dahilan kung bakit ang daming nasisirang relasyon sis dahil sa cheating na yan.

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2 years ago

Interesting. Good relationship and not cheating is a key point to happy relationship. I love these questions dear.

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2 years ago

I should just say, there is no such thing that is perfect here on earth. May it people or things. Well, let's talk about the people. We tend to fall short. We have different reasons behind that and we shouldn't expect that it will lead a perfect life. Contentment is not a constant thing. Lying, Cheating, etc...These are the things that contributing imperfection. Well anyways, I am very happy to know that your are in a good relationship my lil sissy. 🥰☺️

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2 years ago

I think each one of us don't really like to lie, we just have or need to and so we do lie for one's. Nothing in this world are actually perfect but having that imperfect relationship makes us feel perfect.

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2 years ago

A not so perfect us is a perfect definition of every relationship because there is no real perfect in this term. But at least we learn to fix things to preserve the relationship.

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2 years ago