Whenever you are stuck in traffic what do you do???
You read newspaper, you browse or chat with friends? You watch a movie? Or you listen to music while trying to organise your thoughts . You can't do anything at that moment but wait for the traffic to flow.
But what happens when you get stuck in a life situation? You tend to want to maneuver it by all means even when you know it might be dangerous . Why can't you chill like you do in a traffic?? Those consequences you get when you try to maneuver a traffic is what you get in life which include frustration, punishment and disgrace.
What do you do when you fail a course in exam? Do you bribe the lecturer for a pass or do you read to rewrite the course?
The height of this is seen in business organizations.when some people fail to get enough sale from their product or achieve their set goals they tend to fold up because they have given up.
At the office when any task is given which is hard to do, we think to quit your job and find a new job.
Even in our relationships when there seem to be a fall out ,we should start with an apology conversation to fixed it but no, we choose to move to another relationship forgetting there is no person with the same attributes on the earth.
At the ATM stand when we go to make some transaction, we are not even patient to wait for our own turn. We need to be patient and not manever to the front as this lead to misunderstanding or even fight among all.
In health sections, you need to follow the instructions from heath workers in order to get well, you don't choose to do it your own way as there is no magic to that.
In schools you also have to follow the due process in passing a course which will include quiz, assignment , projects and seminars .
What are am trying to pass across?
Be patient when you are stuck in the things of life.