Distance yourself from people who disrespect you. .
It's hard to make friends with people who you think are perfect, it's hard to make friends when you notice something unpleasant. It's like people who criticize your mistakes, but they don't notice their mistakes. Why would you be friends with someone who is not on your brain level? Why would you be friends with someone who did nothing but judge, insult and make fun of everyone?
Do they sometimes think about what they are doing? Just like things that others shouldn't know but because you're a superstar you said it.
Imagine, others don't do what you do to others, but you yourself do things to other people that are not right, just so they can say that you are always right. So they can say you're good, and so they can admire you.
Never allow someone to disrespect you with ease.
even if they are an important person to you or a friend of yours. Bullying and other forms of disrespect should not be tolerated. Set boundaries and be bold. If it hurts, you should let them know that you are uncomfortable with their treatment or simply walk away because you don't deserve it. Be decisive, don't let the person manipulate you if they have a strong personality. You can earn respect. Therefore, it is essential to learn to respect oneself in the face of disrespect.
Sadly, we cannot change toxic people, specially the ones who always think they are right. But we can start changing the way their words and actions affect us, to lighten the heaviness we feel.
Everyone has set a limit beyond which they cannot tolerate anything. When ever you feel that your are being disrespected by someone. You can ask them very respectfully to stop doing that. And it can be also done politely. If you do it this ways they will know their limits
Be minded that have always been a builder in spirit and life. Can only imagine it was the darkest of times when my spirit ran out of materials and tools. But isn’t that the truth for all of us, that without materials and tools when we need them most, the table means nothing because it can’t be built. Because a table built without others is like a castle built out of sand. And that would be a lonely and sad thing. So build together, no one should have to beg, that’s ridiculous. But sometimes it’s where the materials and tools come from.
Never let others to make your world. You can make your own world even better than others. You can make the world except making a single room with the help of others. So called of people doesn't have the ability to rule you world. You are the ruler of your own planet. Don't let others to rule. There is always a twist of your own. So make your own world not letting others to make it. You will need a package of self confidence and self steem to know your worth. Self confidence to love yourself. Self steem to reach your goals.
Author's Note:
Hehe kakapublish lang ulitt! Medyo hirap na gumawa mg article kasi ang heptic ng schedule pero laban ❤️
I so agree with what you discussed in this article, Ateee. For me, if a person can't respect me & my parents [including my siblings]? He don't deserve my respect. Call me rude, bastos or what, but what I have learned in life is undeniably enough to make my mindset to be changed (positively & for my own sake). And as I grow older, I have realized that hindi palaging dapat rumespeto sa ibang tao lalo na 'dun sa mga di ka naman nire-respeto.
And this phrase: "You can earn respect." I believe that it should be "You SHOULD or MUST earn respect." Dahil hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon ay kusang ibibigay. In my opinion, depende din yan kung paano tayo pakitaan ng ugali ng ibang tao. In short, what they give is what they shall receive too.