We Can All Change
We all can adapt, people can know us for a particular habit or attitude and the next minute we are changed, totally transformed to acting as another. Humans revolve around these personalities, our adaptive features has made it possible to transit from one trait to another, a good guy today turns bad tomorrow, the thug of an area becoming the pastor tomorrow, the ones also who rather not picking a side, you don't know where they fall in, they are good but can be bad too.
We all know where you fall in, it's a way of life we can't run from. More reason why we can't write off anyone just yet, that girl who has been living a kinda life and you feel nothing good could possible come her way, you'd be shocked at the level of transformation she has undergo in the twinkle of her eye. Life on its own is full of surprises.
Similarly, you too are human and one of our unique features is adaptation, normally we adapt without noticing it for ourselves, also we adapt by planning to adapt ourselves. Sometimes we have traveled to a new location, at first we fall sick but after a while we become so familiar with the place, we can now live as its our home already.
Therefore, if you're bad, like you know you're real real bad, and you really wanna change yourself, then you should know it's a 100% possible, you can be who you wanna be, there's no stopping you, the ball is in your court, who cares about what people say, your reputation doesn't feed anyone, oh yes, you don't live for anyone, you live for yourself and your family at least, so do the best for them, when things take another route, it'll be you alone or with a selected few bearing the brunt, no the people you're currently living to please.
The good, who are the good, how do you ascertain someone is good, how sure your perceptive it the right one. Well you could be right, but even the good don't say they are good, their works speak it out for them, countless number of people have been good to others, there are actually people whose sole source of joy is making people happy, they just get joy from making another person smile.
You can bear the sight of your neighbor being hungry, you find all means in your reach to extend a helping hand, then you are good, no one has to judge, that is the definition of goodness, when you heart is geared at doing right, could be harsh but its right, may not be favourable to you or your loved ones but its the right thing to do, for instance, someone misplaced a huge Sum of money that could very much change your life, and your family is in fact in need of help, but you still gotta return it because its right. Oh you're just too good. But the question remains "how long can you remain good".
Do you know the good really get hurt the most, it takes a little to be good, but it takes a lot to stay good, life has its game, if you're aware you're only climbing a ladder and going higher to the top of your game, you might just give up on being good, when you expect people to always appreciate you for your kindness, then permit me to say you aren't really ready to remain good, you might not get people to always show appreciation, in fact many a times be prepared for some back stabbing, because you can only help, you can ascertain if you're helping the good or the bad, you don't know if the individual will be loyal or just looking to extort, so let your motive for being good be pure, this way you are shielded when the feedback isn't worth your time.
This advice coming up, you don't really get it that much, most times you'd hear " stop being bad, be good ", but in a world as cruel as this, being bad has become an occupation, being bad now puts food on the table when nothing else does, but is it wrong? Yes what's bad is bad, but telling some people to change is like telling them to stay hungry, so here it is, " stop being bad, try doing good, and deliberately see reason to remain god".
It doesn't all end in a day, if you rush the process you might hurry back when your patience is tested. First step is move from being bad to being in between, at this stage already some actions are different, then while you're here, see reasons why you should be good, well we'll all die one day, doesn't matter if we like it or not, we all have a limited time to spend on earth, so being good would definitely pay on the long run, that's one great reason amidst others, like good things attracts unmerited favour your way, giving ensure you continue to have.
Be good and remain good, if you're in between, do move more to the good side, be stable. Should in case you're undoubtedly bad, start your movement today, take it slowly, each day get a reason to continue to be good. And keep moving. However it is, whatever it is, we must always try to be good. Being good is good business.
Your Words Are Powerful
Very powerful indeed are the words you profess out of your mouth. You never know how much damages those words you speak can do, remember the world was created via words, your words are powerful, that's why many motivators would advice you to speak your expectations into reality. One of the most common mistakes we make is to think that people would easily forget what you've said, or thinking they wouldn't take it heart. All the "it doesn't matter" the "I didn't mean what I said", the " I didn't mean it like that " are all more like air to fire, it doesn't always stop it. One thing to learn is that our words are powerful, it commands a whole lot, there is so much power and ability to create in our words, but people don't really see it for what it is, it's more than the function of eating and talking, no its more powerful.
My pastor once said and I concurred, if mouths were supposed for eating only, then it would be best situated at the stomach were it would be easy for it to get to the final destination being the intestines, but seeing it was placed among the sense organs at the head means there is a larger task for it, and that task very much is to make alive. The power to bring things to life, the power to create something new, its in the tongue right there in your words.
Before words are finally spoken, it is first thought in the brain, though some people don't think before they talk, doesn't mean the brain isn't aware of what they said, the brain is aware, moreover its the organ for intelligence and helps speech but rather the person who spoke didn't think through if what he or she would say would be acceptable to the receiver. So now that we've established that the brain is aware then know your mind is also made up because you speak at will. Every words spoken is allowed through the will of our minds.
No one chooses your choice of words for you, you speak what you want and how you want it, even if you are in an environment where everyone is coordinated and are directed to speak in a certain way, the fact that you open your mouth to speak means your mind is willing to speak, if you are forced then your mind has been forced to speak, your mind has your will and your emotions to it, so you are willing to do whatever you have done and will do. I hope someone understand.
For example, you can't walk or run without your brain or your will, if its without your brain then you wouldn't know to take the left leg after the right, you can't even run cause your brain hasn't commanded the action, and without your will approval, you still wouldn't do it, even if force is applied, it has only forced your will into approving to act. Note : for sudden or surprise actions both your brain and will aren't aware its all reflex action.
Back to the main headline, which is Choose your words rightly, we've see that those words spoken have already journeyed from the brain and has been approved by our will, so we just easily let it out, Now should you say something hurtful, its almost right to say that words has been nurtured especially if you're good at reading actions and expressions both facial expressions and body effects, so its taken that the Sayer isn't kidding but could mean every word that's been said, when angry you tend to speak a lot especially hateful words that you can't take back and the receiver now holds on to those hateful words even after your apologies and you are Still regretting the action cause things can barely return to normal.
Learning to speak the right words at the right time is a good skill to adapt, sometimes those insults or bad words can be the right word for the occasions, yes some times its needed, we should fight it out and insults, some situations really do warrants it, but nevertheless let the words be the right words, if its insults try to making it the right choice of insult, so you don't regret your action when the matter dies down and everyone is returning to good terms.
Words cut deeper than knives,the words of encouragement you've given to many people are what keeps them going, the words of advice to people has help in choosing their path to follow, learn to use the power in your words to make a life's better, to transform people into a better self, you can do this with each words of communication, so help them by using the power in your words rightly. Stop the hate speech it has lead many into committing suicide or having a low self esteem. The power in your words are rather numerous, you it wisely, use it for a greater good.
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Little Things Matter Too
The very little things you feel can't possibly matter, you'd be shocked to see that they are indeed objects of concern, one thing to note is that people differs, so does situations and occurrences, so sometimes our approaches to matter should differ dependent on how it is or who it is, but a vivid study of the person or things is a major tool to detecting the best approach. Those words you feel isn't necessary to say to her or him might just be what is needed to make it all alright. Those warmth goodbye hugs might just be what she need to keep you in her memory all through the night, that little rose flower you passed by might be want she's hoping you'd bring along while coming to visit.
Already we know it's a day of love, so permit me to channel more on lovers than on other matters of relationship. relationship is broad, everyone has a relationship with everyone, you have a relationship with me, even while you haven't seen me, if someone was to ask you "have you read any of passionates article, who is passionate? You'd just say i don't know him in person, but he's a co writer in the read cash platform, you see we have a tie, that person you don't know is your fellow country man, if a citizen of a country is kidnap in another country, the home country takes up the matter seriously because yes, you all are all related by your mother land.
So when its said love your neighbours you should know it's not secluded to your environs alone, its the world at large. So that little good, that little act of uplifting words is a plus to the world as you never know who needs it at the point in time, moreover good is never wasted, good is good, the result might not be seen so quick and so big, but its all a seed and they are sure to germinate so keep it going. Same with bad, some bad you do might not yield result or consequences but they are seed, both good or bad, they are all seed.
Just as some plants takes a month to germinate and some others take years to germinate, so also does good and bad acts, they are also seed, so be careful how you sow, its better you kill the seed before you sweat trying to cut down the tree". Hmm I've not seen that word somewhere, just thought of that, I like it, its better you kill the seed before you try so hard to cut down a tree. True words though, treat things at the early stages because it gets harder as it spends more time around and active.
So that little things too matters, those good mornings as you walk across the street, that smile as you talk back, that holding of hands, that visitation, that dinner you're cooking for the family, so many little things we are probably overlooking because we've gotten use to the person or situation, your husband face has gotten so familiar you are forgetting he still wants to be loved upon, your wives face is not intriguing anymore you don't remember to bring her a gift, my birthday you've now forgotten, oh it doesn't matter, you are still my husband, oh today is our anniversary, oh sorry honey I totally forgot, you know how things are. The love fire,the adrenaline, the tension, the blood pumping, the rush all gone cold.
Let's treat the issues seriously, if we don't want the excitement of love anymore, still don't deprive your partner from enjoying it, moreover you both promised it is going to be a nice time together, life isn't greater than love, love is the greatest force of all. If you feel life is deteriorating your love, then you need to fight it back, not for yourself, but for your other self, since you both are joined as one, you both aren't two different persons per say, you are both one body, so do it for your other self and don't be selfish. Don't let her starve of love, because you are not feeling like it, don't starve him of care because your mind is dealing with a lot, its rather self centeredness, you both have a duty to each other, keep the love hot just as you were in the beginning.
Truthfully, when kids are involved, the changes are noticeably drastic, the naughtiness is cautioned, now you are both pretending to be well behaved trying to train up your kids in the best possible way, that's right, that's true, but something can be done once in a while, you could still fix a date, go on a romantic vacation, what are you working for if you aren't gonna spoil the love of your life with goodies and excitement, moreover the fact that it's done once in a while makes it interesting as he and she has something to look out for and plan towards. The little things do matter in life, don't just overlook it, try to put a smile on peoples faces, this is a philanthropical action as you are adding more divinely recorded good to the good list in the world. Also love up on your husband or wife, make your life interesting also, love yourself. @Therandomrewarder. @TheRandomRewarder
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Being Humble is Good Investment
We all have the ego, everyone wants to be taken with importance and sometimes things and people don't just play it your way, everyone is in the fight to shine, we all want to teach like we know it all but little do we truly realize that action indeed speak louder than words. Its not in the struggle for the spot light, its not in the brilliant spoken words coming forth from your lips, neither it is in the demanding of your respect by force, no it's not there, people would give you their earnest respect and submission when they are seeing evidence of your workmanship.
You'd be shocked to see how much you can learn from being humble, when you lay low for others to lead no matter how good and learned you think you are, there's always something to learn from another person, no body is an island of knowledge. You know because we are always at the fore front tutoring and directing we really don't get to grow so much. There's a place to always want to know more, seek knowledge from people who have gone ahead. Know how to be teachable, no matter your background, you must learn to be submissive if truly you want someone's knowledge to be passed through to you.
Every master is ready to offload more to that student who is not trying to outshine the master, that student who isn't looking for his master's fault rather is trying so hard to cover up any leakages the master might have and still takes the master like a god, to that student the master is always ready to impact with active supervision to see him or her grow, it's all humility, if you can humble your self before God and your leaders, its only a matter of time before you shine.
Every one is looking for someone who would carry after them, whom people would see and just know that they have successfully impacted their self into them, it's not necessary this persons are their kids although its preferable and makes them happier but anyone would do just fine. Legacy isn't just the surname, it can also be a craft or knowledge and we all must pass it across from your generation to another upcoming generation and who would hand over something so precious to someone who wasn't humble, would you?
Some things we believe to be write and best might just be very wrong and inapplicable, more reason why we should learn from people who has gone ahead of us. You might be the best in the world but we all still have that one person we would keep quiet and listen to. Today everyone is seeking mentorship from those already established individuals, because we have come to realize the benefits of being trained and mentored. We must be humble if truly we aim to be great as much as we can phantom. Even if no one has achieved your desires, you've got to know someone who has something to offer you that would very much be of help, you should also be humble in order to attach and receive from such individual.
Knowledge doesn't find who to dwell in because of money or family status, it would accept and reside in anyone who takes active steps to seek after it. If you are wealthy and you except knowledge to find its way to you, then you're joking, more reason why our early lives were full of teachings and grooming, in our childhood we all had to be taught, and learn the importance of humility to those who knows more than we do. We were students we had teachers to teach us formal education, we had brothers and parents to teach us on basic life's lesson, we had masters to teach us some desired skill sets, we had friends to teach each other about life and the importance of togetherness. Though we had never stopped learning, just we do it in an advanced form presently, but the place for humility in order to learn is never outdated.
Cut down on your pride and try to learn a thing or two, mind you, it's not only the elderly you should be humble towards, inasmuch as you want to get something from someone then you've got to stay humble till your desired goal is achieved. The hand of the receiver is lower while the hand of the giver is on top, this is a practical law of life, if you try to place your hand higher than the giver, there's only a pinch to what you can receive.
Your friends can be the one with the knowledge, your brother, sister, someone younger than you, your enemy, name it anyone could have the knowledge you seek for and while you want what you want you've got to stay humble. Humility doesn't mean you are senseless or low self esteemed, it is more like an investment, you are trying to acquire something that would be beneficial to you on the long run. Humility is a necessary skill in life. Learn to be humble guys.
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Follow Peace With Everyone
You could easily say this doesn't concern you and I'll understand, I can relate to the fact that we all just want to mind our business and focus on things closely related to us alone maybe because we feel people would abuse the kindness, so in order for peace to rain, why not just begin by staying in your lane in the first place., also it could be because of you just aren't capable of rendering the needed assistance, so you just lay low and not do anything. Bot instances are completely relatable, but there's something you aren't seeing yet.
Most of the people you come across with daily, you don't live with them in their houses, you know little of how they feed, or if there's any pressing issues currently weighing them down, we don't some kind of things and even if we ask many of them would still give the famous answer "all is fine", and they too you wouldn't blame, their reasons for shying it off is also relatable as the reason why people don't wanna help in the first place. Some might not wanna bother you, some might think you can't possibly have a solution for him or her, so what's the need, some also are just trying to secure their reputation, so someone doesn't come abusing them of their predicament, so they just deny, people do love their self respect.
So why should you put effort to making someone smile? Because we a love beings and we are expected to share this love from one person to another, from one state to another, from one country to another, there's already enough sadness and anger in the world today, so if you know you want someone else to make you smile, then you have got to start sowing the seed now. Its almost like everyone driving a car is in enmity with the other person driving close by, you go to buy something and someone in the market would spoil your mood by raining curses for any reason possible.
In the school, at the office, on the street, everywhere you could see so much anger and hate so pronounce, we have gotten so used to the hate they we don't feel it bad anymore, slowly we forget that our kids are incoming and its very much our task that everything around them helps gives the good training they deserve. We are human, love is our true nature, all want we see in the world today isn't really our true nature, its just an adaptation to the product of anger and frustration. But like I always say, we are bigger.
When you wake, please share that smile, the new day nor the people around isn't the reason why you are Moody, know the reason and fight against it. While walking in the good morning greet with a smile is good, try your best to brighten up someone's mood, even if it makes them smile for just a second, at least you have tried and you have also laid the seed of hospitality on the world and on the heart of such individual, no doubt he might not take he has seen to replicate but at least you've planted and you've taken a step closer to helping the world be a better place.
Everyone wants to be happy, even the bad people still want to make merry and be happy, there's a quest to enjoy life and make merry, and yes, everyone is deserving of the happiness, we all need to be happy, but the circumstances of life has stolen the happiness from some home and people, so make someone happy by helping in anyways you can. It doesn't necessarily needs to be money or properties, it can be anything delightful, it could simply be a smile or quality time out with anyone and just discuss and gist, just ensure you're dropping a deposit of love and motivation, you can never tell who needs it, so just keep up the constant spread of love. One love guys.
Thanks guys, do have a lovely day. Don't forget to deposit your God given smile to the people around you. light up the mood. Because both you, me,and everyone else is deserving of love. Make someone smile today!
Let's talk about Love
Do we really love unconditionally nowadays, can you boast of having experienced true love? What we see around are mere infatuations, we see two people trying to hang on because of the benefits they are enjoying in it. Firstly the media pressure is actively pushing people into joining the trend, its more like you're missing out, you just need someone to call your own so you too can show off to the world that you're also important, well sooner than later, such feelings would die off as reality would set in.
Gone are the days when we search for for our missing piece, someone to complete us, no not necessarily the beautiful faces or the well endowed body, it goes deeper into seeking for one who your heart connects with and you just can't spend a day without, true love has always been a decision for the heart and not a decision for the eyes to make.
Girls are no more moved by his dreams in life, they admire the talents and God given gifts, but would prefer the other guy with money at hand with no laid out plans, just as long as we have the cash at hand then we can cope, but forgetting that money has always come and stayed with brains, wisdom is also a requirement to keep the money coming, many has hit the Jack pot, but only end up smoking pots with it or doing things not productive, its only a matter of time before there's an eye opener.
The boys are not left out, they also do care less about the inward beauty and simply mesmerized with the attractiveness, already envisioning how She'll be in bed, then after that to find out she is more of a concern than she is a satisfaction. Already we see today that ladies are beginning to care less about the kitchen, our mothers prepared the food always for the family, but now there's a maid for that, do you know that the man who said that and I quote "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" well this word is true, though not the only way as good attitude and virtuous nature is also a delight to the man. If an hungry man is an angry man, then how about the wife who knows how to feed her man, she's definitely making him a happy man.
What are your look outs when it comes to love, what do you look out for, could it be financial freedom so you don't really care about anything else, could it be looks, could it be character and attitude, could it be fame, could it be body build up, we humans have the craziest of expectations and we most times don't see a perfect fit, yet there are a few things we know must be in line, especially when we are looking into a lifetime marriage, not just some causal dating.
Its important to be with someone who's sexually appealing to you, as this prevents you from extramarital affairs, thereby saves you from the troubles and scandals. Of course its not certain that a person who's with a partner that's sexually appealing to him or her won't go out to cheat, but its a start point, at least its has its way of reducing it's probability of occurring plus then we can't see a somewhat explanation for your action.
Someone who's capable of training your kids right, inputting the right traits in them to ensure they grow to be up to or better than what you pray them to be. Already its no lies that as parents, you'd want your children to be better than you in all capacities, as well as hope they would have the best of characters worthy of commendation. To do this, your partner needs to be productive and profitable too. So your kids do carry your both legacies which of course is good, as you both have portrayed good parenting.
You can't lie to yourself neither, we all know that one person we crave to be with if we could have our way, yet we move, but notwithstanding we need no distractions when were in a relationship. Don't bring your trauma from the past to affect the present, give each person a fighting chance and give them the best experience of you and just love. The matter of love is a matter of the heart and at such we need to make it heartfelt and not eyes search alone nor endowments. Pick rightly And love rightly, stop making wrong choices and saying there are no good ones around, well there are and you just need to raise your standards and begin the journey.
Love Is Sweet, sadly many has gotten a bitter experience, well its time to chose and love right. We can love someone and someone else too can love up on us. Cheers guys!!
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Man Know Thyself
A summary of our task even as we live through life, we have to know ourselves, our do's and don'ts, likes and dislikes, endurance and perseverance capacity, emotional stability, turn off, addictions, type of person attraction to you, so much and so much we can be certain about ourselves, though as humans we are dynamic but yet there are many constant features we have exhibited numerous that if we change we would only be lying to ourselves and faking things. Everyone need to adhere to the saying "man know thyself".
Its a simple question, everyone would be quick to answer, yes I know myself very well, moreover it's my life, i definitely know myself more than anyone else, but when a test of it comes, you'd be shocked to know, some individuals actually hasn't paid more attention to knowing their selves, shocking right? You'd probably know your best meal, your best movies, your best song, all those and a list of them are basic knowledge about ones self, there are other things quite very important but we haven't paid more attention to.
Can you work under pressure? Can you work with a team?, how is your tolerance level?, let me stop here first, these are popular interviews questions but how many know their honest answer, we mostly say yes, when asked can you work under pressure, because that's what the interviewer wants to hear, and yes truly many people can work under pressure, they are emotionally capable to be sober in tense environments, but yet many others would falter, just almost loose their mind, in fact the employer would have no choice than to give the day off.
I'm not saying you should admit you can't work under pressure, you might lose the job, yet your honesty could earn you the job, its your call, but then its an aspect you should know about, so you'll know how to start building yourself in cases of any forth coming unwanted events, as well as trying to prevent any occurrence that would later on pressurize you, you'd deal with things early so they don't get cumbersome on you. There's benefits to knowing yourself particularly in important areas, that way you'd know how to maneuver things to fall in your favour.
Can you work as a team? This I feel everyone should learn, doesn't matter if its a yes or no, that's to your personal knowing, but it's a skill you should learn. Nevertheless there are numerous people whom if you lock them in a room alone, they can come up with mind blowing ideas, but if they are put in a room with people, they won't really function, maybe because of the noise, could be because the rest people aren't smart enough so they are missing the point or slowing down his thinking, or most commonly among the ladies, you aren't in good terms with a person in the room, so the anger isn't letting them do a good thinking. Either ways its always best you learn to work with people, what's a good business without sales and what's is sales without communicating with people.
No one is an island of knowledge, already you know, there is always something to learn from another, might not even be related to the business only, but it sure would be beneficial to you, so the skill of working as a team, is one to build, team work gets the job done easier and in a shorter space of time, thereby saving you a lot of energy, plus it mostly fun working as a team, there's always a story to tell your people back home. But yet start by knowing if you can work with a team, and if no, then you'd know you've got to start working on that area right.
What's your tolerance level? How much can you bear being pushed to the wall before actually setting your blow?. Yet another area of yourself you ought to know from your high school at least. While some people can bear the anger and insults because they don't want trouble or they can't possibly win the fight, or they just wanna get what they came for, some others doesn't care and would make things turn upside down before the action is fully taken. You never know who is coming in to the office and how angry a customer would be, you've got to learn to increase your tolerance level, because at the long run, there's something you are wanting to gain, so you've got to learn to bear a lot, but you won't learn to bear and increase your tolerance level if you don't know yourself to have a quick temperament.
See reason to study yourself, starting from your likes and dislikes, then to more advance area. The bible says "Man know thyself.. ." it's a basic tool to our existence, to know who we truly are, not just our purpose, everything about us, at least as much as we can discover. Its rather impossible to fully uncover the hidden truths about you, but the earlier the better and more coverage for you. Till today I still get to be amazed at myself, I never knew I could do some things, I never knew I'd love some people and places, I'd never knew I could hold myself against some things or actions, some reason as to why i want to do some things I have known, some reasons I still don't know why I crave for, but I'm in a constant deeper search as experiences come by. Everyone know thyself.
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The Best Investment Remains In Yourself
How much do you have in store within you? How much value can you self create by yourself, how well have you known to help you be independent and successful, just as there must be a planting season before an harvest, there have got to be an investment time before profits, and the best investment for any to engage in is an investment in oneself.
Although while we were still younger, our parents or guidance made the decisions on our behalf and compelled us to adhere, its not a bad decision as its known to be in general a worldwide way to improve every child, I'm talking about education, most of us, were opportune to go to school, we couldn't decide for ourselves as we knew only little, and if we were to dictate for ourselves, we still might make a wrong choice as we were only young and inexperienced. Already most of our childhood dreams are no longer what we crave for to be, we are happy we didn't rush into them.
Equip yourself, each mark day by day heading to a better version as you are hoping to be, there passion is easily sorted after, then the hard part is the actual work, to get up and start off the journey is the harder aspect, then we can be concerned with trying to overtake the competition, already we know if its productive then its going to be crowded, so overthrowing the competition is a strategic way to keep remaining relevant in the game. All this and more would definitely require a well groomed version of you, there's an higher office to attain so you also must beat the requirements to get there, not necessarily via credentials, although its important but its more of a personal growth, you have self improved yourself to be better fit for that high standing.
What is the expectant result, then what also is the needful, for that result to be achieved, what is the investment you have got to undergo, this you'll need to make an intensive research on and see how to kick start it off, the best thing any one can do is to make the right choice of investment,and history has shown that more productive than any business is investing in oneself, personal growth and development.
The sad reality is that the current system of education doesn't fully prepare someone to confidently and independently handle a new start up and so we still need to go into apprenticeship, not necessarily the workshop kind of apprenticeship it's a subgroup but not limited to only as we could serve in various aspect of apprenticeship. Apprenticeship is just a coming under the tutoring of a more knowledgeable person or group in a particular field so that you also can better improve and become independent after the training process.
The world today has clearly shown mentorship programs happening online, as people don't necessarily need to go under a building or workshop to get groomed, the just need to sign up and follow the laid down agenda. Also Reading, looking for and reading up in desired areas to help the brain and mind prepared.
As human our aspirations needs to be followed up with an intentional learning and self investment, we need to grow and constantly be better, the best investment anyone can indeed do, is it invest in oneself.
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To whom much is given, much is expected!
To whom much is given much is expected, today's world is surrounded by people who wishes to attain a certain height without wanting to bear the hardship it brings, you want to make that money but not sweating for it, we just hope it would come easy. Believe me when I say if the process is taken away the price won't be valued, people won't respect and adore gold or diamonds if it were easy to discover, good and valuable commodities are not easily owned, same applies to the crown, to wear it isn't for everyone but only those proven worthy.
There's a difference between how the man working and toiling for the money decides to spend it compared to his son or daughter who are entitled to it spends it, back then when I was younger, I cared less than I care now, i couldn't read my dads countenance when I demanded for money, I'll just ask and grumble when its not coming as quickly as I want, but now that I also have to drop money for the family, I get upset when unnecessary bills are brought up, not long ago I called my dad to say "sir you tried a lot, how did you bear all of it".
I laugh whenever people aspire for a big position and say "yes now I can relax", i like do you know what you are saying?, maybe you think the cool Air-conditioning in your new office and the big chair in the office is because your time has come to enjoy your life, or the big salary now coming is because your life has just gotten easier, well my dear the Air-conditioning and the rolling chair alongside the huge buck of salary is because you'll need it to survive in the incoming task.
Simply because when you'll be needed to make a tough decision that can gravely affect the industry either positively or negatively and what ever the outcome would be, you're the one to be held responsible, then you'll see why you need that chair to relax your nerves, the Air-conditioning to cool your tension and the huge salary so you can settle most bills so you don't have much bothering your mind, that way the company stands a better chance of you making the right choices. The higher you climb, it doesn't get easier but instead it gets scarier and harder to get on ground to relax.
Leading your fellow humans has proven to be one hardest job to do, as nobody was program to fellow your directives, you can only do your part but the sincere devotion of the people is not in your power to make, some or even all might like you and obey, yet some might not, also all might not and just make it unbearable for their leader, its a crazy place to be, leaders enjoy the honour and fame, but its all a pay for the trouble the task is laying on them. Also let me chip in that leading humans is also one of the greatest achievement anyone can have in his or her lifetime and be proud of, the thing in it is the fact that it isn't an easy one to do.
So yesterday was international women's day and we could see how the women took over and share their part of the story, we see how women also have taken up positions and are doing perfectly fine also wearing the crown. Over the years we men have boasted in our strength and the women have watched from behind, but it clearly shown yesterday that women are now with us at the fore front and working just as required.
I saw a female painter who has painted many houses, offices, bars and the likes and she did a great job at that, also an engineer also getting her hands dirty and she got so appreciated, same way we tag the receptionist work to the females alone, now we see that the males too can make a good receptionist, the essence of this is to tell that the ability to work and wear the crown isn't always in strength but in bravery, a king is known for bravery, so if you wanna put the crown on your head, be you a he or a she it doesn't matter, all that counts is your bravery.
Its never easy to take up that position by wearing the crown, but its a great achievement and it should be taken with joy because not everyone can do it nor would everyone be able to do it throughout their life time, some people might never get to experience such, so when it comes to you, rather than shying away, learn to accept it and work to the best of your ability. Be brave and tell your self constantly that you can do it, moreover a human must take up the task, that capable human might as well be you.
Leadership roles is always an opportunity to create a needed change, it would be easier to effect a change from on top rather than amidst the normal crowd of followers. The reason why the world would still be lacking in some areas is because good people are too scared to take up high positions, for it would be clearly evident that good has reign should they stand up and be brave. Kings aren't weaklings, if so they would be killed and their kingdoms taken over, they have got to be brave, act brave and stay brave. The crown of responsibility are always heavy, but you can't wear it via your strength alone,you've got to be brave at heart.
Thanks yet again for reading, trust you're having a nice day, please do like, subscribe and comment below. Keep the fire burning guys. One love!
I miss Rusty
Its been more than 2weeks that my article got visited by @TheRandomRewarder , I've been writing while hoping to see the delight of "Your article has been upvoted by TheRandomRewarder. I guess I commuted a crime and at such I've was barred, although with my comments being spammed, but that has been reviewed and corrected, but yet Rusty isn't showing forth any graces
No jokes,I miss @Therandomrewarder. I just wish he would give me another chance, come back to visiting my article and being a source of motivation to me as he has always been.
You can't measure how jealous I feel seeing others paid, I always crave for mine too.
Well, I can only hope for mine, believing he would come again.
I really wanna say thank you to the few persons who has upvoted as a means to encouraged me to just hang on, I pray you never experience being without Rusty on this platform, damn I miss the random rewarder, I hope he comes rewarding my write ups again
When I notice he visits me again, the feeling would be so overwhelming, I'll literary keep smiling yet praying he continues, its a great incentive and a motivation for everyone to keep on writing, that BCH is very useful to me. No jokes on that.
Yeah.... This would be the mood, I'll be like yeah we're back in the game. I hope he really smile on me and this article doesn't send him off the more, rather its accepted as both an apology for any wrong done as well as a call that someone misses him so much. Thanks a lot for the read.
ReadCash - The Current Best Library
Already, library is no longer about books on shelves, technology has brought knowledge into electronic formats that are readable, editable and still able to be sent across yet protecting the rights of the original author, so as much as we are conversant with the hard copies we are well aware of the usefulness of soft copies as an advanced measure that has proven to be better storage compared to scrolls capable of decaying.
Recently there has been a home where numerous authors from across the globe can meet, post their articles and still get a section box to interact with people who has an opinion on the written subjects, already judging by the statistics we have seen an upward trend of an increasing number of users as the day goes by, no question its on a quest to bring in all who has interest in reading and writing, as they would find such a place lovely to spend time on. This home is non other than our beloved Read.Cash a home of unlimited knowledge.
Let's not forget the area of compensation, personally I know the compensation plan is not just the best but also the most promising, already there are countless users who has met with a life changing financial upgrade via any of their remarkable published article, one good enough to make a generous tipper rush down to upvote, have you experience such, oh I can imagine the crazy joy, the joy of earning a lot probably what you could have earned for a year, just earned it in a day, just make sure you arrange back everything you've shattered and scattered during the period of the excitement.
You can remember back then in our high school, for those of us who took economic classes, we should recollect that the teacher made mention of Incentives to workers as a vital tool to improving work forces and motivating workers to do more, and this is truly a home where such motivation is given. Firstly thanks to bitcoin cash BCH being the awareness reason for the platform, then let's not forget the ever generous @TheRandomRewarder as well as the known great tippers the platform has been blessed with, of course the man that came to your mind, the great @MarcDeMesel it nevers gets old with him around, fresh and better energy each time. So much has kept putting a smile on peoples faces, you would literally wake up with the hope of writing better.
Another aspect that makes it the best library at the moment, and still looking as it will keep being the best for a long time is not just because of the awarded incentives but also because there isn't an aspect you'll look to read and you won't find, name it, there's an author you'll surely subscribe to that would feed you with daily dose of your desired area of reads. Well if you're into motivation and inspiration, then I'm your boy, yeah its my advertisements lol.
Although I feel like we'll be needing a specialist on sport though, not to commentate the full 90 mins of a soccer match, how many mins a basketball match or table tennis, I sincerely don't know yet, nor how a running race went down, maybe just an overview. I'm sure there are many sport lovers here. That's an area I haven't really found a person to subscribe to, maybe I just haven't noticed I'll search though.
You need a write up on nature, on relationship, marriage, motivation, money, travels, economics, covid pandemic, especially the most famous cryptocurrency. Of recent ive been seeing a lot of jungles and NTFS that I had to push in, been acquiring few and each day I get to know more. There's no doubt you can prescribe read cash to a good reader and you'll meet him still having fun reading after hours of introduction. Yea its that addictive.
Sadly, not every reader knows of this platform yet, many might be praying for an experience like this but they just don't know its already in existence, in fact for over a year now. Why not do a lot of good by publicizing huh. Let's tell the world know there's read cash and its very active as much as doing a lot of good. So yes Read.cash remains the best library. @Read.Cash
The Force Called Love
Compared to any force existent on earth, the greatest force that creates the remarkable each and every time is love. You never know the extent you can go till you have something you cherish dare to your heart at stake. You can be a calm person by nature but the moment your love one is being tampered with, there's a whole new side to you, and you know from how I see it, love is right always, your reaction could be as bad as murder, its bad right, but if love made you do it, let them continue to turn back the hands of time, you would still make the same offence over and over again, because you can't see any other way to secure who or what you love.
Love is selfless, probably the only thing that can make a man think outside himself for a second, it has to be for something or someone he loves, love doesn't have limitations, its just supernaturally out of your control, sometimes its best we leave the ones we love when they don't reciprocate the love or the relationship is abusive, but that doesn't mean you have stopped loving the person, at a little sight of change, you might see yourself running back to his or her arms.
Love breaks all rules,be it government laws, be it religious doctrines, be it personal principles, its all a matter of priority, and the one you love is always at top priority, imagine telling a mother to stay indoor in a war era, when her child is gravely in need of drugs just across the street, in fact, even if she gets shot at, she isn't yet thinking of herself, she could use her last breathe to see the drug gets to her child, no there's no logical explanation to how or who or why we love, its all more of the spiritual than meet the bodies, its a soul connection.
Love also creates the best hatred, its brings out that jealousy in you, ever loved something too much, you hate the fact that you can't get it, and more so you hate anyone who gets it. Ever loved someone too well, you hate the fact that the person isn't yours, in turn you hate the current spouse of the person, you just find yourself disliking whatever has to do with their happy escapades, you want to hear about them, but don't want to hear good things, deep down you feel they would have a better love experience or even the best experience with you as their fiance or fiancée. Well this is very natural, cause I know some saints might want to deny ever loving someone to such great extent.
Seeing the force pull love can bring about, the question then pop up, who and what do you love, its high time we channeled our love and heart to who and what really matters in our life, for example our family, parents, wife, husband, kids and so on, also Career, what serves as your means of livelihood, what brings food to the table, and in turn feed your family, also channel your love to your vision, many a times our career or source of income isn't really our vision and aspiration in life, you're lucky if your career is your lifelong wish, then you can focus better, but should your career path be different from your dreams in life, know that it's a duty to place your footprint on this earth you've trodden, and how best to remain remembered than establishing your vision into reality, not building and aiding another mans dreams.
There are so many reasons why you should know love is the greatest of all, even in science, the remarkable inventors could have given up at their first trial of trying out a new idea, or at most the 10th trial, should he or she not love and have passion for the vision he or she hope to invent into existence, the popular inventor of the light bulb said he tried and had 1000 unsuccessful attempts, oh if he wasn't in love with his dream, he probably should have stopped at 15 at most, but to keep up to 1000, that's more than just duty, its love and passion, and yes seeing that love is the greatest force that creates, its only a matter of time before success is seen.
Love is good, love is great, love is patience, its perseverance, its tolerance, its supernatural, its amazing, its life force, its our duty to channel the energy of love aright, to the right person and to the right thing. It works like magic.
Yes thanks again for reading, please don't forget to like, your comments are very appreciated, and also subscribe, love you all. Let love lead always.
Time Adds Value
Time management is essential to every good cause, whatever field of play you're currently engaging in, timing brings you to a better and faster result, time does possess some powers as we've noticed from time immemorial. Time heals, as well as time grows, as well as time teaches, as well as time is life. Life's stories and experience has very much elaborated the aforementioned points to almost everyone one way or the other, time is of the essence. He that can plan his time usage and follow suit could achieve his or her set goals.
Truthfully nothing can contend with having it done or having it come at the exact point in time its needed, that perfect timing outplay is a good feeling. You started your day and there's a lot on your to-do list outlined for you to accomplish so you started off early planing your way through each step and seeing it to the finish, oh that feeling of accomplishments, Time management is a vital ability all should imbibe within as it enables you take control of the situation not just early but on time.
The saying of "there's time for everything" already has proven to be a fact, same way there's a time to be born, time to learn, to work, to start a family, to sow, to reap and so on there is also the place of we planning how our time is spent, this singular act of planning how our time is spent would bear us more fruit than our hardworking labour. Its not always a good idea to act as soon as you remember, you might skip some important things or just work it hurriedly. There is a needed place of calm where you plan out how your 24 hours of the day should be spent wisely.
Often time we've heard people say, oh time is not on our side, the time given to me isn't enough for me, I can't possibly run through this before the time allocated, this often happen at work places, in school especially when students are preparing for their exams or test, happen even at home when you're trying to shuffle between the house chores you've left undone. Yet there are numerous people who aren't complaining about the time duration and evidently have rounded up their task before the time elapses, so what's wrong? I thought we all had same hours of the day allocated to us all, so why is someone with my task finishing up before me while I'm here complaining about the time. Its simply because one has properly planned on how to make good use of time given while the other think he is making good use of the time, but in reality isn't.
Do you know how many minutes of the day we've spent doing nothing especially on weekends. The typical person just wanna be quiet and lost in thought for a while, in as much as this is good, most times its either we spend too long pondering, or just notice that what we are lost in thought about just isn't worth, so rather we are just resting. For someone who has his or her time planned out, there is a proper time to rest and are less likely to run out saying they forgot to do something, for example forgetting to press your cloths before the time of use, time planning help prevent rush, which in turn prevent unneeded causalities.
Not just for jobs interviews is this skill of time management required, its also required in our every day living, we plan the day, we plan the events incoming, we plan our future, we plan when and where the next course of action should be, in all this planning the time for execution, unless it might lead to the same old procrastination all over again. One main reason for procrastination is just lazing, and it can be fought with proper time planning and strict execution of the laid down plan. Moreover since you set the time for things to be done yourself cause you already know or rather you could guess how your day should be spent, its expedient you have self discipline to see yourself follow the timing strictly, bet you after some time you will find yourself getting use to your timing. adjusting quickly and in turn producing better results.
1 minute can be enough time if we plan it well, so also 100 years might yet not be enough if we refuse to take time management seriously. Make good use of the time allocated, plan your day, plan your life. Make time work for you. Cheers!
Thanks for reading guys, proper timing is a needed trait, let's groom ourselves in it. Please do like, subscribe and comment below. Stay loved guys.
BCH Remains the Coin for the people, by the people and with the people
BCH I stand!!!
BCH - Another Vaccine For The Pandemic
Its been over a year already since the world stood still at the coming of the coronal virus, for months it was crazy, everyone all confused, the pressure was mounted on the medical practitioners to seek a way out, the religious leaders took matters to their supreme deities, families cut off all communication with other people, it was a busy and frustrating quest for survival. Need to mention the news update about with the increasing death rate and more much increasing new cases, no question it was a time to uphold safety first as a slogan. No hard feelings but I just can't shake your hands Sir, don't be angry I won't hug you now. It was an #StaySafe everywhere.
For how long could we stay without the necessary provision being catered for, we needed help, I needed help big time, we had already started rationing the food so it could serve extra days, here you couldn't rely on the government, the shared palliatives would have to travel through many stomachs before it could get to the masses, so we all had to find out way yet dodging the virus.
Then comes read.cash with this incredible platforms for earning, our writing savior, a home both for spending quality and earning quality cash. No doubt the Advent of Read.Cash and Noise.Cash is a blessing to many including myself, oh especially myself, quickly putting my talent to use, while yet learning a lot from the many outstanding writers present in the platform. It was a vaccine indeed as many problem was not about contacting the virus, there was other matters, crucial matters being dealt with.
Vaccine for curing boredom
No doubt we were all bored, like I couldn't step out, the zoom meetings were all full of fear and fake smiles, our normal day is being taunted by this crazy virus, how much I missed the fun of a real company, miss getting those gist while seeing the facial expression attached. As a family we did a lot to make it worth our time, but it didn't just cut it, friends brings out the crazy areas in me, but then reading is one area where you can feel the writer through the words and just swim along. This read cash brought to me, from motivation which has been my area of specializing, to relationship which of course everyone wants to get right and crypto which currently speaks the money, nature, anime and so on, it's all here, I just write and read and my hours are being well spent.
Vaccine for Curing Ignorance Via BCH
So before now, my transactions fee know as network fee has been crazily high, little did i know I could transfer a coin value without the network fee eating deep into the balance, this was a huge deal for me, as BCH became the new trend with quicker transaction, no long time taken to reflect on the receiver's end, no high network fee and also have the increasing value tendency, isn't this sweet. It has become the best for p2p, like I alway say BCH I Stand.
Vaccine For Provision
No doubts there are many beneficiaries to this great platform, who were able to acquire a thing or two via the tips received, it undoubtedly did go on long way to cater for everyone who couldn't go about their daily activities anymore, it was a gift to writers all around the globe and day in and out you could see the numerous amount of members signing up, some surely left but many more remained.
Note A vaccine isn't always for curing it can also be for prevention, which of course is better than cure. Did it help you remain indoor? Did it help you avoid the risk? Then it's a vaccine. Another vacvine 😁.
Now we know its a vaccine, its enough reason to spread it around, creating awareness of such awesomeness, calling on to the general public, BCH is a gift to mankind, Read.Cash is a home of knowledge, a remarkable one at that. Keep spreading this vaccine. BCH I stand.
Thanks guys for reading again, please do like, subscribe and comment below. Stay safe guys. We are always victorious.
Changing The Status quo - A story 1
There's a constant battle within ourselves when we are tired of the usual status quo and wanting to effect a change as bad as being starved off food. Hoping on a transfer of wealth, a shift in ones life's story, a remarkable turnaround. Its more planned than it is of luck, a consistent and careful build up and monitoring, slowly it is nurtured and ushered into the life of the new owner, at the strike of its final and seal entrance, comes a big celebration, a massive jubilation, champagne popping and loud singing, feeling like the whole world is in the room celebrating meanwhile its only then mind throwing being excited, throwing the party.
So a certain story comes up, a story that tells more of a shift in the status quo, from the burden to the birthing of the new beginning. he isn't much of a people person, moreover someone this smart definitely know how preserve the wealth, so he's calm and allows the party go on with a smile to his face, but his head keeps on straightforward, he his sober not drunk in the moment, yet the butterflies in his tummy remains.
It all started from a place of "Self Reflection" on life and his current status quo, something was wrong, definitely something has to be wrong, he couldn't possibly think he'll be where he was at the time, why was there no change yet, no transformation, the life he so wants has not in grasp yet, no something has to be done, he has to seat up, there has got to head a seat up, some adjustment and it all starts in the morning. But, what do I do first? What's going to be the first step to take changing ones life, deep thoughts covers the head. Meanwhile yet for the dreams he would just enjoy his fantasies as usual. How we hope its easier to just wish and it comes true, how it doesn't depends on effort, rather everything just falls in place for us. But wishes doesn't do it right.
Now its morning, he didn't forget, the energy is still tough on him, in fact he woke up different, got up sharply and stood looking at his bed, saying "what's my first step" what I'm I doing first. When I start there's no going back, there's no giving in to any external advice, its a choice he would be sticking to for a very long while, only to retreat after he's certain this way isn't yielding fruits. What's my first step? He took to his phone and call on his old friend who is doing great for himself, if he was having half of what his friend has got probably he wouldn't be bothered. Hello, how you doing pal, after a short hailing and laughter, are you around, are you home?, yes I am, and so he was going over.
The evening is cool, the chat is interesting, so many things to be reminded of, yet the main reason for coming over, no one could deviate him from, and so the question came, brother I need help, I'm tired of my present, I need a change, seeing you're doing well for yourself there's got to be a way for you to help me out. He could see the sigh of pity on his friends countenance, guess he's got his emotions to his favour, his friend replied oh I understand, life has it's up and down, only if you came earlier, could have some cash to spare you, but as at now there's isn't much cash to hand out, then he knew his countenance change was all part of the craft. Well, he's smart and unrelenting.
No, I'm not asking for money, how long would people continue to help out, I've got to be self sufficient, I need to be a one that could pay the bills in a group putting and not the one people select to help cover his bills, I'm a guy remember, I need to change how people view me around here, you're my friend, you would be in a best place to help me out, I'm serious bro, I'm damn serious. I like your determination, why not, I'll tell you everything I know, I've been looking at you from afar, I thought you weren't going to speak up from the way I've been perceiving you, thought you were being too proud to ask of me, seeing that you aren't, why won't I show my longest pal how to live an happy life, his friend replied and he couldn't stop smiling, already he could smell the wealth approaching.
The cut to quick wealth isn't always the right step, yet we must learn to stay in the good and see how much of a goodly determination we can utilized and the outcome it can bring. There's no short cut to success, or his there?. We would know what the friend is about to share with him, is it good or evil, would he accept. Did that give him the wealth we described in the beginning, or refused and pushed through rightly, did that work out well? Its a decision millions are taking everyday, stay tuned guys.
Wealth is made for life and not life made for wealth, so let's live happily and as great as possible. Stay strong y'all. Please like and subscribe. Thanks!!
How Long Can You Hang On?
When the going get tough, only the tough get going. It can be tiring sometimes, to hope for something, with a continuous struggle to see it come through, everyday facing life's hurdles yet having our personal aspirations to fulfill, when would it all be over, truthfully I've tried but I can't quit now, rather I push everyday like I'm just starting, till my dreams come through I'm not relenting, I remain focus to the goal, I'm steady on my grind. Relentless!
True failure isn't when you failed while trying things out, its when you stop trying things out because you fail. Every failure is a wisdom added, its success in disguise, because now you know that route isn't leading to the goal, so you stop and plan again, trying it differently now, you see that even while you haven't gotten it yet, you could still be an advisor to someone else newer to the game than you. So that failure isn't the true failure,the true failure comes when you quit and say I'm not giving it a shot again.
The spirit of consistency and persistency, have proven itself countless times to be fruitful and something worth our time and investment, some times though we might be in the wrong approach that's why the result isn't coming forth as desired, so as we remain consistent let's also study harder, Learn, unlearn and relearn, I guess that is a topic for later, one of the hardest things to do is to unlearn, that's why people keep trying out in a particular way and expecting a different result.
Some things are just the problem, as we go deeper in the study of our individual craft, we can then see clearer what we should do without, what we should do with a less amount, and also what we must take very serious, with time and study we slowly become an expert in the craft, more reason to not giving up early, oh yes, you've tried but don't be too tired to push again, every step is a value added, no matter the outcome.
The present situation seems to be a balance and life has gone comfortable with it, but you don't want it for yourself, but how do you break through this balance and create a whole new world for yourself, a world you desire, one after your heart, you possibly can't do that with mediocrity, just trying out today and not trying tomorrow, no, you don't underestimate the opponent, also since you're trying to recreate you need as much energy and focus. Energy for the strike and focus for quicker impacted effect. The more you strike at one position, the more the walls is going to fall quicker.
As long as you can eat and drink, then there's no excuse for not trying again, the mind is the power house for every dreams and hopes, but if the body is weak, then there is little we can do, the body is the tool to carry it out each drafted plans, so as long as we can eat, drink and we are healthy, then don't let the situation have a say on your passion for success, get motivations and inspirations daily that would help your push.
Like I'd always say "Life doesn't give us what we desire, rather it gives us what we demand off it", this we know so we constantly and unrelentingly demand our dreams coming through and we act in accordance to it, oh yes we've all tried but we can't afford to back down now,its too late to say " I quit ", we are close to the top, we are pushing each day like its the destined day of our breakthrough, that day shall surely come, in fact we smell it arriving and we smile in expectancy. Not tired guys, not tired.
We move, we see at the top, its an article on motivation, to help see reason why you can't stop now, already we should have heard of people who were consistent and now their story is great to be told, consistency and persistency pays every time, yours might just be the next, so don't quit now, don't stop trying. Yes you've tried but don't get tired. Eat, sleep and push again.
We must keep on in our push, nothing is impossible with God. Please do like, comment and subscribe,we move guys!
We Not Getting Any Younger
Days pass into weeks and weeks pass into months and gradually we have surpassed years, can remember clearly how I said goodbye to college, in fact I have changed a lot since then but memories still appears like it was just yesterday. Remember how my younger brother was brought home as a newly born child with all the celebrations as I ran errands for, and today he is a fully grown man. So judging by what we have done, it always appear like it happened yesterday but in reality it was a lot of yesterday's ago, so there is a point of taking a decision beyond feelings, taking your decision because you know we are all getting closer to gray hairs, so then we've got to take that action.
At old age, when the million dollar question is being asked, how would you feel then? The question of, "Do you have any regrets thus far? Then you'll have to reminisce and almost certainly you'll know what it is that you regretted not doing or chasing before. I feel like everyone would have a thing or two that they regret not doing and if not they would have wished they started earlier. Self discovery leading to ambitions is an area that can take time for a person to fully accept. Not just in the area of career alone, it happens it the different areas of concern especially in that of relationship, oh how I wished I didn't let go, she was the one I truly loved, her image still attends my dreams, oh he gave me my best love adventure, I wished I forgave him though.
Opportunities they say comes but once, how true this word is I'm yet to fully discredit, but it is a fact that some opportunities you've missed can still make up sit up from bed and say " oh no", yes, have you ever been there, maybe a phone call was all you needed to make, and you procrastinated it and as it slipped by you just can't beat up yourself enough, maybe a form was all you needed to buy to get into the tournament but you delayed it thinking you weren't good enough and then as you saw the contenders you clearly know they were no match for you, not a boast, yet it slipped by and never came back to tool you extra years to achieve, this you could be regretting later on, well you're not alone, you, I and millions others have quite a number of things we'd be regretting at old age already, and we aren't 40 yet, can you imagine that.
Now, we've established the fact regrets are natural, and its almost certain that life's events might leads to one or two wrongs choice, and we are very much a candidate for that, yet we can try to start moving and looking forward to minimizing other regrets, as we take active steps to ensuring we on taking the leads we are following our hearts, taking those steps and decision, so that when the questions would pop out, we would clearly say, I had some but I have much more I'm glad I did.
Someone once said life is just a road from birth to death, no matter what we choose and do, lets know where the finish lie is, as sad truth right? Well not so sad for people like me who strongly believe in a life after death, a life that is been supervise by God, who would table our lives before us in judgement, so it greatly shapens our decision cause the main aim is to live a good and pleasing life, a life inline with his plans and principles, a life of godliness, which has its way of helping our decisions in the rest aspect of life.
There can be regrets no doubt, we are humans after all, but believed me when I say it's better to try than not try at all and regret later. Life would go with our choices without advising us, because it expect us to have known by experiences, examples or study. Either way what you choose is what it does, so choose now in a hope of curbing the regrets we might be having later. We aren't getting any younger.
Thanks a lot guys for reading again, how is your Sunday going, please do like, subscribe and comment below. Let's live right and go get it.
HigH HopEs (Anxiety)
Have you ever been anxious, just expecting something huh? Well yes you have. Often we expect too much from other people, hoping they would turn up to our favour, yet many times its becomes another disappointment or even little compared to what we've been expecting, so how do I deal with it? I hate the feeling of hoping and getting all excited only to end up being disappointed. Should I stop expecting, but then shouldn't they stop promising what they can't fulfil, what's the harm in saying the truth of what you can do rather than lying in order to get celebrated or hyped, now we sleep and visualize it, imagining how it would be like when it finally comes, we even wake up smiling and dancing in hope, oh how disappointing it would be when the reality of the event finally sets in. Lolzz.
Its almost like when there's already too much expectations there's bound to be disappointment, maybe nature don't like us getting overexcited, or does this happen to me only, no I doubt, I've heard numerous grumbles from different people on this same issue, you just get your shoulders back to its size after all the raising and parading, its funny now you that think of it, but that moment it just happened, the pain is almost unbearable.
Someone said, its because we talk a lot about things we have incoming and since its a wicked world, bad people aren't happy for your incoming celebration so they stop it, both intentionally and unintentionally, how do they stop it unintentionally? Hmm... Interesting. Well he continued, everyone has a spirit within them, some are good spirit while some are bad spirit, if you say some things to someone who has a bad spirit, you might never get it accomplishments, hmm scary, well I don't believe this ideology. Because I have seen numerous people boast to a public, If it were true, you know not everyone in the public should have a good spirit, yet things turns out to work exactly as they plan. Well I'm not a fan of talking too much, maybe cause it could be stopped intentionally and it's also not a nice character.
What really happened then? Why do we expect a lot only to get disappointed, huh. Well, can I also remember the many times I expected some things and they happened? Yes, I can. So why beat myself up on the times I'd expected and it didn't come through, I'll take it as - life happened, it was going to happen should I have expected it or not, the event was still going to take place. I tend to look at the cause of the disappointment, rather than just conclude, was it really strange or its just as normal as a wind that blows, then I'll know what to do afterwards, mainly they have proven to be normal, some are strange though, but I definitely know there's no supernatural cause to my disappointment, how could it be when I've got Jesus as my lord and Jehovah as my God, no way there's any evil taunting with my life. My life is his, so I'm relaxed.
We often tend to pay more attention to the negative than we do the positive, the positive becomes so normalized that we see nothing worth jumping over in jubilation, yet we forget that there are many other people killing and hoping to get what you have. Truthfully, you see those little thing we can't get or just don't have yet, that's what our minds start pondering about endlessly, this my friend is a normal human nature, but its something that we can deliberately work on, we can choose to pay attention to those little good that clicked, those little contracts we won, those little investment we gained, those little surprises we got, we just building an attitude to intentionally appreciate every good thing coming our way, we just wanna be grateful for all both little and big. Then when we do the math we can see clearly that many things we'd expected came through and clicked, we've just been more focused on the things we couldn't have, yet.
Its real right, it's something we all undergo and should work on, there's enough to be grateful for, many expectations had clicked and successful, some weren't though, but we can't stop hoping for the best, because our dreams must surely come to pass. So let's keep the hope alive.
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Stubbornness Is A Trade Skill
Uncertainties are all over our income search today, there's a time to make that rugged decision, especially in the crypto space where such decisions are made more regularly. It would be easier when there's already a good option to pick and you're only trying to push your instincts against all odds, but in the trading market where no one is fully certain as we can only study the graph and judge via it, such modes needs a good level of stubbornness, a stubbornness to keep on hodl when you're seeing lost with strong hopes for some bounce back.
Could remember one time I was hodling on a coin and then I checked in, only to see it drop against usdt at a -4%, not so bad I thought, I'll keep hodling, then few hours later I checked back to see it at an -11% oh then all my head was on sell, so I hurriedly went off to sell, saved it up in my usdt while looking for what coin to deposits it to as usdt is more of a stable coin. Let me check again as so I did, and this crazy coin has raised back to -4%, and I'm like what's going on, well it might fall back, few hours and its now green, +1%, oh my oh my...
I hurriedly went to buy it again at an higher price of course, and by the evening it's back to the red club -8% and I noticed then that I had successfully lost some dollars to this constant changes. Then I said to my self I'm so going to be stubborn now, if I get you, I'm holding on no matter till I have a good reason not to any longer, moreover I do a lot of researches before acquiring a coin, so it should at least be a good choice. Stubbornness would keep you hanging on amidst playing against the red drop while hopefully awaiting the green boost of a go go go.
Its not easy for anyone, as long as its a search for money, we would have to put up with something that would send a signal to yourself that "hey I worked for my money", could be the bossy employer, or the strenuous task or just the hectic journey back home, or the brain cracking, something makes it worth it and this we have got to keep pushing through if we want that cash to keep flowing in. So we often exhibit a good level of stubborn in our everyday life, in order to get the job done, we've got to be a little stubborn and at times a big time stubborn too.
Imagine waking up on a cold morning, where all your sense are craving for some more sleeps, but you know you've got to hit the road. Oh 1 day off wouldn't cost you much especially since you're smart and can cook up a very convincing lie, but you'll only be letting go of the days cash or postponing it, which you don't want to lose, so you stubbornly fight against your urges, even take a cold bath amidst the weather and head out to get the job done.
So many people have sticked with BCH and seen it rise up till the current $530 and its a coin we intend to continue sticking with, as our stubbornness is gradually paying off, also many people got into this read cash platform and stubborn kept the passion to write and after a while the great @TheRandomRewarder has finally start putting a smile on our faces. Life itself as thought us the essence of making a decision and sticking by it amidst all, even when instincts is all we have left, yet we must keep on the hodl.
Get the right dosage of stubbornness in every thing we hope to accomplish, especially in the cryptocurrency world. No matter what, keep your BitcoinCash BCH on Hodl, we are for the rise guys. Stay strong.
Thanks again for reading guys, let's remain focused and adamant in our quest for success, the right dose of stubbornness can yield better profits. Do like, subscribe and comment. One love guys!
Before I Said Yes (Marriage & Engagement)
Its no compelling to you or anyone to say yes, when he goes down on one knee and pop up the question, or when she's demanding things gets serious. it indeed is a portal being unlocked, but your choice being the key, the key to either lock it up or open the door for a new and more serious beginning. Looking around today and judging with the numerous break ups , one would wonder if they both said yes, and "I do" it's almost like such sacred words has lost its weights, no more frightening and unwavering decision to overcoming the storm. Was such decision carefully thought through or the emotions of the moment had their way over rational judgment, one could only wonder, today a couple has this story to back up the split, tomorrow another couple and of course all reasons are well and legit but when the situations are worst remember its a decision for better or worst. And you said?...
Sentiments are often not the way to go no matter if you have been good or bad, for examples there have often been ladies who have been in a relationship for long but have no intentions of a future with the partner because of the benefits attached mostly, so clearly such a lady is bad, at least the act is bad, yet its not advisable for that same lady to agree because she wants to make it right, when clearly she's not in love with the supposed partner, its only a matter of time before reality sets in and create another break up story.
Divorce wouldn't be too shunned had it been there are no kids involved, oh then you both can easily separate and known you've done so at the expense of no ones future. So I ask again what do you think of when you say "yes" or you say "I do". Already you should be aware that it goes way beyond you and cuts into more areas you shouldn't make the error of making an error, I'll share a little area to quickly think through before you say "Yes " or go further to "I do".
1. Your time:
Everyone should have value for time and constantly look to maximize the time before us and utilize it well, agreeing to be with somebody is another word to say - you're worth my quality time, and so I give you my time. So make sure its someone that truly worth your quality time. Someone you know its okay and you're not trying hard to keep being with, you flow without regretting or feeling like you made a mess with your time today. So when you hear " Will you? Then think on is he/she worth my time? Remember time is the only true possession that makes us living being, time stops at death.
2. How about my kids
More important than the first point, this is. Enough stories has taught us that separate homes is not good for the kids, they shouldn't feel the father's love today and feel the mothers tomorrow, when they can get the combined full package every single day. No home hopes to break up, this I know and sometimes its just best they go their separates ways even in order to help the kids to be happier,especially when the couples are always exhibiting violence. However its still a fact that both parents are a better option to single parents, and the single parents at first didn't wish to be single parents as life just happened. So look out for the betterment of your kids, remember they are your world, they are your best creation, your evidence to show we too are Gods on earth as we too are given the power to make a life. Ps: should medical conditions not permit, you can still make a life - love is life.
3. Record
To this we don't have to care now, but we would care later, pick someone worth your memory, the thoughts within yourself, what people say really don't matter, your family might not be in support, friends don't like him or her, even he or she doesn't like them in return, but whenever you remember, you can only wish he or she would be the one right there next to you, then your record is tendering you with proof of right decision. What do you really want, then make the right call. No one would be with you after you both head home, reality sets in and all eyes would be clear to the decisions we have made. Do well to pick right. Think on this earlier, so you can shout yes and I do quickly and not ponder on the D-day. Remember your happiness is key.
Other decisions of uncertainties, would he still be with me later? is she medically okay or would he die soon, what if something bad happens and I regret my decisions? All this is not your call to make, you can't tell what tomorrow holds you can only tell what you feel deep down inside. You only know yourself. Death and birth isn't our call to make, also your partners decision isn't your call to make, you only know yourself, so judge from within, that which you feel right. It wouldn't matter anymore after all if you're divorce first, as he or she is also dead to you. So care less of tomorrow uncertainties and judge via your happiness. Be positive and prayerful. God is love. So choose right to love right. Cheers!
Oops it's not a personal article on my engagement. Someone thought I got engaged? Soon guys, soon.
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The Rich Don't Trust The Poor & Vise Versa
Oh yes, it's hard trying to change a general perception someone has already to life. For Someone who has always experience people constantly on demands, all getting the "please can you do something for me" and not the "what can I do for you" its only normal that when another person comes knocking he Would expect its another time for more favour, it has always been that way, why would things change now. More reason why there's a formation of circles, the rich club and the poor society, they wouldn't call it club, club is now often a word use for the rich, yet no middle ground, no mixing, the rich don't mix comfortably with the poor, yet the poor too don't but learn to mix because that place is a aimed place he or she want to get to someday.
What happens when the poor sees the rich, they often feel like they are coming to impress and oppress, already the few that has come around has made it clear that they weren't needing their help in fact was only doing them the favour of paying, so why would they expect a rich man to come dine and wine with them as equal. The bridge of trust between the rich and the poor can be dated back as currency itself. When people starting acquiring and getting so much compared to some others and have to be placed above the others. Far dated to the times when the poor has to work for the rich who can still choose to not pay or cut off the agreed wages should he not be satisfied and yet be protected. It dates far back.
A neutral ground is needed, this is a crucial aspect countries, States, regions needs to look into, creating an environment where the rich and the poor can relate without segregation. Countries needs this at it would help rise many of the poor masses into the middle class. As much as the segregation has eaten deep into our lifestyle we must look for a way out, to helping out the poor by creating a neutral ground to interact and relate with the wealthy, that way they can get better than they were, taking Sports as a good example, well before the covid caused everyone to stop the overpopulating, sport was a good neutral ground, at the stadium I could be seating close to Elon musk and as our team scores, we get excited, hug each other, shout goal, I might even shake his head and since we are guys a good friendship has begun, I just don't know yet who the person I'm seated close to is until I get invited for an hangout. The rich needs to know that they can find true friendship in the poor, one whose genuine intentions aren't to extort but to make the best memories off life.
There's no benefit for having the poor class who can't fend for their selves, some have said if we all have the Money, then who would do the harder task, who would be the nannies, who would work in the refuge dump, oh come on we need the poor, but this I would argue to be untrue, look at the logic, every work that requires payment has it purpose it serves to humanity, that is why its paid, remembering we pay for value, even if everyone worth millions we all won't be able to take care of all needs, we'll still need teachers to teach our kids, nurses for sick people, a place to shine our shoes for an occasions, and this way the individual specialist would charge well, and there would be reduction in the crime rate which of course is resulting from money hunt, eventually government policies would be laid to ensure people are rightly rewarded rather than extortion.
The poor need to be able to trust the rich and the rich as well do trust the poor, especially since we all must cohabit this earth together. Human have trust worthy capacities and should be treated as such, and those who look out for ways to gain rather than equally work for it would have to stop such actions as it only sends the wrong signals, so also those always looking for ways to extort the poor because they are powerful in the society or financially secured must learn to do away with such devilish act. Work and earn according, also if you were worked for, please do pay accordingly too. One love guys!
I look forward to a day the rich and the poor would cohabit as equals with an enormous level of trust and peace, as this would help the poor raise up to the middle class standard at least. Remember we rise by raising others. Please do like, subscribe and comment below. Its our world, let's own it!
While you're Yet Alone
Our minds needs no permission to think what it wants to think before it thinks it, that's why some times after you realize you have been lost in thought for some moments you sharply call yourself to other. The mind is a ground for fantasies, it goes round seeking out thoughts and desires to excite the soul and when accepted by a person it slowly builds up into becoming their personality. What goes in to a person really doesn't depict who a person is, often time we hear but we aren't listening, we see but we aren't beholding, some things we touch but we aren't feeling, so its not really what we receive in that determines us, its rather more of what we give out, remember you can't give out what you don't have, our actions can mainly be traced to our thoughts, our desires and fantasies can often be traced to our thoughts while we are alone.
Oh yes, when you are alone, not necessarily lonely, just alone, when there's no one else but just you and you can literarily listen to your spirit, soul and body, that moment where you can ponder on what you really want to ponder on, when you can imagine your true feelings without having to act up with reality, then comes our true self. Often we call ourselves to order in the day (in the presence of people) and we go crazy at night (out of sight) and that's why the night time is filled with so much energy. Everyone is being their selves, no judgement whatsoever, just letting the soul take the lead. And need I remind you that this is the most dangerous time of a persons life as well.
Its dangerous because our thoughts are uncensored, we are we cautioning it for? Ourselves, no way, who would know, if one craves to smoke or drink alcohol who is a guru to tell through reading the mind. In reality we are mostly actors during the day, acting up and putting up a nice personality, if only you can go seeing what even the great has to battle with, then you'd know we all are just human capable of the craziest of things. Most times I laugh within me when my friends parents would refer their kids to be like me, cool, respectful and well educated, I'll just say within me "if only she knew what I've done, then she will embrace her son and chase me with a baseball bat" just kidding though, but we all have flaws, yet we can't just accept it like it's okay to live with the flaws, no, life expects us to deal with it and even overcome it, then we've graduated.
So while you're alone, mind your thought, you can't stop it from coming in but you can cut it off, its the best time to speak to yourself, why you are choosing not to go along with the thought, if you can convince yourself the thought isn't productive, then you're one step away from stopping it from reoccurring. For example: if it's constant thought of alcoholism, then as soon as you fantasize with a bottle of beer and you become aware, then start thinking on why its not advisable for you to embark on such journey, remember how it had affected you negatively, the shame it brought, remember how it takes control away from you and dumps you in a crazy location when its done messing with your mind.
Should you have no personal experience think on and learn from others, that's the reason why you saw it happen or heard about it in the first instance, so you can learn right from it, life would always keep giving lessons as long as people remain on earth, because we are all bound to make a decision, which can either be good or bad and just like every seed time has it harvest, our choices and action would have a day of harvest also and it would all be an experience a lesson for yourself and others to learn from. Indeed life is a great teacher. Take no lesson for granted, you never know when you might need to reminisce on it.
So while we are alone, know we are in a powerful place and so we must be cautious, as soon as your mind gives way for your consciousness again and you realize what you have been thinking of, do yourself good to either grow on it or cut it off by bringing yourself under strict subjection depending on what the thought is, talk strictly to yourself and recall to yourself why you won't be taking such action. We can stand our ground. This again is a deliberate act. Not just mere saying but acting accordingly too. Guard the thought of your mind with all diligence and priorities. The great book says "An idle mind is the devils workshop". Great and worst things can spring forth from the mind, select what to dwell your thoughts in. Think straight guys.
Thanks great people for reading through. The mind is a powerful tool, when we are alone it brings so much energy, so do safeguard your thoughts well. Please do like, subscribe and comment below. One love y'all!
Smart-Work Over Hard-Work
Indeed the world today has shown that you can earn so much with just your acquired knowledge, more than your strength can do for you. Taking a good example from the cryptocurrency world, a good study and analysis of the coin or forex market can earn you so much, people eyes are beginning to get open to the fact that money reside in some unimaginable areas, who could have thought that lazy guy who is always with his laptop, desktop or smart phone would be earning so much compared to that man you see leave the house so early in the morning to beat off traffic and yet return home late to catch a little sleep.
Always spend more time sharpening your scope of learning, the same way a farmer would prefer to spend more time sharpening his tools knowing fully well that a good and sharper blade would get the job done easier and faster. Oh yes, a good information would get you better income, there is so much to be learnt. Just one information can raise you to the status quo you have so desired. Why not give yourself into learning, learning what can get you what you desire, already don't be shocked that millions of people currently earn in the day what you can accumulate in a month or even year and they do it so easy, the only difference is there's something they know that you don't know yet. Hardworking is good but Smart work has ever been productive, just don't cheat.
Already with NFTs making waves in the current news its no shocker that people are flocking into it. I had recently starts researching for myself, would quickly run into purchasing one of those zombies stickers or art work and see what it can yield me later on. A guy recently sold off some of his works he got for a few thousand dollars and sold it for over millions in dollars, what an easy and sweet way to earn, and it's all owing to the normal economics we studied in school, how demand and supply would affect the price tag, this law has always applied to every kind of market, be it agriculture, real estate, manufacturing, crypto, you just name it. More reasons why lands will always appreciate, cause it will forever be in high demand, there you see one good place to invest your money.
Looking and taking ourselves as another example, the information of Bitcoincash BCH and Read.cash was a blessing you must admit, so many of us earn via this platform and we are happy, but yet millions of people are yet capable to earn like us but are not because they aren't aware, you see the power of information, smart working is all about getting the right information and working it out. @TheRandomRewarder really does more than some bosses people work for would, but because this awareness hasn't gotten across, they are yet not a beneficiary. So give your time to researching, there is undoubtedly an easier and more profitable way to earning but one must go through the discovery and learning process, its often the price you've got to pay, well even for the hard works you still have to learn, so its an inescapable fact.
The world is ever evolving, even though its getting more complicated, its creating an easier way for everyone. With the numerous inventions and machines we see today, its only a matter of time before the hard workers go back into learning. Learning and discovery is currently the hard works that would then lead us into smart working. Learn and discovery, follow the trend, hop on this moving train the world is pushing toward. Learn to work smartly guys. Cheers!
Thanks guys for reading through. Though its been a while I hear from rusty @Therandomrewarder. Please tell him I miss him. Do like, comment and subscribe. One love guys, work smartly!
BCH - The Transformation Coin
A lot of good has clearly birth out from the emergence of this coin, BCH by far is proven to be a gift, a gift to life and to a change bringer to many people around the world. With so much of a nice initiative being affiliated with the coin, thereby making it possible for millions of people to be able get a financial happiness. Bitcoin cash exhibits much more that gives it an edge over the famous bitcoin, BCH has proven to be a better choice for seamless usage. A faster and advance implementation to the crypto world in general.
Already a lot of help has been given to me as well as to my writing capacity. My focus on motivation has received some deep enlightenment, the way I haven't yet thought of yet, I've recently began to catch more insight to why we are feeling down at times, also to how natural ones feeling could be, while you've been seating all along feeling like you're being deliberately punished by nature, and better solutions are being proffered, thereby not leaving a reader with the task of what can i do now? Deep thinkers are here, great author are currently here typing, this I must admit, and helping with any questions of the heart prescribing useful and helpful solution.
Oh let's dive into the world of crypto, do you know from a very little knowledge you currently possess, you could become somewhat enlightened about the world of cryptocurrency and you can't be here and not fall in love with the bitcoincash coin BCH, as our beloved@TheRandomRewarder continuously showering our efforts to make us smile alongside the greats sponsors keeping the motivations rolling, so many experts have been sited given detailed explanations to the history, current and the predictions of the crypto world, you can't possibly stay in the dark. Especially with the new NFTs making the loudest sound in recent times.
Another amazing sections are the true life stories, you could see many personalities letting you a bit into their space, telling you about events that took place and how it went down like their wedding celebrations, birthday, graduations e.t.c also some have told on tragic incidents, how it happened from the onset, leaving us more with a lesson learnt than the sad feeling, also keying us on their ongoing project, building constructions, step by step achievements, you can keep up with them as it is happening.
On the road to love and relationship, you would be amazed almost everyone has a thing to say, well we are mostly involved in our personal life and we love to write. Relationship talks are always very interesting and intriguing especially among the youths, there is so much to research on, so much to inquire, while scrolling through the homepage, you could just come across an article with an interesting topic on relationship, you'd not know when you involuntarily clicked to read.
Utmost desires of man is in knowing more than what the eyes can see, in knowing beyond the spherical earth, which brings us into knowing more about God, about our religion, and you can see great and soul lifting articles, drawing you closer to the supernatural, you just got to know writing is more than just art, its an earnest expression that communicates greatly.
One good benefits also is having a family all across the world, I might not have been to the Philippines but yes I know people who do and they write about their countries so I can say a thing or two, be it USA, Africa, Asia its all covered here on this platform, read.cash is a home, as much as its a land of knowledge. I love it.
So much, so much, so much we can learn via the read.cash platform, here you can be powerful, already you know knowledge is power, it's to the extent you know, you'd would be able to admonish, in order to do and achieve more then you have to see it, and what other way to see than having light shine on your path, shine light on your path through acquiring knowledge. Knowledge is power, knowledge is light, knowledge is information. All this are seated here in read.cash.
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Dealing With Break-ups (Relationship)
You know when it gets to talking on relationships, you can literally get peoples attention, because its one aspect that gets our minds skipping, we often feel to shy to let someone know what truly happens so it doesn't stain our ego we've been preserving, so we don't walk along this street one day and we overhead them saying "that's the girl or that's the boy that got dumped", so often times we hope someone would speak about the issue of break ups without we demanding them to and just giving us the solution we need while we act like we're not affected and less concerned.
So earlier today I decided to watch another inspirational video from one of my mentors " Gaul Gopal das" and how he elaborated on break ups in a relationship and how best one can deal with it, because like it or not its good to grow, grow out of every unpleasant situations and find a new niche for breathing. Already this helpful tips has proven good overtime because break ups isn't a rare occurrence, in fact it happens all the time to millions of people around the world, so you're not specially hated, you just can't alter someone's intention and seeing the change is constant, ones feeling towards you can change too.
So firstly Acceptance is a good way to start, accepting that you were hurt and letting yourself feel the pain from the hurting. Many people would like to act like they were not hurt by the event and by so doing they continually fight against their conscience. They might get us fooled into thinking they are alright, but it doesn't matter if they fool us or not, what can we do either ways, what do we care, the main solution comes from finding peace within yourself and lying to yourself is more of a worsening case, it slowly creates a shield where you don't want to think about it but you involuntarily think about it and because you try to hard not to think about it, you can't deal with it, this way you wouldn't come to face with it and just deal with it.
So let yourself know, accept that it made you feel bad, in fact feel bad, its okay, if you feel no symptoms there's no need taking drugs. You are together with millions of boys and girls going through same road, get a head start by being in the game, feel the pain, he or she hurt you so bad, oh yes admit it, even the most beautiful girls in the world gets divorce or cut off, you're only human too.
Secondly look for someone or somewhere you can let out some steam, there's so much negative energy from the pain, from the event, you might want to let it out so there would be space for refilling, just this time with positive vibe. So better still, find someone who is ready to listen, a confidential, a friend, not one to judge you, judgment can come later but not at that time, you need someone to understand you and agree with you, someone who both of you can insult the guy or lady together, someone on your side, scream together, go doing crazy stuffs while watching your back, remember you're angered so you might not be acting right, so get someone sensible, so you don't get into more trouble as a result of letting out some steam.
Its OK to cry, to scream, to shout, even the guys too, guys aren't exempted, we go through emotional trauma too, even worse because everyone expect us to deal with it as a man, without given us the needed attention as we should. However we too must let go of the wrong energy to allow positive ones reside in us.
Now that's its done, you wanna think of the way forward, a way you want to go by, thinking of a way forward is solely dependent on the Individual. Everyone has got their different healing capacity, some are good to go the next day after a break up, some months, some even years, however the healings starts with ones deliberate act to deal with it.
The way forward might be to find love in another person, it can also be not to date again as we often see, but whatever your choice would be, make sure it comes from a rational thinking, a well and good reason and not emotional, don't seek an avenue to punish others for your pain, don't view another person through the eyes of your ex, everyone is different, give another a fair chance to express his affection for you, this is why you must deal with the past before you enter a new one. Dealing with your break up is very important. If you're also choosing to remain single, ensure it's rather rational and don't starve yourself of what can be yours, one bad orange doesn't mean the whole basket is bad. Nevertheless no one can choose a decision you've made up your mind about. Just ensure you choose right, cause sooner than later life would give a lesson, if we are right or wrong in our selection.
No doubt break ups are bad and traumatic, but let's ensure to find peace within ourselves, letting go of all hate, and having nothing but love to give out. We are good people, let's remain so.
Thanks guys for taking out time to read through. Please do like, subscribe and comment below. We are love being, we can love and we are capable of being loved. Let Love Lead!
What's My Fault? What's yOur Fault??
A new week is always better starting off with some self reflecting, looking down with all truth and honesty searching for any faults that might need some adjustment. No one is perfect and of course there is something detectable in everyone, something that has created an issue with our walks with other people. No doubt we humans are social beings and interaction is a crucial part of our existence, everyday we have got to communicate and send a signal as to what we intend portraying. Now sometimes there are some habits or attitude that can be observed by another and it just turn them off, if they can they might even end the communication with you and leave you wondering what went wrong, others might come straight with you and call your attention, but its still left for you to accept if its a fact, cause only via acceptance can change truly come.
Pride
Already most people would presume its only pride, but its not pride alone, but let's start off with pride. As much as pride is a good self confidence, its is like an aroma, you just need the right amount to keep yourself moving and people appreciating it, when its excess it can be perceived from a distance even afar off and makes a turn off, so much self confidence can make others hope you learn a lesson that would make you calm, and just when you are in need of some assistance they would hesitate to be of help in time, hoping you would learn your lesson and change.
You don't want to be the one people are wishing bad for, not because they don't like you, but there's something they which you would realize and stop and it would gladden their hearts to say to you " hey you see, pride comes before a downfall ". So should you be told you have pride, well so much pride, take out time to reflect, is this true, in what area I'm I exhibiting this pride. You might be good at home that your family doesn't think you're proud, but how about work, are you too confident you feel no one is capable enough to enlighten you, how about school, how about among your friends, do you boast of your accomplishments so much, Reflect.
Its good if they are good people around you, so they would just swallow it, or talk to you, because in this wicked world some people would plan or pray for your downfall and justify their action saying you had so much pride so they wanted to tame you. Pride indeed comes before a downfall, it's a normal law of life though, sooner or later every prideful person has it coming, its a seed sown, harvest is just around the corner.
Appearance
Guys How about appearance? Do you remember the saying, dress the way you want to be address, and by dressing I mean not only your clothes, your smell, your carriage, in fact everything the other person can see and smell about you. People love to be around those who makes them feel important too. Its an easy way to get associated with the successful while you're yet striving for success. One day my older brother, came home and brought a shoe, a wrist watch and a perfume and told me the price he spent in acquiring all that, I almost fought him, I'm like bro we could have bought more food stuff with that money.
Then he said he had an occasion to attend and he stood a chance of meeting some really wealthy guys, already he is loveable, but he has to be accepted into their midst before they would know the real him and like his personality, he wouldn't be shouting jokes from afar, that would be creating nuisance, of course immediately I agreed, he knew I know this fact and so I loved the idea, moreover I could also wear them for myself too. So he went and today he made them his friends, invited them for his concert he usually organizes and believe me when I say they spent a lot, he rendered the usual service but the profit was different this time and it all started from an appearance. True life story guys, not one ounce of myth.
We stand a better chance for a better gig or better life in general, if we can appear as what we want. Learn to dress well, smell well, carry yourself like you know what you're doing. Already you know your dreams, you have pictured your self already being famous, already being wealthy and you know how you spoke then, how you walked, how you imagined your self acting even though it was a mere imagination, but do act like it and little by little you'll start attracting the reality closer to yourself. Appear well, bad appearance is a turn off even to your friends and family, good appearance is widely appreciated.
Self control / Anger
This too is a turn off as the question comes "can he work with me? or can she cope with me? It doesn't make you bad to have anger but it makes you dangerous. In this world of hunger and survival instincts, people would readily get on your last nerve and not care about your feelings, some of them you can not react to maybe cause they are your boss, older person, child, spouse or even neighbour, but then you don't know how to dissolve the anger and so you unleash it elsewhere on someone else, some of them you can react to and cause havoc, maybe your employee, your child, your spouse, your neighbour and you'll just deal with them and make that day a living hell for both of you.
Anger has its limit to how long it should be allowed to stay, it has its way of blinding you to sanity, you completely lose all senses until the deed is done. So self control is a crucial part in our walk with fellow humans. people can like you but are not ready to put up with your drama, so they just cut you off, reflect and know if this is an area you ought to be deliberate for a change. Get self control, learn to keep calm and take few seconds before reaction, let wisdom direct, well its hard I know, but its very achievable.
A lot to be discovered during a self reflection, what has people been saying about you that isn't too good, why? Where? What is it? Where is my fault? No one is too good to have a fault but the good news is no one is too bad that his faults can't be corrected. I wish a happy life for everyone. Keep mingling.
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Happy Mother's Day - A Priceless Gift
No doubt the men often get jealous seeing their kids be more attached to their mothers, the fathers can only try but the mother's seems to win most of the times, and today they are being celebrated, Happy Mother's day to every woman out there, we see what you do and we appreciate it very much, the role of a mother is one aspect that cannot easily be replaced, or talk about the carrying of a weighty baby in the stomach for 9 good months, I don't think any man would boast to want to be in their shoes, let's keep cheering from a distance and encouraging, but truthfully we appreciate the mother's you guys are a priceless gift life itself.
I don't think anyone would be here today, if a woman didn't nurture them till birth and likely till maturity, even Jesus didn't need a man to come in, but he required a woman, to by far show the importance of having a woman around. The touch of a mother in the house can almost be perceived from a distance, the organization, the care creating a world of joy and security that can be seen through the faces of the kids even when we are outside, that assurance that there's someone willing to stand up for me and would stand up for me, is a feeling we all got from having a mother. I can remember when we were still very young and tender and we are being corrected by our school teachers, once she beats us we will cry and threaten to tell our mother what she did, hoping she would get scared. That didn't work too well though.
Often time I hear that a mother can feel her child whenever something is about to happen from any distance, more than the men do, and I've had that experience once with my mom, I'm not talking about the dreams factor, I feel like that's a supernatural gift to motherhood, most mothers dreams cannot be treated likely, at first I and my siblings would want to use our exposure and education to judge any dreams my mother had dreamt and just tell her its her imagination, its something she has been thinking of over time and so it played in her dreams, but oh the shock of when it happens and we have got to remember we were being told but refused to adhere, but thank God we prayed about it, this not happening once or twice has clearly removed all doubts, now anytime she dreams we would take it seriously but just act stubbornly so we aren't forced into any unwanted things.
Its truly an essential to have a motherly figure to take care of us all while growing up, many were only opportune to be born but didn't have the luxury of a mother care, this is saddened, but to everyone who played and acted as a mother to the motherless, filling in the gap, this mother's day celebration extends to you too and you're very well appreciated. Yes, so many good people have filled in the gap for many of the motherless babies and should be celebrated as such, could be a sister, a brother, an aunt, uncle, a neighbour, don't matter the gender, or even the ever blessed orphanage center worker - Happy Mother's day to you all, and may the good lord continually bless you guys, keep up the good work.
Training a child isn't easy and the mothers has by far proven to be the best in the game, maybe because they went through much stress at child birth so they treasure us more or maybe its just a natural gift, either ways we appreciate it, the man you see today was a child yesterday, the woman you see today was a child as well, and who ever they portray as can be well traced to their upbringing, so this is why a good home training cannot be pushed aside, The best book says it all "Train up a child in the way he should go, so when they grow they wouldn't depart from it" so the job of parenthood is undoubtedly a great job and should be done well. Its the easiest way to stopping evil in the world by putting them straight from young and being there to correct them always. Let's all do a good job in parenting, the world would surely get better.
Once again, happy mother's day to every woman our there, God bless you all and strengthen you guys to do it well, its your day, relax and be taken care of. Enjoy it while it last cause tomorrow you'll resume duties 😁. Cheers moms!
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Empty Promises
I still wonder how I could be related to someone so wealthy, who it wouldn't be too much for him or her to spare a few cash to help me or the family, but over the years still nothing substantial has been done, they are quick to sending you cash when its needed urgently for food or any other quick needs, but not one that you could use to Start a future for yourself. Sometimes you might go over thinking once you've seen him or her that compassion would run deep in them and make them moved towards helping you, but then when you get there they have their own set of stories laid down that once you hear it you'll have no choice but to have a little patience, the patience isn't the issues, the issue is that few days to after you've gone you will hear of another amazing thing they have spent on. You can only feel denied but truthfully it isn't your money.
Well, the bitter truth remains that no one owes you anything, you can't feel entitled to anything that isn't yours, what you can fully argue for is that thing you undoubtedly work for, being related by blood isn't a yardstick that their money is yours, though family should be the best place to seek financial assistance, because they should priorities you before any outsider, but the cases of today seems vice versa, but what do you do, do you go about hating people on how they spent their money, hating cause you weren't given as much as you needed, well you shouldn't and just strive to own your own.
Not only to rich family members, although its kind of painful, especially when your parents did a lot for them while they were capable, and now that its only right to reciprocate, they decided not to play back, well yet we move, what can we do, go steal it, burn down the houses, rain curses on them from morning till night? All these doesn't solve it a bit because that's not what you want and they would bounce back leaving you to deal with your conscience or penalized if caught, so just chill and move. No one truly owes you anything.
The fact that today we can see many irresponsible parents abandoning their kids to survive on their own should make us know that while we all felt entitled to a good life from our parents, it was more of a show of love from them to us rather than a must do, they could have easily aborted or abandon and yet be doing just fine afterwards, so in every sense they worth our thank you rather than those straining demands.
Has anyone promised to love you regardless, hey baby I'll spend the rest of my life with you, no one can stop us, its me and you against the world, and yet a little while form thence its a heart break, and you feel like your trust is yet broken, another failed promise. As much as you care for yourself and want good things for yourself, are you aware that everyone else's want good things for their selves also. I'm not a fan for divorce because its expected that one uses the time of friendship and dating and courtship to fully determine if you really want to spend your life with another, cause that moment of getting married or even adding kids to the equation, my dear its for better or worst it's already a sworn oath, a sworn oath before the biggest and greatest authority that is God himself, so both of y'all better sit down and find a way around it and stop breaking out of marriages like you're in a high school relationship.
Now that I've established my stand against divorce (just my opinion though), let's return to the failed promises of dating and those young lovebirds heart break, so when you're dating and you suddenly ain't feeling it anymore or you see yourself falling strongly for another and these said emotions are negatively affecting the existing one, do you stay and make your partner suffer your lack of attention or even anger from the irregular annoyance you've start feeling, no if you love him or her you just have to release them in love and make them find peace in a better soul ready to give it and you find yours too, this life isn't so hard, we often make easy things look hard, happiness is key to everyone. So treat your heart break such a way and if you aren't ready to let go because you still love the person then keep chasing after the person, because that's where your happiness is at the time, maybe they would return. Rather than feeling entitled to anyone's love or care, do take it as a show of kindness on their part, don't expect so much from anyone, push for yours.
Every minutes of each passing day is filled with friends betraying one another, its full of partners splitting, you see families turning away from one another, even the sworn promises still unfulfilled, and this shouldn't hurt as much as they do, and we don't necessarily need to take those actions we have taken, in this cases its hard to relax but its best to relax. And the main reason for the hurting can be traced to our sense of entitlement, but sooner or later in life, everyone would learn that no one truly owes you a dime and you should have appreciated each show of love you have been experiencing from family, friends and loved ones rather than feeling its normal. Push for your better life and get to that position so you can teach the world how to be successful and helpful at the same time. Well let me just say this for record purposes - Stop breaking promises, it hurts bad. Okay I've said it, but you know that's not really possible right. If your happiness might make another sad, what do you do?
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@Passionate
