Don't dim your light because someone complained about how bright you shine.

In life you will achieve many successes on different levels, every time you achieve success there will be a row of fans applauding you, but in return there will be people who hate your success, upset about your achievement and distiour successes are the light that makes you shine, and there are people who are upset by your brilliance and will resent your brilliance.

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As I was saying, in every success you achieve, there will be negative comments, people who reject the idea that you are a successful and distinguished person will do anything to frustrate you and drag you down..

Some people are blinded by their hatred, perhaps not for a personal reason, but they are like this with everyone, they do not support the successful and do not raise the morale, all they do is spread negative energy and try to frustrate every successful person, frustrate every person trying to do something new and special.

They rejected the idea of ​​Shine because they couldn't do something special like you, so they try to drag you to their bottom, unfortunately, these people are widely spread in our society, the idea of ​​​​being a successful and distinguished person and not receiving the support you were waiting for or appreciation, will certainly lower your morale and may push you to withdraw and surrender. All you try to do is be a special and successful person, but all you receive is criticism and negative comments. The mistake is not from you, because your surroundings reject the existence of successful and distinguished people.

You can measure this to anything in life, your co-workers who don't want us to be more special than them, your friends at school, your neighbor who doesn't want you to be a better mother, your house cleaner than hers, or your food better than hers.

your glow will be hard for some people to watch, Glow Anyway !

I remember when I was in school, I was a very energetic and hardworking student, and I liked to excel. I was always impulsive to answer every time the teacher asked a question, I would raise my hand excitedly to answer and eagerly wait for the teacher to choose me for the answer. And when I was answering correctly, the teacher would give me some words of praise, it was a good feeling of satisfaction, the teacher loved me and distinguished me, I was really distinguished, but when I was looking at the faces of my colleagues after several questions I answered correctly, their faces were not happy for me, it seemed Annoyed by the teacher's preference or praise for me.

I thought I was doing something wrong, or answering questions and engaging with the teacher too much, or I wanted my colleagues to get annoyed with me or hate me because of this distinction, so the next day I stopped sharing with the teacher, I stopped raising my hand to answer the questions, I just sat down Waiting for someone else to answer. I did not interact with the teacher's questions and his attempts to push me to participate and answer some questions as usual.

At the end of the work, the teacher called me to the teachers’ room, and asked me if there was something bad that happened to me at home or at school that made me lose my enthusiasm, he asked me to share with him and tell him what happened and what changed me like this? After several attempts I told him! I told him that my repeated answers to questions left a frown on the face of my colleagues and I did not want them to hate me.

The teacher told me a sentence I will never forget for the rest of my life, he told me, your glow will be hard for some people to watch, Glow Anyway !

This sentence changed me completely, I realized that the reason for their annoyance was my success and distinction, but I should not cancel my distinction to please them, if they were trying to drag me to the bottom, it would not work anymore, because a real person should be happy for your success and should encourage you, not discourage you.

Therefore, every time I received a negative comment on something that I considered a success for me, I used to block my ear from it. I knew that criticism and attempts to frustrate are only a way to turn you into a stereotypical person in the environment in which you are, because society rejects the idea of ​​distinguishing you from it, but this should not withdraw you. In the back, you have to collect these criticisms and negatives and build a ladder of them towards success.

Negativity is like the black night that surrounds the stars, but does not cover them, but rather makes them shine brightly.

And so are you, ignore the darkness around you, and make criticism your way to develop yourself, aspire towards excellence even if you meet rejection, do not extinguish the light of your success because someone is sleeping in a sea of ​​laziness, continue to shine and as the singer Rihanna says Shine Bright Like A Diamond !