They stay because you are still useful to Them

Not all people choose to stay at your side because they want to. Some people don't stay because they like or love you because admit it or not, there is some who only stay because you are still useful to them. That you are still beneficial to them. They see you as an opportunity and you can help them to achieve something in life. I know that it seems that I'm so harsh on telling this one. Maybe you think that I'm only a bitter but as I grow older, I tend to realize that not all people surrounded on you wants you to become successful ,some of them only waiting for your downfall. Some of them will take advantage on you especially when they know that you are kind enough to them. They will not bring you to your life but instead they take away it from you. Don't expect that they will become loyal to you because maybe they are loyal to the benefits that they can get from you. We can't please anyone to like us nor to stay on our side, it's still their choice whether they will stay or let go of us.People who have been there and experience this can justify this one.

I met Ashley when we are in High School. At first,I thought that she is a snob person because the way she looks. But I am wrong on my first impression to her because she was one of the nice and kindest person I've ever met. Even though that we are talking to each other seldom, we still become friends. But we didn't get a chance to be so close because we have different circle of friends and honestly, I don't want her friends because they are a user and fake friends. Her friends are known for having some vices and to be a trouble makers. But I don't want to tell it to her because I don't want her to think that I badmouthed her friends. She still hang out with them. We are not in the same class though so I believe that it's also good to her to have friends inside the classroom. As they get along to each other, they let Ashley to do their homework. Yes, Ashley is the one who did their assignments even it's just an opinion based question. Since, she is an honor and transferee student, she is eager to have friend so she choose to do the assignments so that her chosen friends will not leave her and she will not be bully by them. Sometimes, I saw her rushing writing her assignments because she did first the assignment of her friends before doing her assignment. I can't help but to speak at her. I know that she want to have friend but tolerating that kind of behavior and the laziness is not right. But instead, she got at me and she still did her routine, doing her friend's assignment.

One time, our teacher asked her about that matter because they have the same output with her friends. The teacher asked her to tell the truth so they can make an action about it but Ashley denied it and said that she doesn't know anything. She even said that she is the one who copied from her friends. At that point, I don't know if I will be mad on her for covering her friends. We all know that she is the one who originally made that but I don't understand why she keeps denying on it. So because of that, she get a bad record of cheating and she can't able to be on the honor list. Where is her friends? They enjoying their life because they are all in the top list while their friend is sacrificing her position. And worst after they graduated in High School, they only snob Ashely and they got the nerves to gossip about her. They tell to our Juniors and to every man that courted Ashley that she have a record of cheating in school. They make it a big deal. They graduated with flying color without thinking about the feelings of their friends. I doubt if they really treat Ashley as their friend or they just used her as an opportunity to be on the top list. Maybe friends because of the benefits that Ashley can give to them.

Since that day, I realize that not all people really wants us. Sometimes, they didn't like us to be friend but they need us. Even you always help them and be kind to them, still they can throw some bad things to you. Even you always show up in front of them when they have a problems, there's a point that they rather choose to stay away to you because they don't want get involve to your dramas. Even you become good to them still they are not satisfied to it and choose to leave you. So please, stop breaking your back for the people who can't show your worth and effort. Don't chase them, let them be. So it's important for you to choose the people who will be part of your life. Not all people who knocks on your door, deserves a warmest welcome. Before I don't believe on it but I think it's true when they say that we should choose our friends. Choose someone who helps and stay at you even at the hardest phase of your life. Learn how to differentiate real from a user/fake one because if you not assess, it can harm you so badly.

Greetings!!

What's up dreamers of read cash universe? How's the weather on your place? Here, it's raining since in the morning so it's hard for me to be productive at all. It seems that my bed tempted me haha. Even though, I hope that everyone still get a chance to get some rest and break. Don't overuse yourself. Hey, your body also have a limitations so be aware of it. Don't let your health be in at stake because of your busyness.

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Thank you dreamers for still supporting a little dreamer like me. Thanks for your warmest support🥰