How many people do you talk to on the go or in the workplace? At first glance, not all people can be recognized. But there are many people who see their own interest as big. Such people can be the cause of your loss. Sometimes the color of life can fade because of such people. There are some ways to recognize them. If you know all that, you can avoid selfish people and work with them by keeping your position right.
Selfish people magnify their own side. The interests of others are insignificant to him. These are identified as selfish in the society. As can be seen, he is taking all the topics of discussion towards himself. Proud to express his greatness. This is what he wants, let alone ten others in the society. It is always difficult to recognize selfishness again. Because many times their characteristics are not clearly expressed.
W. Kenneth Campbell, head of the Department of Psychology at the University of Georgia and a researcher on altruism, said there is an ongoing tendency among those who have selfish traits. But most selfish middle class as a level of selfishness. Although some are involved in extreme selfishness.
1. Selfish will be preferred at the first meeting: This kind of selfish person presents himself in a big way in the first expression. Expresses an attractive personality. At first glance, they may look like someone. But after a long time, many negative features come out of them.
2. Shy and quiet nature selfish: They do not come forward to show off and do not talk much. But when someone comes to talk to them and they say only a few words in between. There is no shortage of trying to exaggerate through those words.
3. Pretend to be leaders: Even if they are not successful, they always strive to be leaders.
4. Does not tolerate his own criticism: does not accept his criticism in any way. Campbell said he could not stand anyone criticizing him. In no way does he admit to anything negative about his own criticism.
5. Avoid failure: There will be many failures in life but he will avoid failure. Even when he hears that his close friend or classmate is in danger or in a bad situation, he avoids them.
6. Deceptive Attitudes: They may seem attractive at first glance, but they tend to be deceptive.
7. Never think of yourself as selfish: Never think of yourself as selfish. He never even wants or tries to understand himself as selfish.
As such, I am talking about my own characteristics; You can recognize them by looking at them. The answer was written a few days ago but I gave it today thinking whether to give it or not.
1 Introverts have an imaginary world of their own and they arrange that world just like them.
2. They say 'What are you doing ?, How are you ?, What have you eaten?' Not interested in discussing such common topics or questions. They are usually interested in complex issues.
3. Although they can easily understand many complex issues, it is more difficult to understand simple issues.
4. Introverted people do not have as much interest in other people's personal words as they do in disliking their personal words.
5. It's not that introverted people talk less all the time, they talk a lot to themselves.
6. Introverts need only one or two people to speak for themselves.
7. They often wrap themselves up while talking.
8. They talk a lot with a small smile or a look. Although not everyone understands this language.
9. Introverted people are often absent from any event, even if they go for some reason, they conveniently go and sit in one of the corners.
10. They like to walk and usually look down while walking.
11. Stay away from strangers on the road, don't even notice acquaintances. He tries his best to hide even if he notices.
12. They prefer to write than to say. Maybe that's why they are so reluctant to talk on the phone.
13. When talking to someone, look at something other than looking at him. However, this does not mean that they are inattentive.
14. They say what they want to say without their role. They don't like to talk in a twisted way.
15. Trying to analyze an event in as many ways as possible.
16. Usually likes to do their own work.
16. They often do not understand their own emotions and feelings and do not understand others.
16. They are very sensitive about some things so it is better not to focus on these things.
19. They prefer to spend time with pets than humans.
20. They have the strange ability to spend hours in the same place.
21. They are not so keen to change anything in their lives.
22. If one looks at an introverted person, he feels both discomfort and annoyance.
23. They have nothing to say on special days, they are the same every day.
24. Introverts also feel lonely among many.
25. If one of them likes it, they can't believe it themselves.
26. When an introvert falls in love, he often treats the people he likes like outsiders.
26. I don't know about anyone else, but I would run away when I saw the people I love.
26. They can easily understand the suffering of others and try to empathize and help accordingly.
29. They are more self-critical than criticizing others, so they know more about themselves.
30. They do any work very carefully and try to give their best in it.
31. Introverts are really alone. There are not many people who understand them, most of them misunderstand as much as they understand.
Excellent and beautiful and useful you wrote dear friend, I am an introvert, and I have all the characteristics that you said, while I didn't know that these characteristics are because I am introverted, I always try to do exactly what is in my heart with my movements and behavior, while most people who are extroverts don't realize it, because they want people to express their feelings with their words, something that introvert person don't know at all...