Question diary: Day 1 interview .
Good day to you all.
Today is Monday again. Another day to keep up the hard work. ๐
Going through the platform today I came across an article by @OfficialGamboaLikeUs where she answered some questions provided to her by the Question diary app. It was an interesting one so I felt like having my first version for today.
Are you happy now?
Do I have no reason to be happy or why should I be sad? I am happy as always even when I am sad I would always try to look happy and create one for myself. Happiness is free but you would have to seek it for yourself. No one can make you happy, only if you want to see yourself happy then they might trigger it for you.
Write a letter to your future self
Dear Me,
This is a piece of advice to myself,
Beware of people.
People that you see are good and bad, they are good when they feel the presence of happiness and they realize you are having the best of time, they would always want to share those moments with you. But when things seem odd and clumsy for you only then you realize they were just there with you partially and not fully. Such is life.
Know your worth.
When you realize your limit, you know your boundaries, then you would never have to feel bored around people or get disappointed by peopleโs actions. You would also learn to remain dependent on your self regardless of what other people think or say about you. Self respect would also be yours only if you could know your worth and never go beyond your limit.
Trust yourself
After realizing your self worth then the next thing for you is to trust yourself and believe in what you can do. Limit your trust on others, but make sure to build your trust with others. Make sure you gain their trust because that is what would build your relationship with them and make your circle stronger.
Yourself first
After God, then yourself should come first. Make sure you take good care of yourself first then everyone else follows. We all have our individual lives to live and that is just our primary assignment in life. Once we end our breath then everything is gone. People would surely continue to live after your demise just as life goes on after some other people were gone.
Do you feel loved?
Yeah. Just the way I feel happy I also feel loved. Even if I never got true love from anyone or I never trusted their love for me. I also made sure I gave myself what I call self love. I love myself for being myself and I appreciate who I am. Self love matters a lot and can never be compared to every other form of love.
Is there a hidden self in you unknown to other even your friends and families
Hummn. I would say this question seems diverse. Hidden self of me might have meant a lot, it might be educationally, mentally, socially, morally, physically, emotionally, or other aspects of my life in general.
But all in all, I donโt think I have a hidden self that is unknown to others. I am free to everyone around me, no cockroach in my cupboard. To my family I am still the same person they knew even if they get interviewed differently and my friends are also the same.
Do you think that you are beautiful
Beauty what? I am the ugliest person I have ever known. Still that doesnโt stop me from appreciating myself. I am proud of my personality and that would make me think I am beautiful at times. There are times I would have to show myself to the mirror ๐ช, look at the real me in reflection and smile at myself for being myself ๐. So in conclusion I am just beginning to realize that I am beautiful but I also wish to be among the beautiful ones in the eyes of people.
I think forcing out happiness works well too because we are always addressed the way we present ourselves. Yeah, if it means faking it out, fake it because it'll address Happy people/things around very soon, it'll be applicable. Be Happy always.
Beautiful/handsome? This part nearly ruined my early life cos I always take it as I'm ugly because there's a big head๐คฃ. But now eh, I take a selfie always and throw accolades to myself ๐คธ