In this world , you are my World

How can you handle to be a friend, a cheerleader and a mother to us?

How can you find the energy to be active in 24/7 in taking care for us?

How can you handle to smile even deep inside you want to burst out all of your struggles you keep to us?

Is there a secret recipe or a special power for being an awesome just like you?

One thing is for sure in this world, she is my world.

A woman who didn't expect that being a mother will be hard just like this. Unlike before that she only think about herself, now she needs to prioritize her kids. Their world rotate 360° and it seems that they start from the beginning again. From the day that there are baby in their tummy until now, they never failed to protect and love us. Being a mother will never been an easy job. There was an overloaded responsibilities. Sometimes, they even have a doubt on themselves if they can afford to taking care a child. At first, they are afraid to dig into this reality but as day passes by, they also learn that being a mother was the most precious job that they can experience in their life. Maybe it doesn't give them a salary but the value of it(their kids) cannot compared to anything.

A girl who always hide her true feeling because she doesn't want to be a burden to her family. She always show to her kids that she is okay and she can handle everything. But for sure, there's a moment that they cried silently. They choose to expose their feelings silently because they don't want be the reason why their kids will become lonely. They always their to comfort us, to support us and make sure that we are doing okay. But once in your life, did you even asked your mother if she is really okay? If she can still handle the pain inside? For some reason we are afraid to asked that question to them because at instance, maybe they will cried in front of us. Maybe they are a superhero in our eyes but don't forget that they are human too. A mother can feel tired too. They can also feel sadness and even asking their worth. Just like an hero, they need a sidekick who can fully understand them.

What's the most painful of being a mother? It is when they really did her best but it seems that her family can't appreciate it. We tend to misunderstand all of her good deeds because we thought that they only turns to be strict. We thought that our mother control us but in reality, they are only afraid that we did something that can harm us. Sometimes, we even shout on them. We tend to think that our mother is the villain and always oppose our wants but did you also asked yourself if you are being too much? Are you really the one who is suffering or it just that you didn't realize your mother's sacrifices ?They give us everything for us but we tend to take it for granted. We thought that it's their responsibility as being a mother without knowing that for them it's not an obligation but rather a genuine and pure love for us.

Even they are afraid that we gradually forget them as we create our own circle and dreams, they still supports us. Seeing us happy and contented is one of the satisfying this for them even the fact that sometimes their kids neglect them. Are you one of those mother who are afraid that your kids will leaves you once they grow up? That you can't hug and talked to him anymore because they are so busy in life. But I believe mothers have the most selfless heart. They are ready to catch all the bullet just to save their child. They are ready to suffer for a lifetime just to give the happiness of their child. They are willing to sacrifice even her own life just to let her kids experience how beautiful the life was.

One day is not enough for appreciating all of their efforts, sacrifices and hardships. No word can express how lucky we are for having a mother who give us everything. A mother is the first and the last man who can accept us without any judgement. We are the luckiest because we found the best place in their warm hugs. She is too far to be perfect but there are thousand of reasons why she is the best. There's nothing can defeat a mother's love. In this world where everything is uncertain, your love is the only assurance that I have. They treat you as a mother but I treat you as my world.

To all mother's out there,

Thank you for being our map when we don't know where the exact path should we take in. Thank you for being the light when we our day covers with darkness. Thank you for being patient even though we are a hardheaded most of the time. Thank you for staying our side through thick and thin. Thank you for being strong and teaching us on how to be a fighter. I just want to remind you that you also deserve to be happy. Even you have a flaws and commit a mistake that they can't fully understand, I just want to remind you that you are still worthy. On behalf of your children, I just want to say " You are the best Mom. I love you and please don't give up on us okay?".

Author's Message

It was supposed to be published on the exact day of Mother's day (May 8) but I choose to publish it now because I think we should appreciate our mothers everyday. Salute to all mothers out there. Thank you for giving us a wonderful life. And if you will read this one, can you do me a small favor? Can you hug your mother and express how much you love them. Because I can't do that personally because my Mom is too far from me so maybe, I only texted and let her read this article. And to all of my ate and mother here, let me give you a virtual warm hugs for being a great Mom. Advance Happy Mother's day po💐💐🤗

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