How To Live, II.

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I promised to continue the second part today and here it is. Just a recap of what I mentioned yesterday - we need to be intentional about our life and measure our life by how productive we can utilize our time, understanding the seasons of life we are in and then taking charge of our finances. You can catch up with the whole article here: How To Live.

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IMPACTS.

Another thing to measure our lives with is the impacts we are making. Most people would rather beat themselves up because they don't have the millions of dollars that others have forgetting that having so much money doesn't mean a person would have an impact in life. We have those who only live for themselves and we have those who live for themselves and then for others. Age is not a criterion for maturity just as being famous doesn't mean that person would positively affect society. It is not about how much you have sitting in your wallets or bank accounts but by what you do with what you have.

Someone rightfully said that riches can't be compared to wealth because being rich is determined by how much money you have with the things you can buy or owned while wealth reproduce itself and it talks about your back investment in people and in things that are capable of reproducing with or without you.

Someone once said that until you give to someone who might never be able to repay you, then you haven't truly given. We are to measure our lives by the impacts we are making rather than the billions others are stacking. Don't get me wrong, having that much is good and if you can legitimately do something to earn that much, please do and put the structures in place to achieve that but don't think because you haven't earned that much you are failing. You are not because you are to measure your life by how many people go to bed daily thankful to God for coming in contact with you.

I don't know how many people have heard about the Bill Gates story with a young boy who sells newspapers back in the day when Bill was nothing. He gave a free newspaper to Bill and that was supposed to be his gain on the newspaper for that day. Many years down the line, Bill Gates became famous and went to look for the boy. He told the boy that he wants to reward him and the boy blurted "You cannot reward me because I gave to you when you had nothing and now you want to give to me when you have everything." When Bill Gates was asked who the richest man was (when he was the richest man in the world) he simply mentioned that boy and he narrated the story of what happened.

What are you doing for yourself and what are you doing for others? Having everything without making others happy is tantamount to nothing. This is why I would forever be grateful to @MarcDeMesel for such an opportunity as this because of so many of us he is helping with such a wonderful heart as his. I lost count of how many of us go to bed thankful to God for read.cash. This is someone's dream so I ask, what is yours? What are you doing for others? From the blessings you have received from here and other places, what are you doing for others?

We are recognized by the quality of lives we have touched and we have so many people who solved problems in the world and we can't forget them today. They may be gone but forever they are etched in our hearts and story. If they failed in doing their part, how do you think you would fare? In the same way, if we fail to do our part, there would be a lot of others that would suffer as a result of our actions.

The things we do can have a spiral effect - bigger than we can think of. There were these two commercials I watched many years ago and they touched me greatly. The first one was a man who was determined to make his impact daily and he would always see this woman begging for alms. Daily, he would give her the little money as scheduled and one day, he went to her late and while approaching her, he saw a young girl in school uniform running towards this woman and they hugged. The young man didn't know when tears fell from his face because his habit of helping that woman made it possible for that girl to go to school and at that moment, he felt fulfilled.

The second one was more of a spiral effect because a young man helped an old lady with her stuff into her car boot. The old lady was happy and she also helped another person to get ice cream for his child and so on... The recipient of these good things keeps giving back to others in a different capacity. So, making an impact is not just about giving sometimes, it could be about mentoring too.

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RESULTS.

There is no doubt that the end justifies the means and that's why in all we do we should try and achieve results. There is no point telling people you've been trying behind closed doors when they can't see anything to show for it. Your efforts should lead you to a result and that should be the driving force; to achieve a result that would help us to understand the process and hard work spent behind the scene.

For a farmer, you've been tilling the ground and growing the heaps, you've planted and watered but when the result comes that's when you can feel fulfilled. We need results to show for all our efforts in life. We should be determined to achieve results daily and never let a day pass without setting our targets for that day and achieve what we set our mind to achieve.

If there is a problem, solve it and if anything is broken, try and fix it and when you compare your results to others let it be to motivate you rather than for you to think you are failing. Some causes would seem little but they hold more impacts than you can think of and this brings to mind the roles of teachers. I call them shapers as I have shared with so many people who celebrated Teacher's Day a few days back.

Life is all about results because at the end of everything, what have you done with all that you have gotten? Making an impact is about results too because how do you measure impact if it wasn't about the result?

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A life that doesn't impact another life is not worth living

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3 years ago

That's so true... We should live a life of impact.

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3 years ago

Very inspiring, and also I'm familiar to the Bill Gates story, thanks for this

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Thanks a lot. Good to have you here...

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Impact we made to other will never be forgotten. Fron small to big help the moment they see us the smile of being grateful is visible.

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3 years ago

Absolutely spot on...never to be forgotten.

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Yeah, thanks for this piece. Everyone has a purpose, we just need to find our purposes in life and walk towards it.

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That's true. Thanks for that.

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Each one of us has different travels taken in this life, from youth to maturity through time. It is up to us how and what kind of journey we go through. Others have touched others life either good or bad and others are just in the corner as a mere spectator. But if we are believers of God, we want to do our part, that our life here on earth will not be wasted, to do our role, our purpose to be in this world. For each one of us created to be a beacon of light in the dark, a rescuer for the drowned and a leaning post for the desperate. It needs more contemplation and meditation of what we can contribute and give impact to mankind.

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3 years ago

This is brilliant and I enjoyed it, no doubt. Thanks for this input...sure helps...

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3 years ago

I love every bit of word and story told here. I think I've also heard that Bill Gates story somewhere, too. But it never gets old.

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3 years ago

Absolutely, my friend. It never gets old. I love sharing that story... What a boy he was...

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Have the whole world doesn't guarantee that a person who have an impact on others and that touches me a lot.

I remember an event that I once mentioned where a man had nothing but didn't hesitate to give me his last cash just for me to attend my graduation party, during that time, I had a father who has millions.

It is important that try to make everything we have an impact on the lives of others positively because sometimes, those tiny helps go a long way.

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3 years ago

Exactly...those tiny help goes a long way and you can't forget them easily... They are the whole essence of living...

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Having an impact on someone's life is the best thing that can happen to us. This is one of the reasons why teachers can't be forgotten because of their greats impact on children lives. Live a life of impact is what should be ringing in our heart everyday.

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3 years ago

Absolutely. 🙌👏

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Yeah making impact will got results whether is good or bad experience.

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Turning every experience around helps us focus on what's important.

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What is the meaning of your wealth if you don't have any good impact in people's life I believe God gave rich people money so that they can help other

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So true, my dear... Once the perspective is right, we can make impacts as we go through life.

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Hmmmm 🥴

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Okay this is brilliant.. the truth is everything we do in life echoes through out history so when we impact someone’s life positively it becomes part of our life’s work even when we are dead and gone. That is what having a good legacy means, having such great impact on society. I think we should all strive to make a persons life better even without knowing them just imagine if everyone on earth is trying to impact life positively the world would sure be a great place.

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3 years ago

Brilliant contribution, brother. Absolutely...if we all desire to make impacts, surely we would have a better world.

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3 years ago

Thank you for sharing that lovely story of the newspaper boy and Bill Gates as I never heard that before. What a story!

We all have different roads taken in this life and are still on this journey. However we take this road we just make sure to land on our happy place. Help those in need along the way whenever we can. Continue our journey. Rest if we must. Meet friends along the way. And have a great journey!

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Yes, momma. We are to continue our great journey while throwing impacts around like a confetti because our fingerprints on the lives we have touched cannot be forgotten and the memory would live longer than our existence.

Thanks a lot, momma.

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It is better to spread oneself among others to live in a beautiful way. It's good to know some rules of life.

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Thanks for your input. 😊

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