Do you easily fall in love??

Good day to you all.

Life is cool and amazing 🤩. But not for the ones in pain and uneasiness. I have been battling with pains in my upper tooth for some days now. I don’t really know the cause of the pain but I know it is giving me a hard time even speaking. In between the upper gum and my toothaches when my lips open and close.

But gradually the pain reduced, which made me realize that after every pain would come ease. The main point is to have that patience, endurance, and belief that it’s going to turn out well at the end of everything.

Today is another beautiful Sunday of the month and probably the last Sunday we would have to experience so far. We pray God almighty continues to spare our lives to witness many more on the earth’s surface.

Today another question popped out of my question diary application asking me “Do you easily fall in love?”

I wrote it in one of my past articles published on this platform with the title “I was just infatuated thinking I was in love” so my point here is that at times we should try to be sure about ourselves falling in love and just having a mere infatuation with people there is a difference between having a crush on someone and falling in love with them.

To me, I see falling in love to be from the heart and there is actually no reason for the bond that connects both souls together. They just get to know they are meant for each other and also get along with each other’s goals and accomplishments and overlook their mistakes and faults too.

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Love can’t come all of a sudden. It doesn't happen in just seconds, but it has to keep growing over time and the more it grows the stronger the bond. Comparing that to having a crush on someone, which can even happen at first sight. Most times crushing on someone might actually be because of some specific reasons but love shouldn’t.

I was in a deep conversation with a friend of mine where we talked about falling in love. I was opportune to ask about who she fell in love with. She told me and I furthered my question by asking her if there is any reason for her to fall in love with such a person?.

Her response was just straight to the point. She told me “Should there be any reason for falling in love?” Then I answered NO.

She continued by saying “ if there is a reason for falling in love with someone and then with time such a thing fades off, be it beauty, body posture, wealth, power, cuteness, character and all sorts of things had to fade away. Then would there be the presence of love again?

I told her, “she had said it all”. There should actually be no reason to fall in love.

Back to the question of the day. Do I easily fall in love?

Based on my personal observations and realization about myself. I got myself to be someone who hardly falls in love. But once I fall it might be so hard to get up again. Yeah, some people are actually like that. They fall in love with all their hearts and give their all. But once failed 😣 they find it hard to love again.

Love is cool, love is sweet. To love is nothing, to be loved by someone is something, but to be loved by the one you love is everything.

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03:30 pm Sunday 27th March 2022.