The Season Of Love Series

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There's one thing I learned from 2021 and that is you have to get to the place where you can address the root because a lot of times we hang and dwell on the surface. What I mean by this is really identifying those pain points in your life and looking at the events that has happened in your life that changed who you where and that's plays a part of who you are today.

When you identify those things and dig up the root, and you get to look at it and you get to see and then you're able to say boldly that this happened to me or I saw this happen and that thought me this or that made me feel this or from that I then did this or I belive this about myself and that led to this and that led to this and then now today I am this.. Are you operating from a place of insecurity, scarcity, fear, self hate, limitations, struggle with your emotions and identity. When you see what shapes you, you can identity where the grind comes from..

Now you can see why you behave this way, maybe you are more pessimistic or more aggressive or more unaware of your self, or more disrespectful or more envious, where it all comes from.
Why am I with this attitude? Why am I wanting for more and not being me? Why am I this toxic even to my close relation?"

This year I actually give a lot, even when I don't have that much, but I can't stop myself from doing that.. more like giving too much, but you know how people will expect more after you've given.. what's the root to that, wanting to be loved and appreciated or recognised for being a giver and then maybe I should just give irrespective of what my intentions where..

Where I'm driving towards is for me to stop trying to have the questionable fame and just be me, and if that's how you've started anything constant about you.. check if that is the true intention, are you doing that because you want to or because you want to please others and show off what not.

You would want to be significant, but you've never tapped into your purpose or better living your purpose.. The place you operate from maybe detrimental to your life or hindering your blessings, don't get overwhelmed with what you can get but your happiness. That will eat you up deeply and trust me, there's no progress in that. This coming year should be a revamped you, when you should decide from a stand point to be free, don't do things just to get the glory from friends or family.

You can walk away from all those things, it makes you worried and it's not even good health wise to always seek competition out of nothing. Not saying you shouldn't help when you want to or do several other things out of your jurisdiction, but you will keep doing that with a different mindset which could be dangerous.. Please be yourself, everything will fall in place, do it out of real love.. bless others because you truly feel some thing, don't let it be forced and don't stop being the nicest person the world has ever known even when nobody says it to your face..

We have to learn control, sometimes it shows so much when we do something good that we need to be praised or appreciated.. You may not see all of that happen but deep down you’ve made so many people happy and blessed.. there’s a bigger blessing that awaits a giver and like I will always mention in the past, “A giver is always a receiver” nobody can change that..

This is a season of Love and we have to show unconditional love to everyone who mean a lot to us and that should extend to not just them but to other as well.. it’s 6 days to Christmas, what gifts do you want to get.. I believe good things still happen and you’re going to be among the few ones to receive good gifts..

Merry Christmas in advance.. and this is my little gift for the first lucky viewer..

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Miguel Angel Landa, a great humorist actor used to say: Do good and don't look at whom. He is an example to follow just like you, have a great day.

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I’ve not heard that name before, I will make sure to research.. we must always do good irrespective of getting anything back.. have a great day friend and thanks for the compliment

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He is a Venezuelan comedian, his program was called Welcome. His entry was Welcome to Welcome

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I will surely research deeply on him… there’s a lot to learn… thank you Frank

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Genuine personality with love is the best. You dont have to pretend, but it shows what we really are..

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That’s right, our good works can single us out and anyone who gives always receives it may not be now but with time you’d see those things manifest…

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There is nothing like being original, being yourself. It will help you discover your potentials and purpose in life. Don't try to be what you are not just to please the society. Only you will feel the negative imparts.

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Exactly, it’s always good to be our true self, no matter what the society says… I hope a lot of people will realize this

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We must let Love lead. We must make people happy & joyous, aside these, there is no success.

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That’s right King… that’s the reason for the season, we must show love to others.. thank you

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Very well u said king and a bit lately I m reading this book "The subtle art of not giving a f...." and I am being enlightened with those things also. I will try to publish a review of this book too like I did before

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Please go ahead too… I would love to read it. I’m glad you found meaning in that book..

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2 years ago

Great article 👏

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Thank you King..

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I always know why I am doing something before I begin. So that I can know my purpose and know what I'm going for.

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Well this year is gone already and most of us are just reflecting on how the year went. There's been a lot that has happened and we have learnt from it. We should do what's best for us.

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We should keep being and doing good to others, the reward is not negotiable. The Bible acknowledged it that we should not be weary in doing good in due season we shall reap the fruit

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I wish 2022 brings many opportunities and we should use it effectively. In my country we said “ORE NI WAN” which mean GIVING HAS LIMITS. But no matter how we should try to give and continue giving to the right people.

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Everything will depend on you if you really spread love and happiness then you give more and more love from other person You are best person if you ever tried this one After reading this one article give many more beautiful way of thought in my Mind to happy

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Giving isn’t just to have someone say you do give but an inner satisfaction that we have and it served a purpose… there’s always happiness when we do that.. thank you

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Be yourself and Spread the love. Making people smile is a great gift. Success on life is more about making people happy.

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Very true… Success represents the impact we make in peoples lives.. and not that self satisfaction Isn’t counted as one but we are happy coz someone out there is happy..

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Yes indeed "success is measured by how many people you blessed".

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The coming year should be like an upgraded beginning of who we are are this year. We need to do what we can to be who we are.

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I love this statement about being a different version more like an upgraded self… this is a new regime to solidly stand for who we are and what we represent… thank you Success..

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Wish the coming year brings more blessings and alot of opportunities, Good to see you grow

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Amen!! I’m happy to see you grow as well.. indeed there will be a lot of opportunities on 2022

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All will be well enough brother

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I believe so too… thank you

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Many times I do read your article I do enjoy myself and learn many from it. Heart of giving not lack good things in life, May God raise you more in this coming year

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Amen and may he raise you too beyond your imagination… God bless you for everything.. I really miss you, I noticed you’ve been away for some time

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Yes, am been active some days because I lost my phone, I just get a phone in recent days. Happy Christmas in advance May you achieve your plans dreams and goals Thanks

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It is good to always give. I am glad you gave a lot this year. I pray you have more than enough the next year.

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Amen Giddy… God bless you for all the love and the support… it will be an amazing start to 2022 and everything we desire will manifest..

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I pray 2022 brings more blessings to everyone of us.

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Amen brother… it will be an amazing year for us..

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You know what's best for me in 2021? I have seen you rise. So lovely & energetic guy you are. And I have always learnt something from your articles.

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Thank you Luci… awww this is really lovely and I’ve equally learnt a lot from you too..2022 will be an amazing year for us all

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