Having A Hard Time In Making Decision?

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Decision-making is one of the most important aspects of life, and for every choice, it involves making the right decision and it shapes us to point out who we are ourselves. Every choice that we make is going to impact our lives either in a bad or a good way. At some point, we will be faced with an option that will change our life forever, and just one choice that we choose can set a difference in our life and change it for the better( or worse). Our present choice today will impact how our life will play out in the future.

But how do you make good choices? How do you enhance your decision-making skills especially when you are being opposed to different choices?

Life is a series of choices that we make every single day, and this choice we make will affect us and those around us directly. You have to choose the choice that will give you purpose in life and will also show you the right direction. Try to visualize your choice and think of numerous scenarios that will happen if you chose one thing over the other. Sometimes there are no right or wrong decisions because both of these choices can teach you an enormous lesson in life so what you chose is just a matter of perspective, and the best reasonable choice is the one that you can visualize yourself in a good outcome.

I'm going to list out things that you will consider to prevent you from making the wrong choice in life if you are having a hard time making a decision.

1) Don't choose in a hurry: when taking a tough decision in life, and the situation of making the choices is more complicated than usual, it is better to scrutinize and think about all the choices in front of you. Take your time to gather all information needed for each of these choices if you are skeptical about it. Rushing into a huge decision can also put you into tension. But when you take your time to evaluate each of the choices before you, it also helps you to reduce the chances of being stress

2) Think about the positive outcome: when making a decision think about how it will play out and visualize your options if it shows a positive outcome in your mind. When you make the right decision, You'll make the right choice.

3) Don't make a choice that you know you will regret in the future: We do regret some choice we have made or will be making, instead of regretting, we should change our choice instead of choosing something that we think we will regret somehow, don't just think about what's good right now, think about the long term, make choices that will be important for you in the future. E.g, spending much money on your want instead of need, and after a time, you end up needing money to meet up for your need, thus, you end up regretting your purchase at a later time.

4) Take a choice and stick to them: You'll have to decide to stick with the choices that you select regardless of the challenges and occurrences that come with it because a decision is more like a commitment. But in a case that the choice you picked is not good at all, you don't have to regret it, instead learn from the mistakes, this will make you make a better choice the next time around and you'll be able to know which would be the right one for you.

5) Trust your intuition: You can always trust your gut in a condition wherein you need to make a quick choice, and you don't have the time to review your choice. If your gut is obliging you to opt for a direction, go for it because our instincts are much right than wrong most times. Trusting your instinct is like trusting yourself, so if you feel like you made the right choice, hence it's most likely than not.

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When we are taking any decision, we need to think of the pro and cons before finally settling for the good part that would lead us into the right path of life. Being in a haste to make a decision can really be disastrous in the end, so we have to be careful and think very well.

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1 year ago

You hit the nail bon it's head ma'am, if we should consider all this while making decisions, it will be very difficult to make a wrong choice..

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1 year ago

I have now decided that I should trust my intuition more when it comes to decision making. Oftentimes, when I don't follow it, I end up regretting.

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1 year ago

That's just the spirit, but at times too, our intuition might not work out, but no knowledge is a waste, we can still learn from our mistakes just like i said in point no 4

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1 year ago

Decision making sounds difficult but if you developed your intuition you'll be able to come up with good idea.

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1 year ago

I must say that our intuition work with others points listed above...

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1 year ago

One thing I've always benefited from is trusting my intuition. My intuition is just like the spiritual version of me that guides me to do things. And I've noticed that whenever I follow my intuition, I get a positive result

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1 year ago

That's just it, just in a situation where you're to make a quick decision, our intuition should guide us, and trust me , you'll never regret you follow your instincts...

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1 year ago

Trusting one's intuition matters during decision making and I agree with the others listed above. One should also make deep researches before venturing into anything.

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1 year ago

We don't have to do something because others do it and was successful, we have to think twice before we do anything, we think about the advantages and disadvantages of the choice we are going for...

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1 year ago

Yes that's right, what works for A might not be B's calling

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