Its a big " No" for Mom

Happy Feb- month dreamers, the month for love, dates, sweetness and care. I can really feel the love month on the four corners of our house. The lovers here is so sweet and they are planning to have a date on Valentines Day and they even invited me but I refuse because I don't want to be the 7th wheel hahaha😂🤣. I know that I'll gonna be their photographer if it ever happens. Maybe I celebrate it in front of my manuscript while sipping a cup of coffee. Bitter peeps spotted here haha. Just kidding, we can still celebrate it even though we don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend because it is also a perfect time to bond with our family and friends.

But wait, it's not the topic that I will be discussing today. Earlier, I was scrolling to my social media and I saw a post there about minimilist tattoo. Then I remember that I was asking Mom a permission if I can have a tattoo then she's reaction is like " Seriously? If you pursue that one, you better find another home" haha. I can already says what she was about thinking even she just glaring at me.

I don't know why but I found it so cute. Then I even asked my cousins to also pursue my Mom about that because they already have that one but my mom's decision is still the same, it's a big No for her. Because I am so obedient daughter, I was looking for the new house haha. Bye , Mom char hahaah. Now,I was thinking about it and yes my Mom have a point with her reason.

Aside from that, there is a one thing that I want to have but my Mom is also disagree with it. Guess what is it? She said she can't allow me to have it because she was too nervous what might happen to me. You know, this thing is prone to accident. And I know you have already an idea what thing is it. And yes, it is a motorcycle.

I want to have a sport motorcycle because I found it so cool. Actually, I have tried to drive this kind of motorcycle before when my cousin teach me. The most embarrassing part is when we encountered road humps and I didn't notice it so I gradually lost my balance and we slide on the street. But my cousin stand immediately to check his motorcycle instead of me haha. He checked if there's a damage and he hugs immediately while me? I was still lying on the street because I got a small wounds on my knees. There's many people who saw us then they say " Your boyfriend loves his motorcycle than yours haha". They didn't know that he is only my cousin. My mom was laughing a time with an expression " I told you"

My mom is very supportive on my dreams but not to this one. When I was still a kid , I dream to be an army or a police officer. I want some action on my life haha. That's also why I engage myself to martial arts before. She was agree regarding to martial arts because through that I can protect myself alone but with that dream, it's a No-No for her. Even though my Daddy is already give his approval, my Mom has still the last say. She even say that maybe it will becomes the reason why she will die early. Haha, I know that she is so nervous to death that's why I also didn't pursue that dream. And I'm happy with the career that I choose now.

And the last want that is a "No" for my Mom is about dyeing hair. Actually, I also don't like to try this because I love my natural and shiny black hair. But my older sister once try to dye her hair and she was so proud to show it to Mom. My mom immediately told to my sister to color it to black again or she will be the one who cut the hair for her. She even say " I don't care if you becomes bald but not having that color". We both know that my Mom is just joking about that bald thingy but I was teasing my sister because she colored her hair red. And I jokingly whisper to her " You're just like a rooster Ate. Talpakan na , sa pula, sa puti". Hahaha I was so bully when it comes to her (ganyan lang po talaga kami mag-asaran) . The next day, she go home with a black hair because she was afraid that my Mom will cut her hair hahaha.

I know that maybe some of you might think that my Mom is a strict one right? But honestly she is not, maybe she is a conservative one. If you could know, she is the most sweetest and kind person I've ever met, she only wants us to realize what is the possible consequences if we tried that things. We're not got mad on Mom everytime she disagree on our choices in life because we all know that mother's knows best right? But when it comes to most of the things, she still our number one supported and cheerleader hihi . Anyways I will be glad if you could recommend new home for me so that I can pursue the things that I want to have ahha. This person needs a new home haha. Just kidding 😂

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This month, I was hoping that everyone will gonna have time to appreciate and have some bonding to those people who loves you even at your worst. We should not wasting our time without appreciating and thanking them okay? Let's spread love always hihi🤗🤗