Has anyone ever ghosted you? One moment when you were chatting with each other all the time, and the next time it seems that they disappeared out?
GHOSTING is a term used to describe a person who suddenly ends a relationship by ending all communication. It can be very painful for the person who is imprisoned in the eye because they are left without any explanation as to why the relationship has not lasted.
Here are 8 early signs that someone is going to ghost you :
THEIR TEXTS ARE BRIEF
>Are your text responses less and less?
Maybe both of you are texting nonstop, where you seem like you have nothing to say, but find your text so short that instead of continuing the conversation, you can only reply with one word. This often means that they are losing interest and are preparing to demonize you.
POOR GRAMMAR AND SPELLING
>Is there one style of texting all of a sudden, another text full of sudden misspellings and bad grammar?
This sudden change in the way they text you may be due to a lack of effort on their part in losing interest. Instead of spending time expressing what they want to say as they were in the past, they can use shorthand and slang to send a response. This may be because you will no longer be investing in the relationship.
THEY ARE ALWAYS BUSY AND CANCEL PLANS
>Are they suddenly busy all the time? Do you often skip your appointments?
If you want to hang out or date often and now those meetings have stopped unexpectedly, they are trying to trick you. Well, finding out each other's schedules can be difficult at first because they can be really busy or embarrassed to meet. This unexpected trend of delay in imposter appointments can be a cause for concern.
SOMETHING DOESN'T FEEL RIGHT
>Is there something about them that doesn't suit you?
At the end of the day, it's probably best to follow your instincts. Maybe your partner has acting differently or your tone has stopped in your text messages, even if you cannot consciously point out what is wrong, your instinct is generally correct and therefore you want to address it or talk about it.
YOU HAVEN'T BEEN ON A DATE
>Do they always postpone a formal date with you just to watch TV?
If they promise you they will go to a restaurant but keep telling you to sit on TV all night, it could be a sign that they are not as interested in the relationship as you think they are.
Well, there is nothing wrong with staying home. This tendency to formally discourage you from meeting when asked may be a sign of a lack of commitment and investment which can lead to them ghosting you near the future.
JUST EMOJI RESPONSES
>Did they just start answering you using emojis?
While there is nothing wrong with using emojis when messaging, responding only with emojis at all times, especially when you write something thoughtful, can cause concern to reach them.
The easiest response is to use emoji when you really don't care or don't know what to say. So its only use can be a sign that they have lost interest in you.
YOU ALWAYS REACH OUT
>Are you always there to start a conversation?
Although you may have texted a lot in the beginning, now you have sole rights if you text them first.
This habit of not reaching out is probably a sign that they are no longer interested and are looking for a way to end things.
You should know that sometimes they can get really busy, so it's important to first let your concerns reach them, so that they know what impact their actions are having on you.
THEY AREN'T INTRODUCE YOU TO THEIR FRIENDS AND FAMILY
>Have they told your friends or family about you?
Not everyone in a relationship introduces their partner early on. However, if you keep your secret from everyone they know, they will not be interested in a serious relationship. If you are in a good relationship bur not to mention at least with your friends or family, their commitment and involvement in their love life may mean that they are planning to make you a ghost in the future.
Are you related to any of the signs mentioned here? Has anyone ever seen you, or have you ever seen someone? Let us know in the comments below. Thank you for supporting!
I have experienced this before and it is totally true