My money, my rules. I hope you don't mind.

Someone should not impose anything on others. But I don't know what to comment here. Every family wants their son's wife to keep pace with their ideology but they forget their son's wife a personality. They forget their son is not married yet. I have a question for you, is it fair to take something in front of the child that he is not allowed to take?

Still the best plan is once married.. bukod. But since hindi pa married... Pede ka pa mag isip isip ... Parang napa "forever hold your peace" ka bigla sa scenario niyo sis.

Luh, bakit naman ganyan yung mga in-laws mo mareng parang gusto ka atang kontroladohin hays. Pag ako yan eh alis na lang ako kasama bf ko, don nalang manirahan ulit sa bahay niyo with your parents mas maganda pa. Btw, ano...parang alam ko na rason hehe. Pero ayaw kita pangunahan baka mali ako marengs.

Btw. Gawin mo parin ang gusto mong gawin ikaw parin naman masusunod sa buhay mo eh, malaya kang gawin ang desisyon mo sa buhay at nakakapag pasaya sayo. Hayaan mo sila.

It is quite normal to have such problems with the people you share the house with. If you don't want this to happen and you want to freely do what you want, there is only one way around, to stay in your own home. I understand your reservations about online shopping, but this is how you can get around it. You can use the sites by focusing on popular shopping and customer satisfaction. I do most of my shopping online and have never had a problem. Ah, sorry, I have a problem. I bought 4 pairs of shoes, I received 3 pairs, I did not receive the last shoes. I messaged the seller online, he told me it is out of stock, will ship asap. Why are you selling the product that is out of stock to him? I said I wanted to cancel my order. He canceled and returned the money to my account in 5 minutes. Instead of 4 pairs, I bought 3 pairs of shoes. But after a few days, 2 more pairs of shoes arrived. It was the same as when I placed an order and canceled it. I hadn't paid for it and 2 extra pairs of shoes. I couldn't believe it so I wrote to the seller again. He still hasn't returned. The shoes are waiting, if he returns, I will deliver, if not, I will wear them.

That's one of the reason why I don't like to live with inlaws. Since day one, I and my oartner looked for a house where we can move freely without any dictation of others. I believe, in a home there should only one king and queen. And for me, I want to be the queen of the house when I got married. I know it will be hard to be in your own especially if you both were not ready. Tha is why, you both should do things to make you walk on your own to have peace of mind. I myself together with my partner live away from our inlwas with only 3, 000 pesos on our pocket. Hahaha I still remember how hard it was for us since he's still not a regular teacher that time. But look at us now, we both made it and we have the peace of mind living alone in our ented house.

Laban lang memsh. Don't stress out. I pray for you and your partner to have a good future.

Parang hirap nilang pakisamahan para ako yung natakot sa kanila hehe

Hay Sissy. Sa true lang ha, nakakainis yung ganyang ugali nila. Buti ka nga kaya magtiis, sana nga makabukod na talaga kayo Sis. Kung ano man reason na need nyo pa mag stay, sana ma okay na.

Kaurat Naman. Hindi kaba nagdadalawang isip na makatuluyan jowa mo kapag ganyan magiging byenan mo?

Girl.............. I'm married and I cannot escape, but YOU CAN....be wise.... they seem absolutely not be worth it... I beg you, please leave him... you do not deserve the trauma becuse it will only get worse once you get official into their house.. i wouldn't be surprised even if they take ur money away from u.. I fI were you, I would dump his ass, and he can go right into his Mom's lap and live there permanently.. BE WISE

Hayy naku teacher, bakit ganyan inlaws mo? Well you did the right thing just ignore and respect them as usual, they are your elders too in the future. I really think that your BF is also in the hot seat in times they shown you the hot spot. Keep praying that they will see your worth in the future. Maybe they just testing you

Kalisud ba aning sitwasyona mamsh uy. Hopefully, you can get out there na if kaya na. Huuuugs! 🥰 Lisud gyud bitaw if dili atong kaugalingon balay sad gud. Pero laban.

It's funny how she already wants you to live the way things are done.... I guess she wants the best and at the same time not letting have your free will. Sorry dear, whatever you feel you need nobody should stop you, it's your money.

I respect this types of mentality. Declaring a specific version of your straight forward nature will help you a lot. Well said dear. Nobody would mind.

In my tribe, they say once you are married to someone, you are married to everyone in the family, so your ways of living would be different from theirs because they would want you to do their biddings and not yours. Since you are still living with them, you don't have a choice than to succumb to their request 😣 sorry but it's reality. Unless you and your guy would rent an apartment somewhere from them, that is when you would be free to do what you want.

Kalisud ba ana mem. Ako bitaw, kung naa koy ganahan paliton labi na ug personal nga gamit, I made sure nga akong kwarta akong gamito para wala silay maistorya. Maayu na lang kay dili man pud sila manglabot.

Bitaw, mas maayu jud ug maglain mem. Kapoy ng naa kay kasumpaki. Pero karun kay wala paman tay mahimo, antus-antus sa lamang ta. Puhon makalingkawas ra ka kung makabalhin na ka mem.

Ganyan talaga po basta hindi mo kadugo, pero may iba naman kahit hindi mo kadugo tinuturing pamilya. Laban ka lang , hirap ng situwasyon na ganyan.

Uhm. Bakit nila pinakekealaman yung dami ng damit mo? Gorl, we live with my in-laws but they're not like that. Looking forward to the article where you share with us why you're putting up with them. Ang tibay ng loob mo sis. Hugs.

Living with inlaws isn't all a bad idea bit some inlaws can be a thorn in your flesh.

Bat feeling ko di nila matake presence mo sa bahay nila kaya ganyan trato sayo? Buti natetake mo pa ano? If ako yan layas na talaga ako at uuwi sa nanay ko. Kahit pa any kapalit ee nag hiwalay kami. Masyado sila maano ee! Hmppt!!

Looks like someone ruffled your feathers ;) but you are right, it's your decision what you do with your money. The only online shopping I do these days are SmartBCH tokens 😅

Aww sissy virtual hug to you🤗 I think I have a hint on what you are going to tell us in the future. Am I right or am I wrong? Only you can tell. Anyways you rant all you want here and we are always here to listen😍

Nahh, mao jud pud na'y nakaapan lagi Mamsh uie. Kanang but.an tas atung gusto. Dili man sa ingon gud unta nga naghinambug ta or unsa kay lagi hinagu.an nato, pero kana pud lagi untang masabtan pud ta ba nga, way rapud lagi unta para i treat atung kaugalingon.

Aguyy.. Hahayy buhay parang Life! 😅🤦🤷

Why do you need to live with his family? Are you guys settling down? It's really hard to deal with people who have different preferences from you.

In this part of the earth I live, if you're married, you belong to many not just to your husband. It's a must to learn how to curtail others, otherwise troubles will pop out. Aside marriage, it's applicable to the general world, you must learn how to accept people's access(sometimes though) otherwise you'd look troublesome. What am I saying? 😂😂😂😂

Maybe the mom wants to eat the siomai and fries too. You should share the foods with her next time and see if she likes it. Hahaha