Some people just act like they are trying to help you

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Date: 16th June, 2022
Thursday

Clicked on the internet connection. Clicked on the app. It's loading and finally it opened. Finally, the door has been open where I live, breathe, talk & share. Hello people! Did you miss me? Absolutely right, I was taking off my time and now I have come back to visit you again. For the last 3 days I was going through some rough spaces. So I was unable to post something here. But that doesn’t mean that I forgot you all. Here I am back in your life. Hold my coffee mug. Allow me to reintroduce myself. I am your Desired Devil, your host Lucifer.

Last 3 days, I literally did many things which were necessary for my practical life. Well, I'm not discussing those all but yes, I will definitely tell you some issues or I must say important topic of human nature. It’s about people's helping mentality. Because some people just act like they are trying to help you. In reality, they are only pretending to do so, their hearts have no intention to do so. Yes, that's our topic today. So hold tight as we are going to discuss about it. Give me back my coffee mug please.

I was working day on a land issue of my family. Some paper works. It sounds easier but to be honest it is not that easy as you think. If anyone had done this before, will understand my problems. Paper works are important in buying and selling properties. You need to check and double check all the papers if they are truly updated or stated the legality of that land. It is not that easy task because to ensure that you need to run from one office to another. This papers are related to government registrar office. Do I need to say how hectic is this work? I hope you know that. In my case, I was not buying or selling things but yes, I was paying my land taxes and upgrading the stats. This is simple comparing buy or sell process. But I faced the heat of that work too.

You need proper people to work on it who can actually help you on this matter. They demand extra charge for this work. I was not that confident about this matter and thought that I would solve it by myself. That was the start of problems. Everytime I submitted my papers, there were some problems in it. I was not feeling ok. Some of my cousins are related with this job. So I called them and asked for help. This was my second and last wrong decision. They assured me to help me but they didn’t. I expected more from them but they show that much responsibility. This one made me upset because somehow they are involved in all these. They couldn’t ask me for money directly but whenever I called them, they showed some serious responsible words about my work. It felt like they were just acting.

Never mind, I had completed the paper works finally. But it also taught me some wise lessons. In our life, we will definitely meet some people who pretends like they are helping us a lot or ready to do whatever we want but actually those people are just showing off. You, me, we all are used to with it. Different countries, different types of people but the nature is same. The behave the same vibe. At first we trust them blindly but slowly we understand that they are playing with our emotions. This is so humiliating situation.

So my dear friends, beware of them. In every cases, you will find such people. Before taking any decisions or depending on someone please recheck the facts that if he/she is really helping hand or just waste of time. Because in the end, it is you who will suffer. Do not allow people who pretends and mimics as your best friend. Stay away from them.


Again I'm sorry as I was not active here. I hope you amazing people will understand.

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I've been there too, having some relatives who shows they care but really don't and if the time of the confrontation comes they'll blame you for complaining

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2 years ago

Awareness to these kind of people, I've encountered people like these like they show me like they are helping me but it turns out they aren't, so yeah I really avoid people and I'm not the one to ask for their help unless I'm much in need of it.

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2 years ago

Not everyone that act like the love us or wants to help us really mean it. Most a time they do it for their own selfish interest. I rather do things with a total stranger if I discover that my family people will not do me any good.

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2 years ago

The people we think are helping us actually want our bad

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2 years ago

I don't feel good when I think of paperwork, there are always problems so that I fully understand you, I didn't know that it was the same in your country. I learned a long time ago to stay away from people who pretend to want to help, I always try to finish everything myself and then I am calm.

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2 years ago

Not only in the family had people.like that,its everywhere so we really need to be cautious.

As for the processing it is not really to deal with Sometimes you even need to pay under the stable

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2 years ago

There are a lot of people like that now Luci. We should be aware to their kind really.

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2 years ago

Most people are full of pretense, they will pretend as if they are coming to help you, but in the other way round they are coming to take something from you.

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2 years ago

Finally I also made my mind to come back after one month..lol Its true some people only pretend to be our well wishers. That's good you completed your paper work.

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2 years ago

No doubt we missed you and your content brother. Welcome back with modern issue of people's life. Yeah some people only pretend to help us but they didn't want in reality.

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2 years ago

I have these kinds of people. The same kind of people who wants to be credited for the work they didn't do. As much as possible, I stay away from them.

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2 years ago

you are 100% right.

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2 years ago

This reminds me of that "ladder" meme on FB that I have seen years before... His friend would be in deep pit and the friend be trying to help... The person inside the hole cannot see the fact that the friend above is actually having a big ladder for him to help but he hid it and just trying to extend his hands as if he's trying to help but not actualy doing it... These kind of people scare me.. who needs enemies when we have people like this around

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2 years ago

Such "helping" people, even by putting a ladder into a hole, manage to get through the head of the person in need. Help given from the heart is accepted with a light heart.

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2 years ago

This is one of the reasons why I don't have that much friends. I wanted to surround myself with people who truly care for me.

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2 years ago

Yes lots of people in this world who shows they are good and want to help you. But I want to say them if you like to do act than please go to media and do acting.

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2 years ago

That's hilarious

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2 years ago

I so feel you dear friend, Luci. I am back after 3 days now. I am always beating time. I wish I could have the freedom of time. I cannot serve two masters at the same time so I just chose to prioritize things. I miss you my dear friend devil.

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2 years ago

You were absent too. I saw you. It’s good to be back here. Big hug dear. Missed you too.

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2 years ago

True dear Luci, usually they are the person who act good and wanted to be our friends yet they are planning something behind our back.

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2 years ago

I agree.

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2 years ago