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Is it too much to ask your wife to get back on shape right away, after giving birth? Let's talk about this and let's see how people will also react. All people are welcome to react to this topic, single, married, mother, fathers, single moms or dads, young adults, LGBTQ+++, all hooman beings for short. :)

It all started when the NO FILTER PODCAST uploaded on of their recent podcasts. I only saw a clip stitched by another tiktok user who reacted to NO FILTER PODCAST's hosts. Here's a screenshot and a tiktok reaction video post:

Here's a screenshot from a website while I tried to look for the original video uploaded online. So you can get the full context.

Here's a another reaction video from a decent father and husband's point of view. Check out the video here too

While Joe Santagato a YouTuber, Comedian, Podcaster reacted to this on his own podcast. Here's the video https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSeGyVHnY/

My reaction

WTF dude.

Yes, that's my only reaction. As much as I want to watch and listen to their full statement on this 'cause you know this might be other good things or point on their arguement but the video/s have been deleted after they received a backlash.

So yeah, WTF.

Thoughts?

They do not know or understand what being a husband or father means. They are immature boys. Yes, immature and they are still boys.

This picture referring to men. Men can't conceptualize pregnancy because they do not go through it.

Women have a lot to endure and back in the days, women were only identified as an instrument for sex as if women are not human beings.

Being a first time mom and full time mom hearing people or should I say men, who think this way triggers anger and frustrations of a mother and a wife.

My answer to their question 'IS THIS TOO MUCH?'

YES, first of all it's not your decision to make. It's not your body who went through major changes and you want your wife/girlfriend to get back into shape that quick. F***. If your wife/girlfriend wants to get back on shape right after giving birth she can, but do it on her terms or help her, you f$*^. You don't even have to ask or tell them to do it. Yes, it's too much. You're too much.

Everyone's body doesn't have an on and off switch that can shift to a different type. Have they even heard about science and medical conditions? These guys really have serious mental condition of severe narcism and misogyny.

Lastly, if you do not want your wife or girl to get out of shape don't have sex or don't impregnate a woman.

Message to the hosts

The NoFilterPod hosts are very immature and thinks that men run the whole world as if they didn't have a mother who raised them.

I also checked their channel and TikTok account. Clearly the hosts were misogynists. The channel doesn't have a lot of videos yet but if you check their TikTok and YouTube accounts they only have a few episodes or videos uploaded and most of it were about glorifying men, toxifying women.

You know, the usual men are these positive blah blah, strong blah blah, before women became independent blah blah. I can't stand watching or listening to any word that they say. I am not being biased because I am a women, but I am not a biased person. Their statement or arguements can be applied to all beings, men, women, trans, gays, whatever gender or color as long as you are a human being.

Bruh, y'all not even good looking at all. You may just have a shaped body but man, we can never really have it all (brains).

Mature people/husband/boyfriend

I am very thankful that I have one, who understands how lifechanging being a mother is, positive and negative. My husband always thank me for taking care of our Lil B since he's in the province.

Boys who will turn into mature understanding men/husband/boyfriends, don't be like these guys. I am begging you, do not treat women as if they can only bring pleasure to you if they look good.

Ayun lang, galit lang ako trending eh HAHAHAH!

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Lead image from unsplash and pictures posted are ss from tiktok.