There remains a set of people who would stick around even when everyone else is gone, when the world condemn you this few would encourage you, they don't envy your success, the have watched you grow and they want you to win always. Its not a question of are you good or bad, this few people likes you that way, and then what happens when you are wrong, they put up with you but stick around for you. Sure bad things has happened but you didn't go through it alone, they were people who felt it hard too and prayed it all get better. Those people among any other should come first.
You know, God make things as an example for us all to learn from, he has made family to teach us the essence of pack, to give you a slight insight as to when he says you're my child, and when Jesus calls us brethren (brother) so we know the essence of how far he can and would go for us. When we are family it doesn't matter what happens outside we would always return home to have that rest, there's no place like home. Family is a good representation of "we are in this together".
There is someone willing to take the bullet for you, and it isn't that person on this street, its someone who loves you as his or herself, someone who has watched you in your crazy state and your embarrassing state, someone who knows you're dirty when others think you are clean, one who knows how smelly it is when you're in the toilet, someone who knows how you behave when excited and when sad or depressed. Some who sees you as a himself, although they don't have to say it and sometimes you get angry at them or there have been fights and it gets so intense and you feel like sworn enemies and the next minutes its like you guys never fought. Family is a bond far more superior than causal. That's why this people truly loves you for who you are.
Now, I've seen this happen numerous time, when you go out and find someone you love so dearly, since your family is always there for you, its easier to love a different person more especially since he or she makes your heart skip, makes you blush, give you that romantic feel and you think you have finally been loved and you've never experience such love. Then we all make the mistake of placing them first above the family. This is an emotional mistake and isn't right. There's a place where friends and outsider can earn a slot by acting as a family to you, but it doesn't compare to your parents, your wife or husband, it doesn't compare to your kids, neither does it your siblings. This set of people have stocked around more and aren't tired of sticking around again, at the beep of your call, there they are sticking around again.
You didn't select them for yourself, apart for your spouse that's your husband or wife, but the rest, yes those annoying set of people, they all stubbornly became associated with you, without giving you the option to select which among them you would prefer to stay or which you wouldn't want to know at all. Life left you without a choice, but you see that decision of they being your family is undoubtedly a good decision you wouldn't trade for anyone else. Our Perfect God has hooked us up together to hold each other hands and raise each other together, at first the circle was Rusty but as we keep going our experience and sheer love makes it smooth and beautiful.
Some families are scattered today, no doubt, some have been enemies for years to the extent the kids of a sibling doesn't even know his cousins at all, some reasons to this is very understandable when explained to you, some other reasons you quite can't put your head across, but it doesn't mean that either parties like it that way, they surely wish things were different, the love never goes away, no matter what, the hatred has a lot of good memories to contend with for it to overcome the fight. Family is a stronger force ordain from the heavens above, its a show of how secured and powerful it is to be in a pack, a group of people who loves you for who you truly are. Not going to back down on you. No matter what, when the world turns back to run away, this few turns and run towards you. Family first guys, family first.
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