That one friend

We all have that one friend we have been so attached with. That is very amazing, we are afraid to lose but, we all know we have to take different path and have to say until we meet again.

A friend, I actually have a lot of friend, what I mean with a lot, is actually 4 person only during college. I am not that friendly, and my whole college life begins at 4:30 am and end at 8:00pm. I would help my Mother to cook at 4:30am or I am the one who will cook rice and prepare our food to school with my siblings. After my class I would go to the library with my friend and study. I need to study more and more as I cannot really understand some points during lecture. I go by understanding by reading and samples and a lot of question with my genius friend. I am not like others who enjoyed listening to teacher since elementary as I am more focus on going home and dinner. This type of friends are my study buddy friends. We share, ideas about the class subjects, assignments and exams leakage. But not going in much deeper attachment.

After graduation, I didn't cry because I know, we will all be separated. And its kinda absurd for me. I am a little psycho so, I guaranteed you that I didn't cry! Loud! Just sniffing. Lol. I was so afraid what to face after graduation and also thrilled and excited that I won't wake up at 4:30 am to cook rice and prepare them for school. I am also thrilled because all of my subjects are over and no math, no math, yes. No Math! Bye terror teacher, by handsome prof, I'll make sure to see one at work! Bye annoying classmates! Bye you all! That was what I felt during graduation, though a mixture of nervousness because the board is coming.

But yeah, after graduation, and passing the boards, we found a work and at the same time we find a friend which we interact with every time and the one who keeps us sane in the work industry. The one you shared your hate to your boss, your bossy workmates, the lazy, the late and the flirt! Oh so many flirt on work. And those, bosses who keeps on pressuring you, though you aren't under their department. You just wanna say, "Talk to my hand sir your not my boss". This one friend, whom will leave, and make everything dull on your end. So you have to leave too. To meet new people. And create a new you and discover new environment.

Yes I too have that one friend, whom I grow closed with during my first work. She is definitely very kind, fair, clean and sometimes she just don't asked what your problem is and just invite me to my favorite fast-food. Jollibee for the win! Yeah she's like that! Understanding and sweet. Maybe we click because she's the youngest in their family and I am the eldest. Thats why she's sweet and me, I am not in anyway like that. I am just a cold hearted girl in the universe.

One thing that made us similar are our desire and curiosities to try new position (job title) and a new added job description. So after almost two years of having each other side by side, during breakfast, lunch and dinner. During weekly laundry sessions. Morning, routine as we lined up in the staffs bathroom. We go in a separate ways. She tried office works, I tried and grow my knowledge more on site works.

At first we thought we could apply but still live in the same apartment, we did for four months, but it wasn't practical. Because both our company offer staff house and we are sucker of free things and accommodation. So we decided to leave each other alone. I left first, as I don't want to be left out. We don't talk about it again anymore. But maybe those one eventful things teach me not to get attached more with people around me. Its more than a heartbreak! I tell you! Now, I remain cool with people, but I don't share more of things that worries me, excites me, and my problems.

But the thing is, we all have that one friend that is not easy to let go, because you shared so many memories together. And that you have become open about each others dream and you are already attached, and you are already used with each other presence. It has been what? Three years and we still chat and meet but the closeness is gone. :)

Maybe that really hurt so bad huh? Haha! I mean I just have one friend, that I shared moments but still we have to move forward. I guess life is like that! Everything moves and one thing that is constant is change.

She might hate me for sharing this. Lol. Anyways, how about you have you had that super friend you still connect with? And you both share many girly things with each other? Well that kind of sad right? That we meet but we'll separate ways.

And I forgot one thing that school teaches us, we lift up, by taking to the next level, and moving through different paths. And in order to do this, we have to let our friend on class go to the path they wanted to take, or you go on the path that makes you, you. Choices, patience and changes, but one thing that remains is our family. That was one of the best thing I forgot to remember!

Credits

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