Bangladesh Divorce Women's Position. And the difference between women in foreign countries.

I had a party with my school friends last month. After many years, everyone's life has changed a lot. A change of friend between them is that he is now enjoying single status from marriage.

I said enjoying? What do you think of engagement again when divorced ??

..But it is true that he is much better today than before happily at peace. She says she's been through a lot of difficult times in her life and she's feeling much better today, and she's not stressed. The first time I saw him, I noticed that there was a strange look on his face. Who says divorce! And what if? He has found peace alone in his life, who cares?

But do you know the reason why these things happen, even after getting divorced? My friend works, pays for himself does not live at the mercy of anyone. So he is neither neglected nor hated by the society. Because he has not survived the burden of anyone.

Being divorced is still a negative thing for the society. One cannot make a family, so he is guilty or his "failure". The society is sitting to give character certificate to everyone, in case of girls the certificate will be more strict. The boys are the gold ring, so there is no harm in being bankrupt, but the happiness of the family is due to the woman! What is the quality of the world that could not? In which direction is she lady ?? Even if these questions are not asked directly, the neighbors often explain them using the right attitude.

When it comes to being "disgusting" and "neglected", it can be said that a woman is forever someone's daughter, someone's wife and someone's mother. So when he can't make a family, the dignity of being his wife and the roof over his head are taken away from him. Where will he go? She took refuge in that father's house, even after getting married at such a high cost. So not everyone agrees with him.

… Because parents will not live forever, brothers / grandfathers separate family, who will feed him? He is then understood by everyone!

So he became neglected and hated by the society. No one wants to take on his responsibilities, but he does get away with it.

So in order to face this situation, women have to be qualified and financially independent. Whenever someone becomes a bride of mercy, his value and dignity also diminishes. So educating women, becoming financially self-sufficient is very important today. No one knows when to look for a day, so women need to understand that one day they don't have to touch anyone, they have to think about their career. Society will not show a disgusting attitude or neglect towards a self-reliant, employed divorced woman as much as it will show towards an unemployed woman. So all women should keep this in mind, because at the end of the day but their self-respect is in their hands.

All the women of the world, go ahead, be self-reliant. Explain that you are not helpless, you are not a bride of mercy. Society can never be hard on those who know how to win, so learn to win and teach the rest!

The reason is very complicated. There is no simple answer to this. Here are some important points in the form of points -

Our society is very patriarchal. Here the head of the family is male and the ownership of the property is in male hands in all respects. As a result, a woman does not get as much social power as a man gains at birth. As a result evaluation is never equal.

It is important to understand the condition of married women in this society, especially the condition of married women. It is also important to understand what kind of situation a married woman has to go through. An attempt is also being made by law to resolve all these issues; That too must be mentioned.

In most of these societies, women are mainly seen as a means of procreation and rearing. There are exceptions. But that is not too much.

A Dervous girl is considered by this society - she does not fall into any of the above mentioned categories or she cannot be included in any of them. It is assumed that he is not worldly or patient at all. As a result, he is basically useless; Or she may be more intelligent than her husband. And in this society influenced by colonial law, the culture of victim blame, which has existed for a long time, continues to make a significant contribution in this regard.

What is the difference between a Bangladeshi woman and a foreign woman?

Bangladeshi women subordinate Foreign women are independent.

Bangladeshi women grow up dreaming of a good husband. Which after a while turned into a nightmare. The foreign woman grows up handling the reality. So the ground under the feet of the foreign woman is hard, she stands on her own feet. She can eat with ease. He understands his own good and bad. He is enlightened

Bangladeshi women are not self-reliant because of masculinity. Man's survival depends on his will. Due to the religious veil, he can't do a business if he wants to Since in a patriarchal society all men work outside So even though a few enthusiastic girls want to work among so many men, they do not feel comfortable.

Therefore, if a bad husband joins the fate of many girls or if the husband dies, then that woman has to die. And our religion is fully responsible for this situation.