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Did You Still Have To Hold On?

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5 months ago

As humans, we struggle for things that are vital to us, but there are some things we don't need to fight for it hold on to, because the more we hold on, the more it pained. You have to dismiss your grip on whatsoever that is holding you back if you want to want to be free. Think about a sinking boat, it is a result of the heavy load inside it, though there times those things will give you joy and it will make you feel relaxed, there's no way your boat will get to the land unless if you do away with those things. You don't have to hold on when your knuckles are thinking white.

Letting go is part of our journey in life, we have to learn it, if we are not happy with the situation we find ourselves why not let it and start a new phase instead of sticking to the things that will keep on hurting you? when you let go of all those things that are holding you back, it will bring your path closer to good things to come your way. Though it might look bumpy from the start, but it's a decision that you'll take and it will make you feel happy in the end. Letting go doesn't mean that those who hurt you are right. There's a great difference between letting go and giving up.

  • Giving up means you are tired and you don't have the power to continue with what you're doing, Due to some failed attempt.

  • letting go doesn't mean you are weak, you make the decision to cut things that are holding you back, and you fight hard to put things right, it might be in your relationship or any life affairs but you have to know when to resist. Letting go comes from a stance of strength.

At the moment of letting you, you might be asking yourself if what you are about to do is right or wrong, take a moment to ask yourself, did I feel bad more than I feel good? , if yes, you don't have to hang on to things that are hurting you, you have to look for your happiness, You're trying not to hurt other people's feelings, but you're bleeding inside, stop it, it does not worth it. Even when people are telling you to hold tighter. If you're thinking of what people will say or do, you'll not let go, some people are having problems with you moving on, maybe because you are about to do what they are afraid of doing. They'll give you thousands of reasons why you can't move on, but you don't have to think about them, give yourself thousands of reasons why you need to move.

letting go might not be very easy, but in the end, you'll get to realize how good your brave move was. There's no need of fighting for what is not fighting to keep you, new possibilities are waiting for you if you're ready you make yourself open to them. having to let go of things is very important in life, might be painful, but the result is always sweet and you'll never regret what you did. So feeling the pain in the process is normal, it's good to cry, just turn on your music and let it go.

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Letting go is the one of the painful part, because memories and past are the difficult thing to walk away to, time heals but surely the healing process take so long and agonizing but for what it's worth, one day you found yourself not affected anymore and just live your life again without hurting.

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5 months ago

Yeah, it can be so painful, we just have to find the time to heal . We don't need to stick to things for so long when we are not getting what we want.... it's is better to let go and work towards achieving new things. Thanks for stopping by.

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5 months ago

letting go means the antitheses of a weak as a human being. anyways, loved your content! keep it up, frenny!

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5 months ago

thanks for your contribution 🤗

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5 months ago

It is hard to let go of a person too especially if you have invested so much time, love, and effort for a long time. But it would be harder if we stay even if it's not worth it anymore.

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5 months ago

You are on point! you might love the person so we'll, and you have given the person all you've got, but when the table turns around, and you've try all you can do to make everything stand firm , if it's not working .. we should let's go, though might be difficult, but we just have to do it.

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Letting go is never giving up but embracing newer things and change to come, it means taking a huge step forward... I believe most times we are too scared to move on but even in the same process a lot of things go on in our minds... I love the outline, one thing I struggle with right now is knowing when to quit on something, if it holds one back move on...

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5 months ago

Life still has a lot of beautiful things in store for us if and only if we are ready to move on. Just like the case of being in a relationship, you're always trying your best to make sure things are working out fine, but the person you're trying to change I not even ready to change..it's a heavy burden on its own, you'll always feel the weight of the burden, and you'll not be free unless you do away with the burden. you'll always be sad about it. The situation might even affect you emotionally, mentally, and physically....instead of holding on to things that are killing you inside..why not let go, instead of hanging on?

Though they say love is blind to all blind things, but not at the expense of affecting your happiness. when you struggle to put things right if there are no traces of any change, it is better to move on with new opportunities, we don't have to be sacred. Though not only in relationships but in other areas of life.

Thanks for your contribution, and for stopping by.

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5 months ago

Things that we think are holding us back should be let go immediately without thinking twice. We should move on without having any kind of regret for it cos we are taking a great step toward success after letting go.

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5 months ago

That's nothing but the truth, why Did you still need to hold on when sinking? it is better to do away with things that will bring us down , then move on with life.. Thanks for stopping by.

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