I am a Bangladeshi girl. Bangladesh culture and the culture of other countries are not one. I don't know if Read Cash will accept me. As much as I can, I will write articles about my real life.
To be honest, today I will tell you in detail about my own sexual victim or harassment.
1. Since I was 3 years old, I have been sexually abused or raped. I was raped by my uncle. He used to come to our house and take me on his lap and satisfy his sexual satisfaction. I was raped by 3 year old unctle.
2. My own cousin. He also used to take me to sleep with him at night and hit my genitals. I was raped by their father and son.
3. My cousin. He used to come to our house and if I was asleep he would torch my genitals. I could never say anything to anyone.
4. There was an uncle living next to us. He used to have sex with me in the name of caressing me. I couldn't say anything.
I was afraid to say anything to anyone even after being sexually abused or raped so many times. Because no one believes me. That's why they used to scare me.
I was a kind of helpless child. I was sexually abused until I was 7 years old.
Child sexual abuse is a form of child abuse where a child is sexually abused by an adult or older child.
This type of sexual abuse includes forcing or forcing a child to have sex, showing or forcing a child to show genitals, showing a child porn, treating a child as a real sexual partner, touching or viewing a child's genitals or making child porn .
I was sexually abused. In my experience some general information which includes:
Most of the time I was sexually abused by an acquaintance.
Sexual abuse often begins at a very young age.
This torture was not usually an isolated incident and has occurred for many months or years.
There are several misconceptions about child sexual abuse. Many feel that children are abused by strangers and that only girls are sexually abused. Some people think that children from poor families are more at risk of being abused. But the experience of many countries in the world, including Bangladesh, shows that both boys and girls are victims of sexual harassment. The child's acquaintances and strangers and even relatives can be abusive. In most cases, the child is abused by someone they know. Not only men, but also women sexually abuse children. Sometimes relatively older children (boys or girls) can bully younger children. Children of any age and any social position in the village or city can be victims of oppression. However, some children, including children with disabilities, working children and children living on the streets, are at higher risk due to their condition. Sexual abuse of a child can occur in many ways, from unwanted touch to rape.
In some cases, the child does not want to express fear or embarrassment. But parents and family members can understand this by looking at some of the symptoms in the baby. Such as inconsistencies or changes in sexual behavior, talking about head or abdominal pain, facing various problems in school and poor results. The child's normal behavior may also change. For example, a child may lose interest in sports and have difficulty communicating with peers or adults. If there is such a change in the child's behavior, the parent should find out more about it, try to find out if there has been any abuse.
The child must listen carefully. You need to trust them and control your emotions.
The child needs to be reassured that he or she is not responsible for the incident but that the abuser is to blame and that the behavior is unacceptable.
The child should be informed that necessary measures will be taken for his protection. The child should be given medical, counseling and legal assistance as needed.
Other family members need to be made aware of the abuser, so that they can be wary of their own children.
Children should not be made to understand that adults are very worried about this.
Doing something that makes the child uncomfortable, showing fear or annoyance, belittling the incident or taking the side of the abuser should not be done at all. Such behavior can be very negative for the child.
The child's relationship with the parents is very important in preventing sexual abuse of the child and taking necessary measures in this regard. Children express themselves only to their own parents.
In many cases the parents do not take any action against the abuser (if they are a family member) for fear of so-called family honor. This adversely affects the child's mind and damages their relationship with the parents. Surely a relationship with a relative cannot be more important than a child's well-being?
Now is the time to break our silence on child sexual abuse.
Let us all unite to protest against this torture. Everyone should take to the field with this slogan that death penalty should be the maximum punishment for the perpetrators.