Oriental Mindoro : My Forever Home

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3 years ago

I don't know how am I going to start this article. There lots of thoughts coming through my head, but not sure how to put them into words.

It's almost 2 years that we haven't visited our house in our province yet (Oriental Mindoro).

Before pandemic, we used to go home at least twice a year. One is during Summer time and another one is during Christmas season. But since our last trip way back December 2019, we did not had a chance to visit our home again. Reason being is kids are not allowed to travel unless we will declare ourselves as LSI (Locally Stranded Individuals) that lost jobs here and we wanted to go home to the province for good.

This topic is actually in my draft articles list for like 3 weeks already. So now, I decided to pursue this one.

I and my husband are both born in the beautiful province of Oriental Mindoro. We're classmates since High-School.

Our small piece of land.

During our first year of marriage, one of our ex-teacher sold the portion of his land which more or less 500 meters away from our school. When my father in-law learned about it, he contacted my husband right away to ask if we're interested on that land. And so my husband consulted me and without hesitation, I said YES! I want that of course!

But the problem is, we don't have enough money to pay the whole amount in cash. During that time, we only have 60,000 PHP as our savings whereas the total land price is 170,000 Pesos. The lot area by the way is 1000 square meters.

We are not a fan of loans during that time. We relayed the same info to my father in-law and he tried to haggle with our ex-teacher. Luckily, our ex-teacher agreed that we only pay 60,000 PHP as our initial down payment and then 5,000 pesos per month and during bonus month (December), we will pay extra large amount and then continue again with 5,000 pesos per month on the succeeding months until we fully paid the total amount of 170,000 Pesos.

As soon as we've paid the land's full amount, I and my husband decided to build our house there. He resigned in his work, went home to our province, and started with the construction of our house. In other words, I was left in Manila to work while my husband and my eldest son (3 years old at that time) went home to our province so that we can start building our house there.

Every payroll, I used to send my husband 10,000 for the house construction.

Apologies guys, I don't have a clear whole picture of our house . It's not finished yet actually till now due to budget constraints.

That's my son when he was 4 years old.

That Bahay Kubo you can see from the picture is where my husband and son stayed while the other house (bungalow) is under construction.

Beach is just few minutes away from our house.

What I missed the most in our province is the sea.

Our house is only more or less 2 kilometers away from the sea so whenever we're on vacation, we go there every day (before breakfast) to feel the fresh breeze of air in the morning.

The kids also loved to dip their little feet in the seawater. They love running around while enjoying the view.

We usually stay at the beach from 6:00AM till 8:00AM, and then we go home for breakfast.

You'll get entertained without the use of gadgets or television.

In the afternoon, we go to the basketball court to watch the teenagers playing. It's only few steps away from our house.

Also, whenever we go to the province for a vacation, my sisters and brother used to visit us daily hence we eat lunch together and sometimes even dinner.

Those are all my nieces and nephews. The girl in purple shirt is my daughter. She was 3 years old in that picture I guess. Look how independent my little nieces and nephews are. They can eat on their own (nakakamiss).

Cheap cost of living.

I am so missing our simple life in my hometown. We don't need to buy toys for the kids because toys are everywhere!.

This is my son making roads in the sand and use a piece of wood as his car :)..

And most of all, you can eat as many fruits as you can, for FREE!.

This Indian mango tree and banana are planted just beside our house.

And these coconut trees are everywhere around our house. I think there are more or less 10 coconut trees around our house. So our coconut milk, coconut meat, and buko juice are always free.

You'll never get bored in the province. And that's why I am so loved the province life. Cost of living is so cheap!. If you know how to plant, or you know how to catch fishes, your viand can be almost free!.

Only problem there is, it's so difficult to earn money. Wages are also cheap and job opportunities are less.

When everything goes with our plan, I and my husband are planning to go home in our province for good (SOMEDAY).

Apologies guys if I don't have much of pictures to share. But next time, when we will be given an opportunity to go for a vacation again, I will take as many pictures as I can so I can share the beauty of our place to all of you.

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Ako din pag makaipon ako ng pera bibili din ako ng lupa gusto ko din magkaroon ng sariling bahay at sakahan in the future..Kaygandang mamuhay diyan sis maraming nakikita at fresh pa ang hangin hindi tulad dito sa manila..

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3 years ago

totoo sis. Kaya hindi ko talaga ipagpapalit ang buhay probinsya

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3 years ago

You have a lovely home and family. The photo of your nieces and nephews is so lovely. From your write up and display of photos, your family must be a Happy one ❤️. Kudos💪

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3 years ago

yep :)..we have a simple yet happy life :)

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3 years ago

Ang mura naman ng lupa sis, yung sa amin 100sq. meter lang nasa 150k na, hanggang ngayon lupa pa rin, wala pa budget, inubos ni covid. We were also planning on staying for good sa probinsya, un lang mag aadjust si hubby, dayo sya eh😁

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3 years ago

Yes ais.. Mura pa that time.. 10 yrs ago nlpa namin nabili yung lupa.. Hehhe

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3 years ago

oo nga sis, maganda talagang investment ang lupa kasi tumataas ang value, kung marami lang talaga akong pera, kaya lang kapos din

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3 years ago

oo sis..swerte din nakabili kami dito sa cavite malapit dun sa pwesto ng tindahan ng asawa ko. 100 sq. meters din na lupa..

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3 years ago

mas maigi yung sa ganyan nag iinvest kesa mangupahan ano

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3 years ago

ou sis, sabi mo pa..

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3 years ago

Siguro kung walang pandemic nakapasyal na ako diyan sa inyo sis ang ganda po diyan swak sa beach adventure

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3 years ago

opo, Sa Oriental Mindoro din po matatagpuan ang Puerto Gallera :)

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3 years ago

I also miss my province, last 2018 is the also time we visited our province and I miss all the things before. I prefer to live in province due to simple life and also fresh surroundings. Our house was surrounded with large farmland together with trees, the coconut are everywhere that's why it's free to get fruits. In addition, fruits and vegetables are free on soil and waiting to harvest, I remember I love to plant munggo and peanuts before.

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3 years ago

wow! I experienced harvesting monggo beans and peanuts as well :)...monggo beans are usually being planted in a vacant rice fields in our place while the peanut, my grandfather has tried to plant peanuts before hence I am lucky to experience how to harvest peanuts while eating it raw :).

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3 years ago

Sis super ganda ng place nio, perfect na perfect, lahat anjan na

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3 years ago

thank you sa compliment sis. Nakakamiss na nga din magbakasyon

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3 years ago

Naku sinabi mk pa sissy siper nakakamiss

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3 years ago

sana matapos na tong pandemic nang makauwi na ulit kami..hehehe...kawawa din bahay namin dun eh.

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3 years ago

Ang ganda yata nong mansion mo sissy

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3 years ago

naku sis, hindi pa yan tapos hanggang ngayon..hehehe...nagpursue lang kaming magpagawa ng bahay doon sa province para kapag magbabakasyon kami, hindi kami nakikituloy kung kani-kanino..pero yung bahay kubo namin nakatayo pa yun hanggang ngayon

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3 years ago

In fairness sissy ang laki ng mansion mo at mukhang maganda, yap tama ka mahirap talaga nakikituloy

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3 years ago

dami pang need ipagawa dyan sis :)..wala lang kasing budget..hehe

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3 years ago

Ang mura talaga ng lupa sa probinsya sis noh? Ung nabili nming lupa dto sa cavite,225k ang liit pa..

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3 years ago

ou sis. though 10 years ago pa din kasi namin nabili. Ngayon medyo nagtaas na din

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3 years ago

sarap talaga buhay probinsya, napaka peaceful unlike sa city. Tas ang ganda sa inyo kasi malapt lang sa dagat pwede makapag swimming anytime

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3 years ago

kaya nga nakakamiss talaga sis. Tapos ang dagat samin wala pang resort kaya makakaligo ka din talaga ng libre :)..at unlimited ligo pa.

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3 years ago

Kung ako ang papipiliin mas gusto ko papo tumira sa probinsya dahil ang sarap Ng simoy ng hangin at tahimik,kumpara dito sa manila mausok at yung hangin ibang iba kumpara sa hangin sa probinsya hehe tsaka kagaya po ng sinabi nyo makakakain ka talaga ng prutas na libre at fresh pa haha

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3 years ago

truth sis. Kaya nga gusto din namin mag asawa na sa pagtanda namin, doon kami titira sa bahay namin sa probinsya.

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3 years ago

Ganyan din po plano ng mga magulang ko hehe, malapit lang po kasi ang dagat sa bahay Ng Lola ko kaya kahit walang kang cellphone na hawak hindi ka maboboring dahil sa mga tsismosang kapitbahay palang enjoy na enjoy kana HAHAHA

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3 years ago

kaya nga sis. Ang sarap ienjoy ang bawat oras pag nasa province.

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3 years ago

Ang ganda naman jan sis malapit lang sa dagat ,gustong gusto yan ng anak ko

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3 years ago

ou sis..kaya nga nakakamiss. At ang maganda doon sa lugra namin, walang mga resort...Kaya free ka makakaligo sa beaches.

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3 years ago

The truth is if you're not averse to working hard, and working the land (planting) you will not go hungry in the province, especially if you have enough land. This cannot be said in urban areas, where you need to find actual work.

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3 years ago

yes I agree. But sometimes natural calamities can destroy our plants as well. That's one of the major problem in the province. When the crops are destroyed, then harvest might not be enough even for self consumption for the entire period of planting season again.

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3 years ago

That's true, and Mother Nature can be quite harsh. But there are many ways to farm nowadays, and I think that is the advantage of technology, learning these new strategies on how to grow more and protect crops.

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3 years ago

yeah you're right. ..I just hope that the government will have more programs for the farmers.

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3 years ago