The Dangers of being a Woman on this Planet !!!

Do you notice that most of the problems of violence are against women? Why do women always rank lower? Why are they always the victims? Why women's voice is not heard and their pain permissible?

I woke up in the morning and it was a normal day and I didn't think about all these things until I read the article of The Devil @Lucifer01 ! This is how I began the morning, with every line I read a flame of anger burned inside me. I couldn't take it any longer, and there is nothing better than writing to express this anger. I read about 3 stories in which women were abused and their rights to a normal and dignified life were robbed. The first robbed the right of expression, the second was wronged and her bear had nothing to do with the subject, and the third was a child whose virginity was violated and she was brutally murdered and thrown into a pond!! I feel disgusted when I think of the extent sensuality and disgust of those who do such things. It can't be human it's an animal! Hey wait I'm insulting animals like this! I have not heard of an animal that killed its brother. I have not heard of an animal that abused its children. Well, a human title has become worse than an animal title. Animals work together as a herd, but humans within the same family eat each other's flesh

I read three incidents involving women victims, and I was overwhelmed with this feeling of anger and sadness. But how many other stories have we not heard about? How many girls are beaten and keep silent and those who take their right are not scorned? How many girls are deprived of education and their whole life to go to a husband who may or may not mistreat her? How many girls are harassed daily? How many girls were raped and killed and no one moved? Is the solution to imprison girls at home under the pretext of protecting them? Girls are deprived of education and going to school under the pretext of protecting them! Deprived of work under the pretext of protection! Deprived of going out and strolling freely under the pretext of protection! She is forbidden to wear anything she wants under the pretext of protecting her!!! Is this really protecting girls? Is this the correct way? That girls remain afraid, imprisoned and deprived of many of their rights just because there is a male savage outside waiting for any girl he hints to abuse her? Abuse is not only by beating, but by dirty looks or by touching or suggesting. All this just because they were born girls!

This is neither a correct nor an acceptable solution. We are in the twenty-first century and girls are still up for grabs. I completely reject the idea that males are better than females. A person should never be evaluated on the basis of his gender. The difference between a male XY and female XX is this Y chromosome that controls shape and hormones only, but it does not determine the ability of each to accomplish something, nor determine his intelligence or his success. Most importantly, it does not specify its rights and capabilities! So why assume that the male is better? In the past, because the male was working and earning money, they thought it was better because he went out and faced life, but the female would stay at home and take care of its cleanliness and her children. They were silencing the women under the pretext that the man works outside the house. But now what? Women work outside the house like men, and even return from work as tired as men, but the difference is that the man comes home from work to want his food ready in front of him and sits in front of the TV or sleeps a little to rest and then comes back in the evening wanting a cup of coffee or tea to watch more TV or To go out with his friends.

As for the female, she returns from work, to prepare food, feed her husband and children, then clean the dishes, then teach her children their homework, clean and arrange the house, then prepare dinner or some tea and sweets to come back and do the cleaning and then in the evening when she arrives exhausted to bed, the husband who spent the second half of the day comfortable on the couch, he demands his marital rights ! without regard to her feelings or desires. If she refuses, she is remiss and does not love him. But he forgets that the time he spent sleeping and resting, she was also spending with work and caring for the children and the house. Now tell me, isn't the female now better than the man and taking on greater responsibilities and progressing more! So why this bad treatment and inferiority look?

Let us proceed assuming that the man is better, and this is only an assumption. They say a man is better than a woman in controlling his feelings, and he is smarter and has a better ability to control himself.. Really! So why can't this perfect superior being control his instincts when he sees a girl! Instead of depriving girls of their rights and hiding them in the house and behind the clothes, why don't they teach men to control their instincts and control themselves? Are they brainless and controlled by their instincts? I think that animals follow their instincts and do not have a brain to use, so they are put in a cage? Why do we do the opposite? Punish the victim under the pretext of protecting her? Instead of punishing the offender and teaching him morals and respect? Is the planet really no longer a safe place for women? Where to go? The problem is not with us. It is on the other side. Why should we pay the price? Is this justice?

There is another important thing, which is the men who claim that they support women and demand their rights lol. They are really with the freedom of women. Yes, he encourages his female co-worker to advance and tell his girlfriend that she has the freedom of opinion in choosing her husband and living the experience of love. But when it comes to his mother, sister or daughter, he turns to this strict man who rejects these manifestations of liberation and considers them unacceptable. This double standard is also disgusting and does not make you a gentleman. If you want to be a liberal and civilized gentleman, you have to start with your family members and the women who belong to you. Do not go to strangers to impress them or to get specific thing from them.

The issue of women's rights has been a topic that has been discussed for ages, and I do not deny the tremendous progress that has taken place, but I denounce the idea of ​​this enormous discrimination between women and men, and I do not understand who started it and how women acquiesced to it before. But I am happy with all the progress and rights that women have reclaimed. But unfortunately, many women still suffer in silence. We write here and talk about them, but in the end, this is a little influence. More must be done. These are lives that are robbed and humiliated. A woman shouldn't be humiliated even with a look. I believe that we will reach that time when all manifestations of discrimination between men and women will be abolished, but I hope we will reach quickly because there are hundreds and thousands of lives that pay the price on the way to reach.

I did not arrange my words nor my thoughts, but they are all words that were in my head and I wanted to express them, and I could not find the right place for that. I want to thank @readcash for giving me this opportunity to write articles in support of human rights and women. I want to thank you too for following and reading my articles, I hope I will not disappoint you.

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