Harsh reality of living

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How great is the feeling living your life on the way you wanted, like everything is on what exactly they belong, everything is going well, you have a great family, a happy relationship with your love one, a circles of lovable and kind friends, a stable job, or even a good standing on school. Isn't it so good to think and imagine having all of it, you have nothing more to ask for.

But what will happen if all the things we are living in, all of this beautiful and good things we have just ruined because life started to evade us, it started to baffled us, and our walls started to crumbling down, and we started to loosed our hope , we slowly moving down. That's we call the harsh reality of life, in this article I wanted to share some harsh reality I noticed about living...

Living is a competition

I noticed that people nowaday take this world as a big tournment, as a big competition, that eveey we must passed on every level to be on top, to not be left by others, that I considered one of harsh reality. Life must be easy if people will don't take it as a competition, living a life like a competiton will never be a happy one, yes ofcourse in someday you will feel the bliss because today you are on top, but we never so unsure what will happen tomorrow, because it might be your last day being on top because some of the players will do everything to surpass you.

Judgements are always there

Judgement exist always wherever we go, whoever we are with, whatever we do, people will always be people. People will always have a say even they don't know you, they can easily judge you. This part of harsh reality of living, and it's okay atleast you know who you are and being judge as a person you are not can hurt us, but it's part of living. We just need to deal with it.

Losing is gaining

In this life, in this journey, we always the opportunity to meet new faces, to create bond with them, and also to loss them. Lossing is part of living, it will not be easy and we will never get used to it but, losing is gaining. We lose people or things because God will give us much better, we will meet people who will make us realized that losing is just opening up for new opportunities on living this life.

Money can buy happiness

Enough with the common old phrase of money can't buy happiness, we all know that if we look at in a pratical way. Money does buy happiness, if you have money you will be satisfied, money can provide people needs and luxuries. Of coure some people will that money can't buy happiness because of the thinking that, love and happiness is important. As I was saying I didn't mean to say that if we don't have money we're not happy of course happiness will always comes first but so money too. I'm not mukang pera here but just being practical hahaha, kidding but it's true that this is the reality we are living in.

Some things will not work out

Sometimes it's okay if things will not go on the same way you wanted to. It's part of reality, life is a long ride where we don't know where we are detined to, the road isn't straight, so we must deal with life, enjoy it while it last, uncertainties will come but it will just makes us stronger and braver to face this life.

You see life is just like that. Today you are living a good one but tomorrow will not, today you are on high, but tomorrow your down, today you are on the top but tomorrow you will fee in the bottom, but that's okay life is not about living perfectly because it's not living if there's nothing that challenge us. How we face challenges is our choice, if we will take it as a reason to became stronger or to just let it enveloped us and keep us away from living.

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That's it for today guys, hope you have a great Sunday weekend, have fun and enjoy, stay hydrated, take care my dear ones!

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In life, you are not always on the top. There are times and there will be times of your life that you will be undertow and oftentimes this reveal your whole personality.

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2 years ago

Absolutely right, we have are down times too, life is not just rainbow and sunshine but sometimes we need to go through a storm.

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2 years ago

yep... i think you are right with the saying money can't buy happiness... because without money you'll not be comfortable... you'll keep on demanding or wanting things that you want but without money it will be hard to get what you want.... of course, love is not included in that part but even if you love or someone loves you that much if you can't fill your tummy, if you can't have things that you need life will be hard :)

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2 years ago

Hehez absolutely right! Money can really buy our happiness and satisfaction, love is a must so as money too.

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2 years ago

Akin nalang pera nung mga nagsasabing money can't buy happiness hahahaha chaaar. Be practical na talaga, di tayo mabubusog sa purong pagmamahal lang. May actions dapat. Imagine having a lot of money, hindi na natin poproblemahin yung ipambibili natin ng makakain natin sa susunod na araw, pambayad ng bills at ng kung ano ano pa.

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2 years ago

Yes 101% correct hahaha, grabe na kaya ang halaga ng pera sa tao lalo na ngayon.

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2 years ago

Pinakacompetitive things ko lamg dito yung magulang ko, jusko bilamg anak nila diko alam san ko na tatanangin lahat. Sumosobra na

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2 years ago

Competition on ranking in this society is become rampant to the point that people start ruining each other's image in order to make them on the top. It snot healthy in this society since you didn't know who's gonna help you and who's gonna betray you that's why it's better not to trust no one. We are also living in judgemental society which people easily judge people according to what they see but they didn't know anything about true identity of that person.

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2 years ago

Agree to all of this, better just live our life as it is without stepping on others, this world is not harsh but some humans are, we just need to deal in this reality of living.

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2 years ago

haha cut that thing na talaga. Money is life na talaga lalo na ngayun need ng pera lahat ng bagay thats the harh reality over just the fantasy.

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2 years ago

True, we can't just live our life in fantasy haha we need to be more practical, money is also essential in living.

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2 years ago

Tama, kung di Tayo makikipag compete paniguradong maiiewn Tayo sa ere.

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2 years ago

Sa true lang, so we just need to do better and push ourselves to be the best version of us.

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