Overcome your fear through these methods.

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“To escape fear, you have to go through it, not around.”

Richie Norton

According to English Dictionary, fear is defined as a strong, uncontrollable, unpleasant emotion or feeling caused by actual or perceived danger or threat.

In another word, we can say, fear is defined as a feeling of distress, that comes as a result of danger; either real or imagined. Everyone has fear in them which is caused by different things happening around them.

For instance, I talked of a relative of mine who has been kidnapped for more than two weeks now, and it's crazy to see that they are demanding for 60million as ransom. Where would that come from? My fear here is for him not to be killed. He lost his wife some months back, leaving him with two little kids. That is my fear right now.

For another person, they might be threatened for one thing or the other, and that is where fear comes into the picture.

The feeling is real and it's part of our lives, which is normal.

When we study the book of Isaiah, chapter 41 very well, this was written during the time of exile with the Israelites. The passage is a reminder that, despite the people of Israel being in distress, oppression and challenges, they do not need to fear or worry about anything.

At that time, they were disconnected from God, their maker, but God never because that, leave them alone. He knew they disobeyed Him, but He stayed with them still.

God told the people of Israel that despite those circumstances, “I am with you to strengthen, help and sustain you.” Our God is near and He never abandoned us.

Joshua 1:9 is a promise to hold onto when we are in fear. When we feel things are going tougher than we could imagine. He has said we should not be discouraged or terrified, but be courageous at all times, because He is with us wherever we go.

Feeling fear is not bad; it makes us human. The problem lies in allowing ourselves to be dominated by it.

Fear weakens our spirit and mind when we focus too much on the circumstances, and do not find solutions or look up to God.

Now, let's see it this way; let's imagine fear and faith produces very similar emotions. With a tone of doubt, fear asks “What will happen if I take this step?” “How sure am I getting a good result with this method?”, Faith would ask the same questions, but with a tone of hope, encouragement, expectation, Joy, and courage believing in what God can do.

All things are possible with God if we believe that. Fear is nothing in the presence of God.

Have you ever felt fear and it makes you think God's face is far away from you?

How do we overcome the fear in us?

The first thing is knowing to whom we belong.

Just as Joshua 1:8-9 says, “do not be anxious or afraid......”. One thing to know is that we are for God and His love radiates on us. We belong to the God of love, mercy, and grace.

It is only when we believe that God is far away from us, that fear rules and dominate our lives. When we truly know who we belong to, we would rest upon the promises of God to be with us wherever we may find ourselves.

Another way is applying faith at all times.

There is nothing strong as faith in us. When we believe the word of God over us, we would be able to overcome and conquer fear.

Belief is the antidote to fear and dread. We can never overcome fear when we do not take a step of faith.

So, let's walk by faith, and not by fear.

By changing our thought patterns.

Just like the power of effect. Whatever you think of in your mind, it happens, and it's just like a magnet. When we speak positive words into our minds, our thoughts send the signal to our brain and it works.

When we are faced with challenges or circumstances, our thoughts often go into autopilot. This is when we lean towards fear or faith. The two cannot go together.

So, whenever we feel this way, it's time to change our mindset and thought pattern to focus only on trusting God and having faith.

This is why it is important to always study the word of God, and let it rule your mind and thoughts instead of fear.

Confronting our fears face to face.

When you are in a circumstances, you have to face them quickly and not let them keep resting and making you feel you can't do it. Face those circumstances by getting up and finding solutions and don't forget that it is all about prayer too. Focus on the word of God and take action to solve them.

We cannot avoid these battles surrounding us, but we can be rest assured that we can face them when we know God is with us.

Do not be discouraged but trust God and His word.

Thanks for your time.

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Indeed, with God we can conquer everything and by with how we thought we creates an outcome. That is why we should always think about positivity, so things will turn positive.

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That is the best way. Let's always be positive at all times.

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Yes, with God nothing will be impossible. He told us not to be afraid because He is with us until the end of the world.

We all have fear but we are trying to face it with hope that God will help us through.

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Only God can help us through. We need to believe in Him.

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2 years ago

We should always face our fears no matter what, and with God, we can overcome fear in all circumstances. Take care always Princess :)

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Thank you for your comment.

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This is beautiful, KP. We need to declare the Word of God and speak from the angle the Word of God is speaking from. We need to change our thought pattern too while confronting those fear by acting.

I am still waiting for when you will overcome the fear of spending sha. Picks race. Olawalium left 🤣😂🤣😂

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“KP is a real battle these days ”.

This is my upcoming title on Readcash 😅😅😅😅

You no get emoji to pick your race? 😂😂😂😂

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🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂 that would be an interesting read. I can't wait to read it 😂😂🤣😂.

I decided to write it out than use emoji...makes it fun 😂🤣

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🧐🧐🧐

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We should fear God but now we fear man more. I am also very scared when I sleep alone at night and I cannot sleep.

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It is your imagination that makes you get scared at night. When you are bold and confidence, you won't even be scared.

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I always have my fears,and I felt sometimes being annoyed to myself and asking Why I have this kind of feeling?I dont want to be like this but still cant resist that emotions over my mind and heart.

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It sure happens to everyone but we can overcome it when we read the word of God more. It helps.

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With God all things are possible even the one will see as impossible It's normal for fear some particular situation but we should never let the fear overcome our faith

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You are right, Sis. Thank you so much.

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Faith and prayer are the strongest weapons indeed.

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Very true. We need both of them in our lives.

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You're really right in saying. Knowing God's word is what will take away our fear. Fear is nothing we can always overcome our fear.

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This is why we need to always study God's word and be conversant with scriptures that talks about the promises of God keeping us safe.

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if we know that we have a fear and we are running away from it. Wherever we run, it will come our way. That's why we have to face our fear, not run away

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When we keep running, it keeps coming after us, until we stop to face it. Thank you 😊

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You're welcome. then we have to stop running and face it

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Fears make us weak princess. It's really when we are in fears because it will give us panic. Don't know what to do, nervousness eaten our body. We should face it and while facing it we must sure that we are ready and brave enough.

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We need to be brave truly. It will help us overcome the fear. It is normal but it shouldn't be dwelt upon.

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Yes princess. Fear is part in our life so we should be ready for it always.

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Fear will always be present. It's an indication that life is normal and challenging and we are about to face the challenges head on.

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You are right. But we must never dwell much in it.

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Our main problem is that we always fears to face our fears, which put us in more trouble. But when we clearly try to know our fears, it slowly go away.

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Exactly! It will go when we are able to face the fear with courage.

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The only way to overcome fear is to face it.. So far, my only fear now is death. The rest are easier to deal with..

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You are right. We all fear unexpected death and we don't want it. May God spare our lives more.

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Facing one fear is absolutely the best thing to do, freedom comes the moment we choose to face it even though it wont just go like that.

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Yes, even fear will run once we are bold enough to face it. When we act as coward, that is when we would be threatened and overpowered by it.

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I used to be scared of the dark especially if I'm alone. I can just run out of the house in fear. And sometimes I imagine there's a ghost under my bed. Now I can sleep with the lights off but last night I'm not able to. It's raining and the wind is blowing so hard and it's scaring me. My husband was not at home. And I didn't sleep well. Sometimes I can't fight it. I'm still having hard time at some instance to face my fear.

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I can just run out of the house in fear.

😂😂😂😂 This happened to me in the past and most times, when my mom send me home to go prepare dinner so that by the time she closes from shop, she won't be hungry. When I get home, I would have packed all I needed to the kitchen and lock the room.

I will cook and wait outside till my parents comes back 🤣🤣🤣 I was so afraid of the dark then.

But now, I am not afraid but sometimes, it is our assumptions and imaginations that create fear in us.

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