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Shiny morning and I am here with you people. You all are looking great. Just knew that some people have difficulties in life because of sickness. We should better pray for them. Well, I hope you are all well. So better we should proceed to our today's topic. Let your host, Lucifer take you to a ride. Shall we?
Before starting today's topic, here is a disclaimer. I must say that I am not that person who supports any types of quarrelling or chaos. Whether it's for good reason or bad reason, I don't support it. Ok, now coming to the point. We often see someone shouting on a person. Common incident I know but here is a fact about it.
When you scream or shout at someone, you just make that person feel annoyed or embarrassed. Passersby looks and witness this one. Familiar, right? Happened with you? Yeah, we all had this type of experience at least once in a life time. But the situation can be different. One can make his point valid if he tries to make that person understand by simply defining it rather than making a situation really embarrassing.
Maybe you owe some money from someone. Maybe someone betrayed you. I understand your feelings. But you gave you the authority to make that person embarrass in public. Have you ever imagined how that person feels? What will you do if this same thing happens with you? Dear, the earth is somehow round and we all know history repeats itself. Maybe tomorrow or 20 years later you will face the same consequences. What will be your plan then? Ever imagined?
Well dear, I am not telling you that you have no right to be angry on that person who cheated you, betrayed you with money or even in love. You have rights. I agree. But your rage will definitely burn more than you can imagine. That rage will spread from you to that person and he/she will try to figure out a way to the same with you.
My dear, please don't shout in public. We all have our own respects in this society. Even a beggar deserves his own respect from others. You just can't take that from them. Self respect is something which we do care much. Sorry to say this but a lots of people, especially the women commit suicide for this self respect. We all know the reason and as a man I personally feel ashamed for the reason..... I'm sorry. I have gone a little bit off track. Back to the point, we should be aware of other's self respects too.
Valid & important question. So if we choose not to embarrass people in public, then how we have our owed things back? Well, we should make them feel the situation of us. We should make them understand about our aspects. But not with hatred. We can call them in our office or in such a place where public gathering are less to compare. Just sit together. But don't start to argue at first. Ask them gently. Listen to them at first. Understand their current situation. Maybe your anger, your rage, your intention of taking revenge will calm down. Then after sometime, tell them about your situations. Try to make them understand with normal voice. Never, I repeat never try to outspoken them with your high voice. Go smoothly. Be easy with them.
Your smooth behaviour and easy words will create an impact on them. The person will understand your words and even the people around you will praise you. Definitely the person will try his/her best to end the demand. See, how easily it can be solved.
Dear friends, spread love. This is life. We will not have it again. Why should we spread hate? Make people happy. Your personality & beautiful gesture will change the attitude of that person whom you owed.
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