I was sexually abused for 7 long years as a child.

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2 years ago

I am a Bangladeshi girl. Bangladesh culture and the culture of other countries are not one. I don't know if Read Cash will accept me. As much as I can, I will write articles about my real life.

To be honest, today I will tell you in detail about my own sexual victim or harassment.

1. Since I was 3 years old, I have been sexually abused or raped. I was raped by my uncle. He used to come to our house and take me on his lap and satisfy his sexual satisfaction. I was raped by 3 year old unctle.

2. My own cousin. He also used to take me to sleep with him at night and hit my genitals. I was raped by their father and son.

3. My cousin. He used to come to our house and if I was asleep he would torch my genitals. I could never say anything to anyone.

4. There was an uncle living next to us. He used to have sex with me in the name of caressing me. I couldn't say anything.

I was afraid to say anything to anyone even after being sexually abused or raped so many times. Because no one believes me. That's why they used to scare me.

I was a kind of helpless child. I was sexually abused until I was 7 years old.

Child sexual abuse is a form of child abuse where a child is sexually abused by an adult or older child.

This type of sexual abuse includes forcing or forcing a child to have sex, showing or forcing a child to show genitals, showing a child porn, treating a child as a real sexual partner, touching or viewing a child's genitals or making child porn .

#Childhood_and_Sex

I was sexually abused. In my experience some general information which includes:

Most of the time I was sexually abused by an acquaintance.

Sexual abuse often begins at a very young age.

This torture was not usually an isolated incident and has occurred for many months or years.

#Sexual_rule: Don't be silent on child protection

There are several misconceptions about child sexual abuse. Many feel that children are abused by strangers and that only girls are sexually abused. Some people think that children from poor families are more at risk of being abused. But the experience of many countries in the world, including Bangladesh, shows that both boys and girls are victims of sexual harassment. The child's acquaintances and strangers and even relatives can be abusive. In most cases, the child is abused by someone they know. Not only men, but also women sexually abuse children. Sometimes relatively older children (boys or girls) can bully younger children. Children of any age and any social position in the village or city can be victims of oppression. However, some children, including children with disabilities, working children and children living on the streets, are at higher risk due to their condition. Sexual abuse of a child can occur in many ways, from unwanted touch to rape.

In some cases, the child does not want to express fear or embarrassment. But parents and family members can understand this by looking at some of the symptoms in the baby. Such as inconsistencies or changes in sexual behavior, talking about head or abdominal pain, facing various problems in school and poor results. The child's normal behavior may also change. For example, a child may lose interest in sports and have difficulty communicating with peers or adults. If there is such a change in the child's behavior, the parent should find out more about it, try to find out if there has been any abuse.

#Parents

The child must listen carefully. You need to trust them and control your emotions.

The child needs to be reassured that he or she is not responsible for the incident but that the abuser is to blame and that the behavior is unacceptable.

The child should be informed that necessary measures will be taken for his protection. The child should be given medical, counseling and legal assistance as needed.

Other family members need to be made aware of the abuser, so that they can be wary of their own children.

Children should not be made to understand that adults are very worried about this.

Doing something that makes the child uncomfortable, showing fear or annoyance, belittling the incident or taking the side of the abuser should not be done at all. Such behavior can be very negative for the child.

The child's relationship with the parents is very important in preventing sexual abuse of the child and taking necessary measures in this regard. Children express themselves only to their own parents.

In many cases the parents do not take any action against the abuser (if they are a family member) for fear of so-called family honor. This adversely affects the child's mind and damages their relationship with the parents. Surely a relationship with a relative cannot be more important than a child's well-being?

Now is the time to break our silence on child sexual abuse.

Let us all unite to protest against this torture. Everyone should take to the field with this slogan that death penalty should be the maximum punishment for the perpetrators.

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2 years ago

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We have to protect child, I'm really sorry for what happened to you in your past. Try to protect yourself instead of begging help to others. I hope you're fine now.

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2 years ago

Im so sorry to hear this ,this is very sad i hope that you are okay now .Be strong always and keep praying.

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2 years ago

My friend, I'm fine now. And I've prepared myself hard. So that it does not happen again.

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2 years ago

I'm sorry that you have gone through a very difficult time. Believe me, when I say that I feel you, we have something in common. but life has many things to offer. please be happy.

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2 years ago

This incident will be more or less the same with every girl. Most children are victims of this sex. But I can't say it orally. Yet one must overcome all obstacles to move one's life forward.

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2 years ago

After reading this. My awareness has been stronger. I can say that you're a brave girl keep on writing this kind of article. There are many girls in this platform and we need you to be more informed about sexual abused. Im very sorry for what happened to you dear.

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2 years ago

Oh my good friend, thank you in the beginning. Today is our first introduction. I will not say that all people are bad. Some men cannot be called bad because of some people. If everyone is aware of their vision.

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2 years ago

im just a newbie bust count me as one of your fan. I love how brave you are. just keep on posting dear. hope you have a good life and health.

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2 years ago

Thank u this much💖

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2 years ago

I will definitely say that you are a brave girl, that is why you have shown the courage and strength of your mind through this article. I pray to Allah to give you a lot of patience and a lot of improvement and to be aware that we can speak out against the physical abuse of children and take care of our own children. Your article is a guide for our awareness.

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2 years ago

welcome my dear. Thank you for reading my registration. I was not brave. Society has made me a fighter. No one can tell when a situation arises. All I know is that all parents need to be aware of their children so that no more children are sexually abused.

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2 years ago

You are right, parents must be very careful, especially with girls. I have a daughter and that's why I'm so worried .We need to build a friendly relationship with our children, not just awareness, so that they can speak to us fearlessly in any good or bad situation. And I think children should be taught self-defense techniques. Your article is a great lesson for the people of the society. Thank you for your article and best wishes.

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2 years ago

Oh, my God. I am so sorry to hear this. 😔 I hope you're okay now. Be strong. I believe that those people will be punished. You are so brave.

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2 years ago

Thanks for supporting me. I have transformed myself into a tough person now. I don't break easily now. I protest against anything bad. I am not afraid now. I know that my God will punish those inhumans severely and has prepared them. I will write another article about this sexual victim in Part 2. Stay tuned.

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2 years ago

It's sad, I really don't know what to say about it. It's definitely not something to be silent about. Staying with those who do this means letting other new cases happen.

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2 years ago

O my friend. Thank you for reading my article. This child abuse must stop. There are people around us that we can't see with the naked eye. Just like bacteria. Good in front of you but behind you, hurts your baby. So everyone needs to be aware.

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