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Don't Embarrass People In Public

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Date: September 23, 2021
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Shiny morning and I am here with you people. You all are looking great. Just knew that some people have difficulties in life because of sickness. We should better pray for them. Well, I hope you are all well. So better we should proceed to our today's topic. Let your host, Lucifer take you to a ride. Shall we?

Topic: Don't Embarrass People In Public

Before starting today's topic, here is a disclaimer. I must say that I am not that person who supports any types of quarrelling or chaos. Whether it's for good reason or bad reason, I don't support it. Ok, now coming to the point. We often see someone shouting on a person. Common incident I know but here is a fact about it.

When you scream or shout at someone, you just make that person feel annoyed or embarrassed. Passersby looks and witness this one. Familiar, right? Happened with you? Yeah, we all had this type of experience at least once in a life time. But the situation can be different. One can make his point valid if he tries to make that person understand by simply defining it rather than making a situation really embarrassing.

Maybe you owe some money from someone. Maybe someone betrayed you. I understand your feelings. But you gave you the authority to make that person embarrass in public. Have you ever imagined how that person feels? What will you do if this same thing happens with you? Dear, the earth is somehow round and we all know history repeats itself. Maybe tomorrow or 20 years later you will face the same consequences. What will be your plan then? Ever imagined?

Make People Understand Your Situation

Well dear, I am not telling you that you have no right to be angry on that person who cheated you, betrayed you with money or even in love. You have rights. I agree. But your rage will definitely burn more than you can imagine. That rage will spread from you to that person and he/she will try to figure out a way to the same with you.

My dear, please don't shout in public. We all have our own respects in this society. Even a beggar deserves his own respect from others. You just can't take that from them. Self respect is something which we do care much. Sorry to say this but a lots of people, especially the women commit suicide for this self respect. We all know the reason and as a man I personally feel ashamed for the reason..... I'm sorry. I have gone a little bit off track. Back to the point, we should be aware of other's self respects too.

What To Do Then?

Valid & important question. So if we choose not to embarrass people in public, then how we have our owed things back? Well, we should make them feel the situation of us. We should make them understand about our aspects. But not with hatred. We can call them in our office or in such a place where public gathering are less to compare. Just sit together. But don't start to argue at first. Ask them gently. Listen to them at first. Understand their current situation. Maybe your anger, your rage, your intention of taking revenge will calm down. Then after sometime, tell them about your situations. Try to make them understand with normal voice. Never, I repeat never try to outspoken them with your high voice. Go smoothly. Be easy with them.

Spread Love, Not Hate

Your smooth behaviour and easy words will create an impact on them. The person will understand your words and even the people around you will praise you. Definitely the person will try his/her best to end the demand. See, how easily it can be solved.

Dear friends, spread love. This is life. We will not have it again. Why should we spread hate? Make people happy. Your personality & beautiful gesture will change the attitude of that person whom you owed.

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Thanks for reading my post. Stay blessed.

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People who shout are vulnerable. They are powered by emotions. At some point, they might end regretful of the words that came out from their mouth.

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3 weeks ago

Yes. In the end they just feel guilty.

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3 weeks ago

Things can be fixed easily when both parties have respect to each other's. There's no point on shouting to someone or humilating them. People might think that if they're shouting or saying words loudly they think they're cool but I mostly look down to people who's humilating someone

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3 weeks ago

Precious words are spoken by you. And I do appreciate your words. Humiliating someone is not cool. Everyone has self respect.

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3 weeks ago

I believe that when you embarrass someone in public you lose too. The other person will feel humiliated but we won't be in a better position either. We can always choose to wait for the right moment to express our anger.

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3 weeks ago

Yes dear. We lose too. But people don’t stop doing this.

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3 weeks ago

Yes, I always love your article. It always made my day. Keep writing and motivating us :)

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3 weeks ago

I'm really honoured. Thanks a lot sweetie.

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3 weeks ago

Can't imagine the situation. Hey, remember yesterday? That guy with blue shirt? Oh dear, he was so loud at that girl. Remember?

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3 weeks ago

You remembered? The concept is the outcome of that incident. I was very upset that day. I thought you didn’t noticed.

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3 weeks ago

I did brother. I know about your concern. Thanks.

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3 weeks ago

It's all about respect. I even have this kind of neighbors and it doesn't make our environment healthy. Just I'm thinking that if they know how to respect themself then for sure they will not do bad things like this.

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3 weeks ago

Oh dear, sorry about that. Society would be different if they had learnt actual human behaviour.

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3 weeks ago

Es, I had experienced this many times when I am with my dad. I also think so that this is not good because this is human nature het go to depression through this.

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3 weeks ago

I'm so sorry. I didn’t want to remind you your past.

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3 weeks ago

Public humiliation or public shaming or embarrassing people is a form of punishment whose main feature is dishonoring or disgracing a person, it can really hurt them emotionally

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3 weeks ago

I do agree with you. I really feel upset for them.

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3 weeks ago

Every man must be respected.You mentioned something very important today. When people are made small in front of people, it becomes a very bad thing.

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3 weeks ago

What on earth.... Yeah, it's true. Probably most people knew about it but still deny.

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