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Daddyhood. (LDR edition)

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2 months ago

LDR is a challenge for couples. What's more challenging is having an LDR family. It's hard not to see your kids growing up or hugging them when they cry. (Wait, local LDR lang to ha. Pano pa kaya yung out of the country LDR talaga.)

Since the boss baby is asleep again, let me write something really quick. The BossBaby (let's just call her BB) will turn 4mos tomorrow. I just hate celebrating her monthly milestones without my husband (Boss daddy) on her side. I think I am writing this because I miss him na din.

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He's working in the province and due to the community quarantine and his line of work, he can only go home to us for a few days or a week, a month. Whenever he has a chance to go home on his time off, he immediately grabs the opportunity. (We are also taking advantage of the airfare as of the moment).

He was here two weeks ago and only has 3 days to stay, after more than a month of not going home due to the seasonal lockdown. We did enjoy and had a quality time during his stay. Well, more likely he did have quality time with BB. He really likes to engage on BB's daily activities. He likes to do almost everything except for the breastfeeding part HAHAHAH! I let him feed her, let him bathe her, playtime (tummy time) and put her to sleep for her nap time. This is also one reason that I started pumping milk and bottle feeding her, so Boss Daddy can experience how to feed her and at the same time they have DaddyBaby time too.

By the way, BB needs at least a long nap time during afternoon so that she can sleep well at night. My husband carried her for more than an hour (using a sling or a carrier). I told him to sit down many times as he will get tired. I kept telling him to sit down if he's tired standing up so he can last longer carrying her but he doesn't want to because she might wake up.

Before my husband left for work, I asked him if he got tired carrying or taking care of our baby. He said, 'Yes, pero ngayon ko lang to magagawa.' Due to the pandemic and his work, he sometimes get frustrated that he can't be with us all the time. The least that he can do is to work hard for BB.

Nagootd si BB para ganda sya sa picture with Daddy

Right after he left, he texted me na ayaw nya magpack ng things nya kasi nalulungkot na naman sya na aalis na sya.

Kaya mga guys please get your jab na!!!

Going back, he always thank me for taking good care of our daughter while he was away. I also do thank him for providing for us kahit na nasa malayo for weeks. We also make sure to call every day and every night especially before going to sleep.


We thought that he can go home this week and he will be here for BB's 4th month, suddenly plans changed. He can't be with us tomorrow but good thing that he picked a cute costume for her. By the way, Boss Daddy and I watches anime and recently he's watching Kimetsu No Yaiba (Demon Slayer). He wants BB to dress as Nezuko.

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I will also let him pick BB's costume for the next months. Baka maging cosplayer tong anak namin paglaki, like her tita who passed away years ago. I didn't meet her kasi di pa kami nun, pero sayang sana makita nya si BB.

Sana nakilala ka namin. 🤗🤗

Anyways, on the other hand we are still lucky. We got to see him monthly and BB is healthy.

Tiis tiis muna for the meantime and that's it for now. I just rushed this blog as some of my drafts are still blank. hahahaha!

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mahirap talaga mag LDR, I am in a LDR , my husband is working abroad. Though malapit lng siya I coudn't visit him due to covid. The last time I hug him was feb. 22, 2021.

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2 months ago

mahirap ang LDR lalo na pag may anak na.. may kasama kaba sa bahay mommy? i guess I would cry everyday if ako nasa katayuan mo..you are a strong mommy! yay! lusog lusog ni baby..ano name nya?

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2 months ago

Nasa parents ko po ako nagstay kasi wala si hubby di dn kami makakakilos kapag maiwan kami lng ni bb sa bahay. Saoirse po name ni bb hahaha

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2 months ago

mabuti naman at anjan ka sa parents mo.. napaka unique ng name ni baby..

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2 months ago

Gusto ko rin ganyang bonding ng family, cute po ng costume...

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2 months ago

Request ni daddy yung costume eh hahaha.

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2 months ago

It's heartwarming to see your husband be so involved with your baby, no matter how limited the time he spends with you. This way, he won't be a stranger to Boss Baby, at the same time, he won't feel as if he missed out in taking care of her and watching her grow.

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2 months ago

He's also the one who researches for any baby activities like teaching how to crawl.

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2 months ago

Very committed. You and your baby are blessed.

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2 months ago

Aheee ang cute ni baby saka iba talaga ang samahan at bonding kapag pareho kayo ng hilig hehe sana soon hindi na malayo husband mo ate para hindi na kayo mag kalayo, staystrong and keepsafe always po❤️🤗

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2 months ago

Totoo yan. Ung hilig nmin naapply kay bb hahaha.

Hindi matuloy kasi ang mga plano habang pandemic. Magingat dn kayoooooo ♥️♥️

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2 months ago

Matutuloy yan soon kapag covid free na yieee ❤️🤗

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2 months ago

Ang cuteee po ng father and bonding nila. Stay healthy po kayo.

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2 months ago

Minsan lang sila makapagbonding kaya dakilang padede-an ako kapag andito sya hihi

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2 months ago

agghh ang cute po. nakaka miss po talaga pag malayo sa mahal mo. kaya pag nagkita sulitin na

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2 months ago

Advance happy birthday kay bb 😍 Ang swerte mo Ate sa asawa mo :) Stay strong! :*

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2 months ago

Thank you! Tibay at lakas ng loob lang muna for the meantime

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