Shocking Ways of Humans.

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A relationship is a tricky path sometimes and one that requires you to be careful and do all you have to do. I understand that sometimes doing your best doesn’t guarantee happiness in a relationship but then, but you should always keep in mind that a lot of people want to see your relationship fail for whatever reason that is best known to them.

As humans, we are sometimes selfish and when we have experienced a particular setback, we look for others to go through it with us so we can feel good about ourselves and not feel all alone. It is crazy how we have conditioned our minds to see others fail in the same area we failed because we feel others might mock us and that would be too hard for some to bear. So, it is indeed true what they say that misery loves company.

Because your relationship failed doesn’t mean you have to say things or look for ways to make others fail. You can share your experience with others to keep them informed but it's not nice to create panic to dissuade them because the truth is, others might thrive where you failed just as your experience might be positive where others have the negative but we shouldn't stop trying. Wanting others to fail because we failed is not nice...that is pure wickedness with total disregard for consequences. We should learn from how others achieved their success if we are to become successful in the areas that we have been failing too.

Not everyone is happy with your relationship and you need to know this, which is why you have to be careful about those you tell your matters to and those whose advice you take. Before you take relationship advice from someone, watch if they have been successful in that area first or better still, learn why they failed. A lot of people know the theory and would give you words that even they cannot keep to. Some will speak so well and you will think all is going well with their relationship, but no, they are suffering and crying inside; they go to bed every night and how can you trust the advice they will give you when they are in their down moment? Be careful... because they might be emotional with their advice.

I read how some people were discussing how blockchain relationship fails and how it is not real. Because yours failed, because yours wasn’t real, because you were rejected, and because you were used and dumped doesn’t mean everyone else will be. Realities are different because efforts are different.

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Some people know what it means to be in a relationship and not just to change their status. Some people have a genuine reason to be with someone and it doesn’t have to be with your motive, so stop suspecting everyone to be like who you are.

We need to let people be and let them enjoy their relationship. Just because you are not happy with yours doesn’t mean the world has to end. It doesn’t mean you have to go about ruining others because you feel you can’t have it too. A lot of people would rather scatter what you have because they can’t have it and they would go to any length to deprive you of what you have. This is why you need to be careful about the kind of friends you keep around you.

I saw something on someone’s WhatsApp status many years ago and my heart sank, my jaw dropped and read in disbelief. Some lines should never be crossed no matter what. Whatever feeling you have should be buried because some things don’t make sense and should be avoided because a lot would be made out of the whole scenario even if your intentions were true.

There was this lady who was the chief bride’s maid to her friend on her wedding day in 2015, and 4 years after; in 2019, that chief bride’s maid (who is the best friend of the lady that got married) got married to the same man her friend married in 2015; the same person she did the chief bride’s maid honour for. Even if she wasn’t the one that orchestrated their break up, some lines shouldn't be crossed and forever that friendship has been ruined.

...to be continued...

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I suffer in my relationship for many years. But, I care for my partner because she has been suffering from parental abuse for many more years!

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Wow...that's a tough one. Parental abuse is really threatening and dangerous. She would be lashing out more often than not.

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I remember the quotes about telling no one because people ruin beautiful things. I do believe that people not all, are not genuinely happy with our happiness and success.

I always wonder why.

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Yes, momma. They are not all genuinely happy with our success for two reasons:

  1. They want to be the only recipient of good things.
  2. If they haven't attained good things, they don't want to be the only one. Misery loves company.
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Just when I thought I have seen or heard it all, some people will do things that will certainly shock you.

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Hahaha that's exactly my reaction. Humans keep setting new shocking grounds.

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Hahahaha .. why the suspense na? Even if your content enters 30mins read, I will read it because you are always too good in your write up and I don't think one would get tired 😬😏😏

One thing I don't allow is dating your friend's boyfriend when they are separated. Some call it fate, but is that it? I think I have an ounce where this story is leading to 😊😊

KP, I am now in a Blockchain relationship oo. Come to WHATSAPP, let's talk. Been trying to draw your attention since 🥺🥺

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Awww...you are too sweet KP. Thank you so much. I'm encouraged.

I love that. It shows you have that self respect and value in you. It's a line that shouldn't be crossed and if for anything a discussion must be had with the friend first. I don't know how people have conscience to do these things.

Blockchain relationship...ossssheeey. I've been busy, off WhatsApp for a while. Would come back today for you...😍😍😍

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when we have experienced a particular setback, we look for others to go through it with us so we can feel good about ourselves

The crab mentality; people that have failed at achieving something will also hinder other people from achieving it just so that they won't be the only one that have failed, it's a very sick mentality.

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It's a sick and sad mentality. Their misery loves company and would stop at nothing to drag others down with them.

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In a relationship, we should do our best to keep things good. When one is making things best while other partner is not interested in relationships then things become complicated.

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A lot of complicated things happen in a relationship. We have to do our best to keep things going regardless...and not drag others down with us.

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It's a very sound advice. Avoid asking relationship advice from just anyone. My first relationship failed because of that.

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I'm glad you are able to learn from it even though it can be very painful. So sorry, my friend.

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Well it was the first boyfriend. I think his purpose in my life was to be a lesson.

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I love your approach to this. This is brilliant.

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We should learn to examine and learned from the advices, but be wise the kind of advise we heed on.

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That's it...be wise on the kind of advice you want to take.

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It's really scary. Especially in our parts of the world, it's now survival of the fittest. Too much of greed and obsessions have made the larger percentage of the citizens no different from the politicians... I also heard a shocking story about two sisters on WhatsApp that I'd rather not say.

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I really need to know of the story oh...please come and gist me about the sisters.

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Lol.... The elder one was not comfortable that her younger sister would be getting married before her so she went diabolical just to spoil the marriage plans,the thing backfired Sha. Just imagine that kind of a sister ...... I have seen an elder sister who found her own husband in younger's sister wedding ceremony and she got married the following year. So why would one deliberately want to spoil her own sister's joy when she doesn't even know where her own husband could come from.

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That's madness. Oh my goodness. What kind of mentality is that? She is so messed up and it's disappointing.

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I will rather be in a relationship with a stranger, than be with trash dumped by someone I know.

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God bless you and I admire how you value yourself that much. Some people don't understand their value at all.

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Absolutely! Some people are not happy seeing someone with seems a perfect life while they are miserable. we have a different flow of life and it depends on how we handle ourselves to be happy and contented. don't expect too much to avoid great disappointment.

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Don't expect too much...don't take just any advice...because misery loves company.

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As for me, relationship that failed or succeeded, we must be happy for them. I don't like people doing a certain action that when they failed in relationship, they tend to break others as well.

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It's really sad because once they experienced a failed relationship they tend to break others also.

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