Some Thoughts to Ponder

Before we talk about my main topic today, let me share our morning quick date on the beach. We have this belief that going to the beach whether you will go for a swim or just walk along the seashore can cure a simple cough and cold. I have been enduring my cough and cold for days, although my condition is getting better, I still experience a clogged nose from time to time. That is why my husband told me yesterday that we will go to the beach early morning and we did. We went there quarter to 7. It should be 6 am but I woke up late that's why. We stayed for almost an hour. My husband told me to go for a swim but the water was cold so nah, I just walk in the sand barefooted. I wanted to be at one with nature.

It was cloudy this morning and the wind was cold but I still manage to enjoy the scenery and the waves. I took a few photos, put them in one frame and I hope you'll like it.

And let me take you to our beach through this simple gif I made. I wish I could also include the sound of the waves.

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Now moving on with my topic, but wait, let me thank @Ruffa for giving me an idea of what to write. I have read her article yesterday about some deep thoughts and so I decided to share mine. I have chosen 4 questions from this site.

1. Do you believe in giving people second chances, and why?

Of course, but it also depends on the situation or the degree of damage it caused you, and the sincerity of the person involve. Some would ask for forgiveness but you can't see any remorse on them. They would just say "sorry" because they think it is the right thing to do but they don't really mean it. Being sorry means you accept that you have done wrong and not everyone have the courage to acknowledge it. I have given second chances to many people because they deserved it. I have given it to my husband as well.

1. Do you think people fall in love because the right person has arrived, or because the time is right (regardless of whom the person is that they fall in love with)

I would say, people fall in love because the right person has arrived. There is no right time to fall for someone. Some found their true love at a very young age, while some at their later days. So you can't really tell when it is the right time, once you feel it, there is no escape from it.

1. How important is trust in a relationship?

Trust is one of the key foundation in a relationship. Without it, how would you be able to love someone? It is easy to give your love but it is hard to give your trust to someone. Love without trust is not love at all.

1. Do I like who I am right now?

One time, I asked my husband, "what if I chose to pursue college, where do you think I'll be right now? He answered, "You would definitely be a successful career woman, will have a better life, but you don't have me and I will not have you. "

Then asked him again, "Do you regret having me? "

He said, "No, do you? " I hugged him, kissed him and said no. I am contented of what I have right now. Of course, there were times that I think I could have a better life if only I didn't do the things that put me in the situation I am in right now. The feeling that I could have done better but I chose not to. I chose the path that gave me the life that I have now. But I guess, that's life, there is always "if only" or "what if." But not all have what I have right now, a complete and happy family. And I am HAPPY about it.

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Date Published: January 12, 2022

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