Is this the Destiny for the girls in our Family?

Happy Friday dreamers! How did you end your week? I hope that you are productive yet able to find some time to rest. I feel like this month is very hectic for everyone but don't forget to give time for your health.

I just listening on the chitchats of my Aunties and other relatives. Today is my Uncle's birthday so we gathered again to celebrate. Tomorrow is another celebration for other Uncle's birthday Perks of having a big family, maraming kainan hahahha. They talked about the girls on our family. I thought that I am only the one who notice it but it seems that they also realize it ever since. Okay, I will be using Taglish for today's article since I am comfortable using it now haha. So yun nga,pinag-uusapan nila mga girls or should I say yung mga matatandang dalaga sa pamilya namin. Some of them even said that maybe it is destiny for our family. Honestly, both of my parents family is lahi ng matatandang dalaga. I know some of the stories why they end up like that. So kung tatanungin nyo if ilan matatandang dalaga sa pamilya namin, basically more than 10 sila and ineexpect nila na madadagdagan pa haha.

So one of them is my Auntie. Siya yung second to the youngest child ni Lola. And she is now 54 years old. I once asked her if wala ba siyang naging boyfriend or kung di siya na-inlove before. Sabi niya " My first and last love is the one who motivates me to be single until now". Niloko daw kase siya nung boyfriend niya before. Parang pinerahan lang siya tapos bigla na lang nawala. Of course it is her first love , so sobrang sakit sa kanya and yung sakit na yun andito pa din. I mean everytime na magtatangka siyang magmahal ulit, naalala pa niya kung paano siya niloko so at the end, mas pinili na lang niya maging single. At least daw, di na ulit siya masasaktan dahil sa pag-ibig.

Another is my cousin. She is now at her 40s. Unlike my Auntie, she don't have any involvement in boys. Sa madaling sabe, No Boyfriend Since Birth siya. Siya kase yung bunso sa family and masyado siyang nagfocus sa trabaho and study to the point na nakalimutan na niyang maghanap ng The One. Actually, 4 degrees lang naman natapos niya sa College and di ko alam kung paano niya nakaya yun. Ako nga isa palang maloloka na, apat pa kayo noh? I remember sinabi niya sakin before na " Don't get involve yourself in boys especially if you still have dreams that not yet achieve". Pero I really like her life now, she can freely travel the world and can do what she want. I can say na she is now live at her best life and she really deserve it.

And the rest sa kanila, may kanya-kanya ding kuwento. Yung iba sadyang nabigo sa pag-ibig kaya ayaw na sumugal muli. Yung iba naman daw trip lang nila sa buhay. Sabe pa nila " No boys, No headache" daw hahaha. Kung may common denominator man sila, I think it is the fact na choice or decision nila yung maging ganun. But I can't understand why the elders in our family said that it is the destiny for us. And ang mas nakakaloka pa, I heard na nakikita daw nila sa amin ni Ate yung mga personality ng mga matatandang dalaga. Si ate nagkaboyfriend pero niloko din siya and wala na daw siyang balak mag boyfriend ulit. It's only a year kaya siguro masakit pa para sa kanya. I even hear them saying na mas malaki daw chances na ako yung susunod naatandang dalaga sa pamilya. O diba, alam na agad nila future ko hahaha. Nakikita daw kase nila na puro aral or work lang din gagawin ko habang buhay. Pero actually,minsan naiisip ko talaga na wag na akong mag-asawa or mag boyfriend since I am happy to be alone char haha. Pero sina Mama ko naman todo push na mag boyfriend na daw ako. Baka daw mabaliw ako sa kakaaral dito sa room haha. Di kase niya ma-push mga kapatid ko so ako na lang daw haha. Mag- 30s na kase mga kapatid tapos puro single pa din hahaha. Sabe ko naman sa kanila, bata pa ako para dyan and if may dadating man, sana yung willing akong hintayin ng 10 years haha. Pero yun nga , hindi pa din ako naniniwala na ganto ang destiny ng aming pamilya. As I've observe, parang masaya din naman buhay nung mga forever single dito eh. Yung iba may business tapos yung iba naman parang easy peasy lang sa life since mag-isa lang sila. Kontento na sila na meron silang pamilya at sarili. So it really depends on the person whether they dig into love or not right? Only time can tell for my future haha.

I guess that's all for today. Thank you for reading this so random article of mine hehe. Have a great sleep ahead!!