Hello my lovely readers, I believe you are all doing great. In a couple of days, I came across an article written by @JonicaBradley and it is all about love, it's an interesting article you'll love to read, I decided to participate in the prompt word which is love.
There are different types of love but the one I'll be talking about Is passionate love, the love that tends to be common at the outset of a relationship.
The majority of people believe that true love does not exist due to some scenarios they have seen or experienced but there is still true love somewhere that can last for a lifetime.
My understanding about love...
Love is something to a verb to be acted upon, it requires action to strive. We spend most of our time thinking about how our partners feel about us often, worrying about what the relationship looks like outside. To be loved by someone else makes you to feel good, but the truth is that we can only feel our love for another person and not the person's feelings for us, but we have to take actions that are loving for us to bind with and strengthen those loving feelings within us, otherwise, we may be living in fantasy.
We have to accept that in any relationship, we must accept that we only have true control of ourselves in relationships because at times, it may feel frustrating. we took charge of the dynamic ourselves, hence we choose what we want in our relationship, either to engage in destructive behavior or to create an intimacy and action that expresses feelings of love, respect affection and to be compassion.
There are some things we must understand about passionate love...
1) one of the things to consider in a loving relationship is non-defensiveness and openness, they must be ready to hear feedback from each other with discouragement. They are to look for the heart of truth in what their partner is saying. Otherwise, we may be pursuing our partner without realizing it. Even if we don't agree with their motion, we should always try to listen to our partners, because it will make them feel heard, seen, and cared about. Not listening to them makes them feel the other way round and might shut down communication between them.
2) They must not close their heart to new experiences, being open to trying something new will make their relationship flourish, we can try to visit new places, sharing new activities, these routines often puff new life in having a loving relationship.
3) Any form of deception and duplicity kills a relationship gradually. A loving relationship entails honesty and integrity. When are not honest with our partners, there will be a great detriment in the relationship. Learning how to trust our partners can be done through honesty.
4) Respecting each other boundaries, priorities, and goals is a means of avoiding fantasy bonds in a relationship. There are cases where two partners tend to play into power dynamics, telling each other what to do or how to act without minding if they are okay with the decision. individual priority and goals should count.
5) Physical affection and personal sexuality must be considered. To find a love affection is a considerable part of how to express love, cutting ourselves out off to our feelings tends to deaden the relationship. Sexuality can become impersonal which makes both partners feel more distant or satisfied. We must always try to stay in touch with our partners and should be willing to give and receive affection if we want to keep our love alive.
6) It can be very easy to misunderstand things our partner is saying, and this tends to make them feel hurt. We get stuck in our own point of view with seeing things from the other person's perspective. This will make them to be two different people with two masterminds. Hence, it is important we understand our partner from a clear point of view. They are likely to see our perspective when they feel seen and understood.
Love is sweet when two like-minded people meet, and everyone wants someone who does not make them feel better alone but wants to make us to be better and always ready to support each other goals.
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the fact that love is only seen as a satisfaction to fulfill the desire between a man and a woman because a lot of love has deviated in the same case infidelity occurs because love is only seen as an inner desire to feel how attractive someone is.