Make Your Moments Matter
Date: March 22, 2022 (Tuesday)
Try to look back on the days you spent lately, how was it? Was there a moment where you feel so special and you think it's one of the best days of your life? Was there an event lately that made you laugh so hard? Did you encountered something jawdropping the past days?
As of the moment, you may be trying to reflect on those questions. You may be trying to look back on how you spent each of those days. You might be in your room right now looking at the ceiling imagining how things went lately. Howbeit, as you try to extract your experiences, you can't dig a moment where you feel special. You can't recall a time where you laugh so hard. You don't remember any moment where you experience something jawdropping from one of these days.
Not to mention, all that you can think of are the stressful tasks that you did lately. All you can think of are the negativity that your work has brought in your mind. All you could think of are the tiring moments that you have experienced. With that, your mind might be preoccupied with all the stressors at work that you can't see a wonderful moment to remember. You feel like the days that you spent so far were nothing but another mundane day.
As you realized that your days were not that great. You start to feel pity about yourself. You start to feel down that things were not so great lately. You feel so unlucky how dull your world is. You feel like the world is against you. Then the three letter word will start to creep inside your mind. A lot of "why's" will roam around your mind:
Why do other people are so blessed and I'm not?
Why do I feel so left out?
Why do I feel like my moments are not the best?
With that, you started to have a lot of questions in mind that make you pity yourself even more. You thought of nothing but the moments you feel hopeless. You start to compare yourself to other people with the blessings they have received and you felt helpless. For you, life seems to be sad and tiring. Nothing good is happening and you can't wait for that time that a moment will shake your day and change the gloomy clouds that it surrounds.
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Fret Not, My Friend: Make Your Moments Matter
You see, it's inevitable to feel down thinking that nothing's going on special with your days lately. It's inevitable to be sad and to feel like you have dull days. Howbeit, even on those days you there are a lot of things worth celebrating about that you often take for granted. There are little things creeping in the corner that added a special feeling in your heart, but you disregard as you allow the negativity to roam our mind and nothing else. You choose the path towards the dim light than looking at the bright side.
You see, even in your mundane day, there are still little things that you can celebrate about.
The thought of waking up in the morning with a wonderful weather on your side.
How about your morning coffee added a positive effect in your mood.
Even the view of the surrounding as you go to work makes your heart warms.
Of course, your co-workers that you were able to talk with and sharing good topics together.
And even, the favorite food you order jjst arrived and you're so happy.
You see, there are random moments in your life these days that once make your heart smile, but you choose to oversee the ones that make you down. Howbeit, you should also remind yourself that even those dim moments are worth celebrating. Even the darkest path that you've been can give light in your path. Even the littlest details of it can turn into positive in no time. Just learn to be grateful for them.
Learn to be grateful for the days that God has given you. Learn to embrace the moments that you are given no matter what experiences they hold: be it good or bad. Learn to see the positivity beyond those tiring and dull moments, as beyond those coat lies what you need to be equipped about. Above all, learn to be grateful for everything that happens in your life and make those moments matter. Because at the end of the day, you are the one who choose what path you want to take: it's either you soak yourself to being grumpy or you'll choose a much better path worth celebrating.
Closing Thoughts
It's true that it's so easy to make our moments look dull by not appreciating it. However, if we learn to see the positivity that ever moment has brought into our lives, and if we learn to be grateful, these moments that we have no matter what it is will make us embrace that they matter. It's still a different feeling to embrace what life has made you experience no matter what it it. Again, make your moments matter.
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Anyway, my schedule's pretty hectic lately. I was in hiatus for posting, but glad that I'm back. I can't wait to roam around again and read some of your wonderful thoughts shared.
Amazing moment that could help us to evaluate more life. This could be my thing sometimes looking back the past that am I progressing, am I doing mistake, am I great.. There are many questions on my mind by staring in the nowhere or just staring the ceiling. Having this momentum is very helpful to our being.